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Advice re contentious will please
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doodling said:Hi,Flowerpotperson said:
I am joint Executer in my recently deceased uncles will. There are a number of beneficiaries split across two families. The estate has not been divided equally, with the lion share going to the residuary beneficiary. She stands to inherit a substantial life changing amount of money, and is unwilling to do the honourable thing and share it amongst the other beneficiaries.
All of the other beneficiaries are very unhappy with this and may challenge the will.
As Executer and Trustee is there anything that I can do to split the estate in a more equitable way. Within the will I have been given the power to re direct assets to other benefices (i.e. his property), but I’m not sure if the residuary beneficiary would need to agree to this, and what the procedure would be to do this.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
My advice to the executor would also be to do the honorable thing and respect the deceased's wishes.0 -
How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷0
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marcia_ said:How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷
The moral of this story is not to make a will and forget it. Sometimes it is better to die intestate than die with an old will that takes no account in changes in relationships and tax law. That lovely 10 year old you wanted to leave your estate to is now a 30 year old serial killer but still inherits because you did not review that 20 year old will.3 -
The moral of the story is that the deceased gets vilified . With the entire focus on the amount of money left and who gets it.3
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Keep_pedalling said:marcia_ said:How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷
The moral of this story is not to make a will and forget it. Sometimes it is better to die intestate than die with an old will that takes no account in changes in relationships and tax law. That lovely 10 year old you wanted to leave your estate to is now a 30 year old serial killer but still inherits because you did not review that 20 year old will.
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Section62 said:Keep_pedalling said:marcia_ said:How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷
The moral of this story is not to make a will and forget it. Sometimes it is better to die intestate than die with an old will that takes no account in changes in relationships and tax law. That lovely 10 year old you wanted to leave your estate to is now a 30 year old serial killer but still inherits because you did not review that 20 year old will.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:marcia_ said:How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷
The moral of this story is not to make a will and forget it. Sometimes it is better to die intestate than die with an old will that takes no account in changes in relationships and tax law. That lovely 10 year old you wanted to leave your estate to is now a 30 year old serial killer but still inherits because you did not review that 20 year old will.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!2 -
Section62 said:Keep_pedalling said:marcia_ said:How and why would it be the honourable thing? She was left it they were not for a reason only the giver knew 🤷
The moral of this story is not to make a will and forget it. Sometimes it is better to die intestate than die with an old will that takes no account in changes in relationships and tax law. That lovely 10 year old you wanted to leave your estate to is now a 30 year old serial killer but still inherits because you did not review that 20 year old will.
I made my will 5 years ago. I'm as happy today with the distribution as I was 5 years ago, and I expect I'll still be happy with it in another 5 years - if not I'll be back to the Solicitors to have a new one.
Ultimately the testator chose not to make a new will, and they're not around to answer questions, so the will must be taken as their definitive answer on the question of who should get their assets.5
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