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mimi1234
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Hi everyone.
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,
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mimi1234 said:Hi everyone.
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,If you don’t have any delivery confirmation then you will have to refund before the time shown where buyer can escalate the case. The date will be shown in the case. If you refund before that date buyer gets the refund but you don’t get any penalty. If you let buyer escalate then you still get to refund but also get a serious eBay strike.As for your refund from Rm, assuming you have proof of postage then check the Rm website as I don’t recall the time frame you need to wait, it’s something like 15 working days. You can make your claim online .I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.1 -
mimi1234 said:Hi everyone.
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,
If it has gone missing it's delivery due date plus 10 working days before you can attempt a claim
Expecting to receive item the next day is wishful thinking
Royal mail class a Saturday a working day0 -
Assuming you sent within your time frame then as previously said buyer was being way too prompt querying the delay the day after posting, and that always makes me suspicious.However without proof of delivery they will have to be refunded, I’d just wait until the last day before buyer can escalate , but do keep an eye on that timing.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0
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mimi1234 said:Hi everyone.
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,
If they contacted you on 22nd and then raised a case on 29th what happened in between? Did you send any proof of posting?
If the item hasn't been delivered by now it's unlikely to turn up so under ebay rules you will need to refund unless there is some tracking info on your proof of posting. If there is then you might have been better advised to give that in response to the original message
Was the item something which royal mail compensation will cover, their list of exclusions is quite long?0 -
savergrant said:mimi1234 said:Hi everyone.
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.
Do I just refund her right now or is there a certain number of days she is meant to wait? I'm sure it says it's not classed as lost until 10 working days have passed but if it is lost, it's not the buyers fault.
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
Thanks to anyone who can help.
Best,
If they contacted you on 22nd and then raised a case on 29th what happened in between? Did you send any proof of posting?
If the item hasn't been delivered by now it's unlikely to turn up so under ebay rules you will need to refund unless there is some tracking info on your proof of posting. If there is then you might have been better advised to give that in response to the original message
Was the item something which royal mail compensation will cover, their list of exclusions is quite long?It’s sometimes best to be apologetic for the postal delays, even though it is out of the control of the seller, and reassure them that it will all be sorted out via the eBay case.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0 -
Just to add, that the eBay system won't allow someone to open a case until it's actually due (maybe eve on midnight on the last due day). So when you say you sent it second class, she wouldn't have been able to open a case the very next day.Warning: any unnecessary disclaimers appearing under my posts do not bear any connection with reality, either intended, accidental or otherwise. Your statutory rights are not affected.0
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ballisticbrian said:Just to add, that the eBay system won't allow someone to open a case until it's actually due (maybe eve on midnight on the last due day). So when you say you sent it second class, she wouldn't have been able to open a case the very next day.
She's now opened a case to say item not received.'
She didn't open a case the very next day. She sent a message asking for tracking info the day after postage, despite the postage option being untracked, then opened a case a week later. Op doesn't actually say when the item sold, or when it was updated as despatched on ebay. The sale could have been a couple of days before.
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I always message my buyers when I've posted the item with the exact time of posting and also say that tracking number is on the listing.
I don't have many things to post so it's not a bind for me to do this and buyers appreciate it.mimi1234 said:
Quick question. Sent something 2nd class large letter on the 21st of March. Buyer complained on the 22nd saying it had not been received and where was the tracking proof. Item was worth £20 so I sent it 2nd class large letter as advertised and told her to wait a few more days.
I have sent a short reply telling her that her expectations were way out.
Even for small items, I use RM Tracked 48 because it does give tracking details.mimi1234 said:
Something told me to block her the day she kept messaging and saying "can I have the item for £5". You live and learn I guess.
I rarely do this but when I do, I set he minimum amount I'll accept.
How many messages did she send?
If you didn't have 'best offer' enabled, I'd have blocked her and reported her to eBay.0
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