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Wills / Financial Planning
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Can I be forced to sell property to fund care costs?
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Who gets the Spanish property?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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Smidge1524 said:Can I be forced to sell property to fund care costs?
Also if both you and your partner are living in the UK home and you need residential care the house would be disregarded in any financial assessment as it is your partners home as well.1 -
Smidge1524 said:I am very nervous giving personal information on the internet! However, I am widowed, so is my partner. We live together in both properties as man & wife and have done for 12 years. He shares all costs; maintenance & living. Uk property £260k. May return to uk permanently within 5 years. Partner has his own income via his pensions. Don’t want him homeless if I die first. Don’t want to leave anything to him as he has no family.
What you could do with your will is leave your house to your family and give your partner a life time interest. This would, on your death, create an immediate post death interest trust that would allow him to live there for as long as he needs and protect your family’s inheritance. I recomend you consult a STEP qualified solicitor for this, and if you do it, consider marring your partner or forming a civil partnership as this can lead to being hit with an IHT and CGT liability that would not apply to married couples or civil partners.
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Keep_pedalling said:Smidge1524 said:I am very nervous giving personal information on the internet! However, I am widowed, so is my partner. We live together in both properties as man & wife and have done for 12 years. He shares all costs; maintenance & living. Uk property £260k. May return to uk permanently within 5 years. Partner has his own income via his pensions. Don’t want him homeless if I die first. Don’t want to leave anything to him as he has no family.
What you could do with your will is leave your house to your family and give your partner a life time interest. This would, on your death, create an immediate post death interest trust that would allow him to live there for as long as he needs and protect your family’s inheritance. I recomend you consult a STEP qualified solicitor for this, and if you do it, consider marring your partner or forming a civil partnership as this can lead to being hit with an IHT and CGT liability that would not apply to married couples or civil partners.Signature removed for peace of mind1 -
Also, if he remarried or cohabited, would the new couple be allowed to remain indefinitely? We've also seen some shocking practices when the survivor sold or tried to sell a property and massively reduce the remainderman's (grandkids in your case) share of the equity.
And if he went into care, could he use the equity to pay for care or not? Which may leave your grandchildren with little or nothing.
You need a hard, hard, discussion with your STEP solicitor and time to think without influence before deciding what you want.
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
RAS said:Also, if he remarried or cohabited, would the new couple be allowed to remain indefinitely? We've also seen some shocking practices when the survivor sold or tried to sell a property and massively reduce the remainderman's (grandkids in your case) share of the equity.
And if he went into care, could he use the equity to pay for care or not? Which may leave your grandchildren with little or nothing.
You need a hard, hard, discussion with your STEP solicitor and time to think without influence before deciding what you want.0
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