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  • General_Grant
    General_Grant Posts: 5,282 Forumite
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    Uriziel said:
    Uriziel said:
    The only thing OP should be doing is resign immediately and look for a new job 
    If the OP reaches the conclusion that a change of employer is their best course of action, I would strongly suggest the alternative sequencing to that suggested.  Secure the new job first and then resign.
    OP has clearly been at the company for a very long time and has a notice period of several months so he should be handing in his notice as soon as he can. No employer is going to wait several months for him.
    Where does it say the notice period he has to give is "several months"?
    If he has been there, say, nine years, he would be due 9 weeks notice from the employer but could be on a contract that requires one month or less.
  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 22,548 Forumite
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    Bartoni79 said:
    I was told by a “concerned party” to respond to “have something in writing”  that I don’t agree with it as a number of other issues had taken place…
    No other roles are nearby so it’s a bit tricky leaving..


    Follow the advice of the ‘concerned person’ or follow the advice given on here. 

    It is your choice. 
  • Bartoni79
    Bartoni79 Posts: 143 Forumite
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    I wasn’t asking for advice on whether or not to send an email… I was asking for advice on the wording… Thanks for the comments 
  • Undervalued
    Undervalued Posts: 9,587 Forumite
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    Bartoni79 said:
    I wasn’t asking for advice on whether or not to send an email… I was asking for advice on the wording… Thanks for the comments 
    It is a public discussion forum and not restricted to answering specific questions. 

    Sometimes the best advice is that you least wish to hear!
  • GingerTim
    GingerTim Posts: 2,615 Forumite
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    There not being any other roles in the area is all the more reason not to respond.
  • HedgehogRulez
    HedgehogRulez Posts: 129 Forumite
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    Sounds like you were deemed not competent for the role. Have you tried upskilling yourself?
  • prowla
    prowla Posts: 13,990 Forumite
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    Uriziel said:
    prowla said:
    Sit back and let things run their course.
    This is the worst thing you can do because the new woman will be going to him for help and will have no choice but to help her unless he wants to refuse and make himself an even bigger problem. If he does help she will be getting all the credit and they will say that they made a great choice by hiring her. The only thing OP should be doing is resign immediately and look for a new job at a company where he will be promoted quickly as long they base their merit process on actual merit. If he is as competent as he says he is the old employer will run into problems. Nothing will change from him staying and he will run into health problems due to all the stress and being treated like a dog.
    So, the option you recommend is to resign immediately.
    Some might say that is the worst thing you can do...

  • Nothanks
    Nothanks Posts: 200 Forumite
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    If this new starter is as poor as you say then she won’t be there long and you can reapply and do better at interview. Arguing with the interview feedback just guarantees you won’t get it next time. 

    Arguing with feedback is nearly always pointless. Someone is giving you their opinion on your performance. You can either accept it and act on it or you think they’re wrong and you don’t act on it, thank them and move on. 
    Union official.
    CiPD qualified.

    Anything I post is solely MY OPINION. It never constitutes legal, financial or collective bargaining advice. I may tell you based on information given how I might approach an employment dispute case, but you should always seek advice from your own Union representative. If you don't have one, get one!
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