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Equity split (non married)
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hardup46
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I own my home 50/50 with my ex. I've lived here for 4 years with our daughter. The house is currently on the market. I would like to push for slightly more of the equity, I've paid full mortgage and maintenance the whole time. I have in writing that he thinks he has no responsibility in any way for the house since he moved out.
Do you think I have a TOLATA claim for a slightly higher percentage of the equity seeing as I've paid the mortgage and need a full time home for daughter?
Do you think I have a TOLATA claim for a slightly higher percentage of the equity seeing as I've paid the mortgage and need a full time home for daughter?
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50/50 is just the starting point normally for married couples as far as I'm aware. I'd say it's where the negotiation starts. If he agrees you could decide on any split you wanted.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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No basis to make that claim.
You've benefitted from sole use of the property whilst he's had to meet his housing needs elsewhere.
Any extra claim you have for paying the mortgage is offset against occupational rent owed to him.
https://ellisons.com/news/occupational-rent-what-is-it-and-when-should-it-be-considered-when-separating/
Child maintainance covers the extra costs involved regarding the child.
Non-married means your options to negotiate are far fewer - the house is owned 50/50 and thats the share your ex is entitled to.
Had you been married it could ultimately be for a judge to decide with a financial-consent order, but thats not applicable if not married.
You'd need to speak to a solicitor on whether there are any other alternatives possibky resulting from the requirement to meet the child's housing needs - but I'd imagine the costs to push for any hypothetical future ruling would be substantial - plus I'd imagine you'd have to demonstrate why what your asking for is strictly *necessary* for the interests of the child, given it would essentially be a judge depriving your ex of his property.1 -
Just to add, we have never been married and are tenants in common. I'm also in the process of getting legal advice, just on here to gage opinion and experiences.0
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hardup46 said:Just to add, we have never been married and are tenants in common. I'm also in the process of getting legal advice, just on here to gage opinion and experiences.2
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Have a read of Jones V Kernott. It may be helpful, although IIRC there were no kids involved.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.2
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hardup46 said:Just to add, we have never been married and are tenants in common. I'm also in the process of getting legal advice, just on here to gage opinion and experiences.
The whole point if tenants in common is you each own a specific share of the property (which is inheritable if you die i.e. your next of kin would then own that share). In your case, its 50/50 - it would be pretty remarkable for a judge to overturn an written deed of trust (as opposed to a joint tenancy arrangement where the actual % of ownership is unspecified & potentially room for interpretation).
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Perhaps a better way of putting it is that the share is deemed to be 50/50 unless there is a deed of trust specifying otherwise0
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