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How can I upskill into something that doesn't require me to be smart?

SneakySpectator
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I'm not a smart person, and that's fine, not everyone is. I've always failed academically and I've tried a handful of times at things which require a brain, like software development and I just can't do it. My brain simply isn't capable of grasping abstract complex things.
I'm also not the greatest when it comes to social situations and people skills, sure I can hold down a conversation but I would struggle to hold a presentation in front of a crowd.
Anyway I currently work in a supermarket and while I don't love it, I don't hate it either, I'm actually quite content with it. But I am witnessing to slow decline in the quality of life in this industry.
Premiums being cut, increased workloads, reduced over time hours, understaffed etc and as these companies squeeze their staff for ever increasing profits for their shareholders, I can only see things getting worse.
So I'd like to try and get a skill that actually allows me to earn a wage somewhere in the region of £35,000 - £40,000, currently I'm earning £28,000 before tax.
I thought about becoming a HGV driver, and I know this may sound like an excuse, but I already have really bad driving anxiety just from driving a car so being behind the wheel of a 40 ton lorry where one wrong move could easily kill someone is not something I want to think about every time I get behind the wheel.
Ideally I'd like a career that allows me to get my foot in the door without a degree, then working my way up to a higher salary via experience.
I'm also not the greatest when it comes to social situations and people skills, sure I can hold down a conversation but I would struggle to hold a presentation in front of a crowd.
Anyway I currently work in a supermarket and while I don't love it, I don't hate it either, I'm actually quite content with it. But I am witnessing to slow decline in the quality of life in this industry.
Premiums being cut, increased workloads, reduced over time hours, understaffed etc and as these companies squeeze their staff for ever increasing profits for their shareholders, I can only see things getting worse.
So I'd like to try and get a skill that actually allows me to earn a wage somewhere in the region of £35,000 - £40,000, currently I'm earning £28,000 before tax.
I thought about becoming a HGV driver, and I know this may sound like an excuse, but I already have really bad driving anxiety just from driving a car so being behind the wheel of a 40 ton lorry where one wrong move could easily kill someone is not something I want to think about every time I get behind the wheel.
Ideally I'd like a career that allows me to get my foot in the door without a degree, then working my way up to a higher salary via experience.
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SneakySpectator said:I'm not a smart person, and that's fine, not everyone is. I've always failed academically and I've tried a handful of times at things which require a brain, like software development and I just can't do it. My brain simply isn't capable of grasping abstract complex things.
I'm also not the greatest when it comes to social situations and people skills, sure I can hold down a conversation but I would struggle to hold a presentation in front of a crowd.
Anyway I currently work in a supermarket and while I don't love it, I don't hate it either, I'm actually quite content with it. But I am witnessing to slow decline in the quality of life in this industry.
Premiums being cut, increased workloads, reduced over time hours, understaffed etc and as these companies squeeze their staff for ever increasing profits for their shareholders, I can only see things getting worse.
So I'd like to try and get a skill that actually allows me to earn a wage somewhere in the region of £35,000 - £40,000, currently I'm earning £28,000 before tax.
I thought about becoming a HGV driver, and I know this may sound like an excuse, but I already have really bad driving anxiety just from driving a car so being behind the wheel of a 40 ton lorry where one wrong move could easily kill someone is not something I want to think about every time I get behind the wheel.
Ideally I'd like a career that allows me to get my foot in the door without a degree, then working my way up to a higher salary via experience.
Promotions in the Civil Service require you to apply for a new job for every step up the ladder - it's not a case of someone tapping you on the shoulder and promoting you, so you would need to be proactive to move upwards.
Whilst a degree isn't a pre requisite for most CS roles, the skills a degree gives you are needed. On a practical level how is your knowledge of things like MS Word and Excel?
And to be clear, you would be competing against people with degrees.1 -
SneakySpectator said:I'm not a smart person, and that's fine, not everyone is. I've always failed academically and I've tried a handful of times at things which require a brain, like software development and I just can't do it. My brain simply isn't capable of grasping abstract complex things.
I'm also not the greatest when it comes to social situations and people skills, sure I can hold down a conversation but I would struggle to hold a presentation in front of a crowd.
Anyway I currently work in a supermarket and while I don't love it, I don't hate it either, I'm actually quite content with it. But I am witnessing to slow decline in the quality of life in this industry.
Premiums being cut, increased workloads, reduced over time hours, understaffed etc and as these companies squeeze their staff for ever increasing profits for their shareholders, I can only see things getting worse.
So I'd like to try and get a skill that actually allows me to earn a wage somewhere in the region of £35,000 - £40,000, currently I'm earning £28,000 before tax.
I thought about becoming a HGV driver, and I know this may sound like an excuse, but I already have really bad driving anxiety just from driving a car so being behind the wheel of a 40 ton lorry where one wrong move could easily kill someone is not something I want to think about every time I get behind the wheel.
Ideally I'd like a career that allows me to get my foot in the door without a degree, then working my way up to a higher salary via experience.1 -
Also @SneakySpectator I hope this isn't another of your "discussion" threads.2
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Emmia said:Also @SneakySpectator I hope this isn't another of your "discussion" threads.0
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Are you practical? You could go and do an apprenticeship in a trade.0
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Look at jumping to another supermarket as a supervisor or team leader. Trouble is you will need to move on to assistant manager to get the pay lavel you want.1
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HampshireH said:Are you practical? You could go and do an apprenticeship in a trade.
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SneakySpectator said:HampshireH said:Are you practical? You could go and do an apprenticeship in a trade.
Could you do a leadership programme through work?
Most supermarkets have something along these lines and the skills will be transferable0 -
HampshireH said:SneakySpectator said:HampshireH said:Are you practical? You could go and do an apprenticeship in a trade.
Could you do a leadership programme through work?
Most supermarkets have something along these lines and the skills will be transferable
Even the managers are being shafted.0 -
SneakySpectator said:HampshireH said:Are you practical? You could go and do an apprenticeship in a trade.
There are Apprenticeships for higher levels and more senior roles - I know someone in their mid-50's doing an MBA Apprenticeship. I know that is not what you want, but shared as an example of the breadth of Apprenticeships available.2
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