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SDLT again after a break up

RedRoverCA1
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My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
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This is nothing to do with your marital status. It is because you had not purchased the property as joint tenants.1
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Mark_d said:This is nothing to do with your marital status. It is because you had not purchased the property as joint tenants.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.2
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@RedRoverCA1, I’ll move this to the house buying board.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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RedRoverCA1 said:My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
In fact this time you get the full the band allowances for that 50% share you're buying, while ex will have to pay 100% of the SDLT if / when they buy a new property, so you're probably come off quite well.
Re the rules for marriage - theres several differences not just this, some come out better, some come out worse if you're married. Is what it is.0 -
silvercar said:Mark_d said:This is nothing to do with your marital status. It is because you had not purchased the property as joint tenants.2
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RedRoverCA1 said:My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
I wonder if the £60,000 paid on the 2022 purchase included the 3% extra for additional properties? The surcharge for additional properties is now 5%. If you might otherwise face the extra 5% (if you have other property interests) then there is a rule which might help you. It switches off the 5% surcharge for "enlarging" an interest. You must start with at least a 25% share and have lived in the property throughout all of the last three years to benefit from the rule.2 -
Mark_d said:This is nothing to do with your marital status. It is because you had not purchased the property as joint tenants.1
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saajan_12 said:RedRoverCA1 said:My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
In fact this time you get the full the band allowances for that 50% share you're buying, while ex will have to pay 100% of the SDLT if / when they buy a new property, so you're probably come off quite well.
Re the rules for marriage - theres several differences not just this, some come out better, some come out worse if you're married. Is what it is.0 -
SDLT_Geek said:RedRoverCA1 said:My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
I wonder if the £60,000 paid on the 2022 purchase included the 3% extra for additional properties? The surcharge for additional properties is now 5%. If you might otherwise face the extra 5% (if you have other property interests) then there is a rule which might help you. It switches off the 5% surcharge for "enlarging" an interest. You must start with at least a 25% share and have lived in the property throughout all of the last three years to benefit from the rule.1 -
RedRoverCA1 said:saajan_12 said:RedRoverCA1 said:My partner and I bought our house in 2022, paying c.£60k SDLT. Unfortunately, we have broken up and I am buying her out; we are unmarried. We had a deed of trust in place to confirm our unequal share of our initial deposits.
I am astonished to find that as part of the buy-out, I now have another SDLT charge based on the buy-out cash consideration and 50% of the existing outstanding joint mortgage I am now taking on (I will become the 100% sole mortgage holder and home owner).
It seems I am being penalised for not being married and it is painful to pay yet more SDLT for the same property purchase! Do forum members know differently or have any suggestions?
Thanks.
In fact this time you get the full the band allowances for that 50% share you're buying, while ex will have to pay 100% of the SDLT if / when they buy a new property, so you're probably come off quite well.
Re the rules for marriage - theres several differences not just this, some come out better, some come out worse if you're married. Is what it is.
you are not justified in crying that such a decision has "unfair" ramifications at a later date.0
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