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Helping daughter to buy house whilst she uses her LISA
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Rheumatoid
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Thinking of helping my daughter buy her first house either by gifting her a large sum (£50k+) or buying part of the house with her (probably 20%). I would rather do this than her have to buy using shared ownership.
I appreciate if I just gift I would need to waive any interest in the property.
The property she is looking at is around £275k
Do either of these have implications for her using her LISA (around £50k)
Thanks
I appreciate if I just gift I would need to waive any interest in the property.
The property she is looking at is around £275k
Do either of these have implications for her using her LISA (around £50k)
Thanks
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It depends if you expect any money back.
AFAIK there may be difficulty in securing a 'sole borrower, joint proprietor' arrangement and may require parties on the deeds to be parties to the mortgage, a gifted deposit would be much easier to do.
Of course in the latter, there is a higher risk your daughter could get divorced in the future and lose half the amount you gave her, but that's life.
No issue with the LISA, she can use it in any case.Know what you don't0 -
Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.16 Panel (250W JASolar) 4kWp, facing 170 degrees, 40 degree slope, Solis Inverter. Installed 29/9/2015 - £4700 (Norfolk Solar Together Scheme); 9.6kWh US2000C Pylontech batteries + Solis Inverter installed 12/4/2022 Year target (PVGIS-CMSAF) = 3880kWh - Installer estimate 3452 kWh:Average over 6 years = 4400 :j0 -
Rheumatoid said:Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.
We see from posts on here that some solicitors are a bit over zealous on this point, but I have just been through this process and it was easy enough with the solicitors involved .2 -
Rheumatoid said:Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.
A very good point - I remember my ex's father being extremely reluctant to provide a copy of his bank statement. I don't know what the exact reasoning was, but I can understand the emotions behind it (e.g. invasion of privacy, etc). In the end, we linked him and the solicitor up so he could talk about it and send it across privately.Albermarle said:Rheumatoid said:Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.
We see from posts on here that some solicitors are a bit over zealous on this point, but I have just been through this process and it was easy enough with the solicitors involved .Know what you don't0 -
Exodi said:Rheumatoid said:Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.16 Panel (250W JASolar) 4kWp, facing 170 degrees, 40 degree slope, Solis Inverter. Installed 29/9/2015 - £4700 (Norfolk Solar Together Scheme); 9.6kWh US2000C Pylontech batteries + Solis Inverter installed 12/4/2022 Year target (PVGIS-CMSAF) = 3880kWh - Installer estimate 3452 kWh:Average over 6 years = 4400 :j0 -
My daughter is currently buying her first house (hopefully exchange and completion in the next week or so) and she is using her LISA and a gifted deposit from me. I have had to complete the form to say that I will have no interest in the property etc. and did have to provide details of where the gift came from. As it was from my savings account they wanted to see bank statements for 6 months to show me sending the deposits to the savings account - which took some time as I have several current accounts and just squirreled money from all of them, and all accounts are paperless. However it has all been done now and I'm just waiting to be given the nod to send the cash to the solicitors. I don't have any experience of your other scenario but this has been fairly straightforward. It's worked out really well too as although the mortgage payment was initially a hundred pounds or so dearer than daughter's rent she has just been given a slightly reduced mortgage rate and her landlord has put her rent up starting in August so the difference is much smaller.0
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Rheumatoid said:Exodi said:Rheumatoid said:Thanks. She is not married and is buying on her own (unless I get involved).
I tend to agree that gifting is the cleanest option.
The easiest answer would be she happens to meet someone with £50k+ in the bank who can buy in so they have equal-ish contributions, of course it's probably a tad optimistic.
And lastly, we see very often that people can be blinded by love and a tad naive, and so many people rush into joint tenant arrangements, despite one person putting in all the money, because 'we don't plan on breaking up'.
But I didn't mean to make a big point about it, it was just a minor consideration of gifting a deposit (as there is a lot of emotion involved should the worse happen in a decade and the ex takes half the money with them).Know what you don't1 -
The easiest answer would be she happens to meet someone with £50k+ in the bank who can buy in so they have equal-ish contributions, of course it's probably a tad optimistic.
Even better if it was £500K0
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