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Iambamboozled
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Please would someone help me. Via our solicitors, I am dealing with an Attorney who is acting on behalf of her husband. The Power of Attorney was done when the husband had capacity but has now lost capacity. The POA states that he has complete control over his affairs whilst he has capacity - his wife can only do what she is instructed to do. So when he loses capacity how does the Attorney (wife) become a person with control and without the husband pulling the strings? Many thanks.
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This is why it is wise to choose your POA very carefully, as you are trusting them to make decisions for you, when you are no longer able to make them for yourself. The decisions must absolutely be in your best interests. It means his wife can make decisions about his medical treatment (although it has been known for hospitals to get decisions overruled if the medical staff believe the decision is not in the patient’s best interests). If it’s a financial POA it means she can access his personal accounts, for example to pay bills.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Competition Time, Site Feedback and Marriage, Relationships and Families boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com All views are my own and not the official line of Money Saving Expert.0
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Misslayed said:This is why it is wise to choose your POA very carefully, as you are trusting them to make decisions for you, when you are no longer able to make them for yourself. The decisions must absolutely be in your best interests. It means his wife can make decisions about his medical treatment (although it has been known for hospitals to get decisions overruled if the medical staff believe the decision is not in the patient’s best interests). If it’s a financial POA it means she can access his personal accounts, for example to pay bills.0
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Iambamboozled said:Please would someone help me. Via our solicitors, I am dealing with an Attorney who is acting on behalf of her husband. The Power of Attorney was done when the husband had capacity but has now lost capacity. The POA states that he has complete control over his affairs whilst he has capacity - his wife can only do what she is instructed to do. So when he loses capacity how does the Attorney (wife) become a person with control and without the husband pulling the strings? Many thanks.0
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Went through something similar with my uncle a couple years back. He had a POA set up while he still had full capacity, and it had similar wording, basically that his attorney (his daughter) could only act on his instructions while he was still capable. Once he was formally assessed and deemed to have lost capacity (we got a letter from his GP confirming it), the POA allowed her to step in fully and manage everything. There wasn’t any extra paperwork needed beyond that medical confirmation. It was a bit unclear at first, but once we had that, things moved more smoothly.0
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Barkin said:Iambamboozled said:Please would someone help me. Via our solicitors, I am dealing with an Attorney who is acting on behalf of her husband. The Power of Attorney was done when the husband had capacity but has now lost capacity. The POA states that he has complete control over his affairs whilst he has capacity - his wife can only do what she is instructed to do. So when he loses capacity how does the Attorney (wife) become a person with control and without the husband pulling the strings? Many thanks.0
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Rose1509 said:Went through something similar with my uncle a couple years back. He had a POA set up while he still had full capacity, and it had similar wording, basically that his attorney (his daughter) could only act on his instructions while he was still capable. Once he was formally assessed and deemed to have lost capacity (we got a letter from his GP confirming it), the POA allowed her to step in fully and manage everything. There wasn’t any extra paperwork needed beyond that medical confirmation. It was a bit unclear at first, but once we had that, things moved more smoothly.0
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Iambamboozled said:Barkin said:Iambamboozled said:Please would someone help me. Via our solicitors, I am dealing with an Attorney who is acting on behalf of her husband. The Power of Attorney was done when the husband had capacity but has now lost capacity. The POA states that he has complete control over his affairs whilst he has capacity - his wife can only do what she is instructed to do. So when he loses capacity how does the Attorney (wife) become a person with control and without the husband pulling the strings? Many thanks.
A medical professional will need to provide a mental health assessment.
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Barkin said:Iambamboozled said:Barkin said:Iambamboozled said:Please would someone help me. Via our solicitors, I am dealing with an Attorney who is acting on behalf of her husband. The Power of Attorney was done when the husband had capacity but has now lost capacity. The POA states that he has complete control over his affairs whilst he has capacity - his wife can only do what she is instructed to do. So when he loses capacity how does the Attorney (wife) become a person with control and without the husband pulling the strings? Many thanks.
A medical professional will need to provide a mental health assessment.0 -
Just checking what sort of Power of Attorney? Lasting, Enduring or simple? The processes are different. For an LPA, I'd normally to expect the Attorney to have been advised of lack of capacity by medical professionals.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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RAS said:Just checking what sort of Power of Attorney? Lasting, Enduring or simple? The processes are different. For an LPA, I'd normally to expect the Attorney to have been advised of lack of capacity by medical professionals.0
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