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Advice on my predicament please - ex partner and joint mortgaged property
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Hi, yes it is just a religious ceremony but in the eyes of English law not married. She is joint tenants when adding her to the mortgage and deeds simultaneously.0
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Others will be able to give you much better advice on the financial aspects, but I wondered, if you were happy to have a baby with your wife just over a year ago and it's turned toxic in such a short space of time, if she has post natal depression.
Might be worth researching and gently proposing some support solutions to her.
Even if your relationship can't be salvaged, it may help you both be in a better emotional place to deal with the legalitieshttps://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase
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