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Uriziel said:Grumpy_chap said:Uriziel said:The only thing OP should be doing is resign immediately and look for a new job
If he has been there, say, nine years, he would be due 9 weeks notice from the employer but could be on a contract that requires one month or less.1 -
Bartoni79 said:I was told by a “concerned party” to respond to “have something in writing” that I don’t agree with it as a number of other issues had taken place…
No other roles are nearby so it’s a bit tricky leaving..
You asked for and have received your interview feedback. Further action by you will be seen as "argumentative", "disgruntled employee", "not a team player" even "time-waster". None of which will endear you to management nor suggest you are promotion material.
There are times in life when you have to bite your tongue, this is one of them.If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales6 -
Bartoni79 said:I was told by a “concerned party” to respond to “have something in writing” that I don’t agree with it as a number of other issues had taken place…
No other roles are nearby so it’s a bit tricky leaving..
Follow the advice of the ‘concerned person’ or follow the advice given on here.It is your choice.0 -
I wasn’t asking for advice on whether or not to send an email… I was asking for advice on the wording… Thanks for the comments
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Well, I am with the majority in the thread that raising the issue any further does not seem as though it would necessarily be to your benefit.Bartoni79 said:I wasn’t asking for advice on whether or not to send an email… I was asking for advice on the wording… Thanks for the comments
If you are dead-set on raising the issue regardless, then an informal approach might be better than a formal letter.
Whether a letter or something less formal, I would structure this along the lines of thanking them for the opportunity and the valuable feedback, stress your commitment to the business, how much you like working there and would dearly love to be able to develop your future there while also supporting the future growth of the business, and then to ask how you might prepare and enhance your skillset such that when a future opportunity arises, you have the credentials to be their first choice.
If you must raise the issue that is, while noting that I would not raise the issue further if this was me personally.Bartoni79 said:I was told by a “concerned party” to respond to “have something in writing” that I don’t agree with it as a number of other issues had taken place…5 -
Bartoni79 said:I wasn’t asking for advice on whether or not to send an email… I was asking for advice on the wording… Thanks for the comments
Sometimes the best advice is that you least wish to hear!4 -
There not being any other roles in the area is all the more reason not to respond.2
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Sounds like you were deemed not competent for the role. Have you tried upskilling yourself?0
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Uriziel said:prowla said:Sit back and let things run their course.So, the option you recommend is to resign immediately.Some might say that is the worst thing you can do...
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If this new starter is as poor as you say then she won’t be there long and you can reapply and do better at interview. Arguing with the interview feedback just guarantees you won’t get it next time.Arguing with feedback is nearly always pointless. Someone is giving you their opinion on your performance. You can either accept it and act on it or you think they’re wrong and you don’t act on it, thank them and move on.Union official.
CiPD qualified.
Anything I post is solely MY OPINION. It never constitutes legal, financial or collective bargaining advice. I may tell you based on information given how I might approach an employment dispute case, but you should always seek advice from your own Union representative. If you don't have one, get one!0
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