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  • Can I be forced to sell property to fund care costs? 

  • RAS
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  • Keep_pedalling
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    edited 24 September at 11:58AM
    Can I be forced to sell property to fund care costs? 

    That is usually only the case if you have no other assets but you have another property so if you ever need residential care you hopefully will have funds to cover that.

    Also if both you and your partner are living in the UK home and you need residential care the house would be disregarded in any financial assessment as it is your partners home as well. 
  • Keep_pedalling
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    edited 24 September at 12:03PM
    I am very nervous giving personal information on the internet! However, I am widowed, so is my partner. We live together in both properties as man & wife and have done for 12 years. He shares all costs; maintenance & living. Uk property £260k. May return to uk permanently within 5 years. Partner has his own income via his pensions. Don’t want him homeless if I die first. Don’t want to leave anything to him as he has no family.
    As you are widowed your estate can take advantage of the transferable NRB from your deceased spouse so up to £650k, well over your current your UK assets so I don’t think you need worry about IHT.

    What you could do with your will is leave your house to your family and give your partner a life time interest. This would, on your death, create an immediate post death interest trust that would allow him to live there for as long as he needs and protect your family’s inheritance. I recomend you consult a STEP qualified solicitor for this, and if you do it, consider marring your partner or forming a civil partnership as this can lead to being hit with an IHT and CGT liability that would not apply to married couples or civil partners.

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    I am very nervous giving personal information on the internet! However, I am widowed, so is my partner. We live together in both properties as man & wife and have done for 12 years. He shares all costs; maintenance & living. Uk property £260k. May return to uk permanently within 5 years. Partner has his own income via his pensions. Don’t want him homeless if I die first. Don’t want to leave anything to him as he has no family.
    As you are widowed your estate can take advantage of the transferable NRB from your deceased spouse so up to £650k, well over your current your UK assets so I don’t think you need worry about IHT.

    What you could do with your will is leave your house to your family and give your partner a life time interest. This would, on your death, create an immediate post death interest trust that would allow him to live there for as long as he needs and protect your family’s inheritance. I recomend you consult a STEP qualified solicitor for this, and if you do it, consider marring your partner or forming a civil partnership as this can lead to being hit with an IHT and CGT liability that would not apply to married couples or civil partners.

    Also discuss with said STEP solicitor what is intended by "as long as he needs", and what would trigger the ending of that right, and what might happen if, for example, he was able to continue to live independently but needed somewhere smaller / level access / disability friendly. If he'd be in a position to fund such a purchase himself, then clearly that would be a time to sell the house and pass the proceeds on to your family. And that would apply even if you were married / in a civil partnership.
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    Also, if he remarried or cohabited, would the new couple  be allowed to remain indefinitely? We've also seen some shocking practices when the survivor sold or tried to sell a property and massively reduce the remainderman's (grandkids in your case) share of the equity.

    And if he went into care, could he use the equity to pay for care or not? Which may leave your grandchildren with little or nothing.

    You need a hard, hard, discussion with your STEP solicitor and time to think without influence before deciding what you want.

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  • Keep_pedalling
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    RAS said:
    Also, if he remarried or cohabited, would the new couple  be allowed to remain indefinitely? We've also seen some shocking practices when the survivor sold or tried to sell a property and massively reduce the remainderman's (grandkids in your case) share of the equity.

    And if he went into care, could he use the equity to pay for care or not? Which may leave your grandchildren with little or nothing.

    You need a hard, hard, discussion with your STEP solicitor and time to think without influence before deciding what you want.

    None of that should happen with a properly drafted will and appointing suitable trustees (in this case probably the OPs children).
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