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Travelling to Dubai as a queer person

My brother lives there and he would like me to visit him. However, being a queer person I'm afraid of my security. Do you have experiences in travelling to Dubai and did you feel safe?

Thanks!

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  • MyRealNameToo
    MyRealNameToo Posts: 2,529 Forumite
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    My brother lives there and he would like me to visit him. However, being a queer person I'm afraid of my security. Do you have experiences in travelling to Dubai and did you feel safe?
    Dubai is a very mixed place, it has a strong islamic history but presents as a modern cosmopolitan city. Importantly its laws are still based on Shira so homosexuality and transgender is still illegal. Generally what happens in private however is tolerated. 

    Generally its still relatively conservative outside of the hotels, any public display of affection doesnt go down too well nor excessive showing of flesh. Add to that any other considerations and your compounding the problem. 

    Its conflicted though, remember being in the hotel lobby and a group of women in niqab (full face veils) turned up then a tray of champagne with straws was served to them and were quickly drank under the veil. 

    We have friends who live in Dubai working for Emirates. They are a gay couple and they love it there but when in public you'd assume they were friends not a couple 

    Plenty of specialist media opine on these matters though https://www.outofoffice.com/en-gb/blog/gay-travel-dubai-law-vs-reality/
  • la531983
    la531983 Posts: 3,615 Forumite
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    I imagine you would be absolutely fine unless you were planning to walk around with your tongue down another blokes throat lol.
  • MattMattMattUK
    MattMattMattUK Posts: 11,923 Forumite
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    My brother lives there and he would like me to visit him. However, being a queer person I'm afraid of my security. Do you have experiences in travelling to Dubai and did you feel safe?

    Thanks!
    Personally I would not go to Dubai as I object to it's government on moral grounds, but unless you are planning in engaging in homosexual behaviour whilst out there you are unlikely to have any issues, the only other issue might be that if your devices were accessed for other reasons and you had pornographic homosexual material on your devices.
  • born_again
    born_again Posts: 22,077 Forumite
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    Work colleague & his partner often travel to Dubai to see likewise friends living there. 
    Like many countries, respect their local culture. 
    Life in the slow lane
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