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Grown child living in home legal ramification for parent

I still want to be living alone on documents but my son is now living at my address and contributing to bills and repairs. What should I do to keep my status?

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  • marcia_
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    ddcrangle said:
    I still want to be living alone on documents but my son is now living at my address and contributing to bills and repairs. What should I do to keep my status?
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    What are you looking to achieve? Reduce council tax, retain benefits?
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  • LightFlare
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    ddcrangle said:
    I still want to be living alone on documents but my son is now living at my address and contributing to bills and repairs. What should I do to keep my status?
    Kick him out then - if someone is living with you and financially contributing to the household finances, then you aren’t living alone under any level of description- especially as he is a family member

    You “may” be able to use the living alone description if said person was a lodger/tenant with appropriate paperwork to prove it.

    As above - for what reason do you wish to use “living alone”. ?
  • Ayr_Rage
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    edited 20 December 2025 at 10:18AM
    ddcrangle said:
    I still want to be living alone on documents but my son is now living at my address and contributing to bills and repairs. What should I do to keep my status?
    You'll have to tell porkies or kick him out.
  • Is it your own home or a council/housing association home?
  • As above, what documents are you referring to? It will be different for different things. Ie for universal credit you can still be living alone, for council tax you cannot.
  • Sea_Shell
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    It's a little sad that all of the above needs to be thought about and considered, before allowing an adult child to move back into the family home.

    So "businesslike"
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    I guess I understand what you mean about business like but it sounds like it's not a temporary stay and it's 2 adults with legal responsibility.

    That means that while the son is lucky enough to move in with his mum in time of need he is grown up with responsibilities and it's a good learning curve.

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