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Maintenance final payment

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  • Billyd0
    Billyd0 Posts: 13 Forumite
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    Thank you guys, she earns over 25k a year. But I will stop paying in August 2025 and will put it aside if he wants money. 
    You guys are great,

    Thinking about it......child maintenance........ Means child.........18 at university is classed as and adult, so he's not a child anymore, he's a young adult man 👍👍, 
    But I'm ery very proud of him even if he doesn't want to know me( manipulation is horrible, ). Mums shldnt get away with it.its disgusting.

    B
  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 22,968 Forumite
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    Maintenance is often linked to getting child benefit.

    If he is not in  approved education then child benefit will cease

    https://www.gov.uk/child-benefit/what-youll-get

    How it works

    You get Child Benefit if you’re responsible for bringing up a child who is:


    Approved education

    Education must be full-time (more than an average of 12 hours a week of supervised study or course-related work experience). This can include:

    • A levels or similar, for example International Baccalaureate
    • T levels
    • Scottish Highers
    • NVQs and most vocational qualifications up to level 3
    • home education - if it started either before your child turned 16 or after 16 if they have a statement of special educational needs
    • study programmes in England
    • a pre-apprenticeship

  • Billyd0
    Billyd0 Posts: 13 Forumite
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    Thanks sheramber, 

    He's doing a 3 year teaching degree at university while living at home, so do I still have to pay child maintenance, he's 18 yes old
  • Billyd0
    Billyd0 Posts: 13 Forumite
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    Thanks enpointe so is university full time education? Or not? He's 18 still living at home while doing a 3 year teaching degree? 
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,737 Forumite
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    edited 28 May at 9:15PM
    It is usually the end of full time Secondary education (so A levels or equivalent). Thats when child benefit would stop (end of August) and you'd stop paying maintenance. Even if not eligible for CB (eg if earning too much) I believe these dates still apply.
    Mum might have come across the wording 'full time education' so believes it will apply to Uni too. That is not usually the case but I think Im aware of some historic cases (kids now adults) where it was part of the divorce settlement that support continued past sixth form age if remaining in full time (eg Uni) education, so might be worth digging any paperwork you have out from your divorce. 
  • Billyd0
    Billyd0 Posts: 13 Forumite
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    Thanks spendless,  
    It was a verbal agreement between us when he was young. No court involved or stated in the divorce, it's not the fact of not paying him( I will save the usual amount so if he asks me I will give it to him), 
    It's more of a point......he's 18 at university and as far as I'm aware, it stops in august(last child maintenance payment)  simply because he's at university. 

    Am I right, his mum is adamant it's full time education and I have to pay till he's 20. 

    I'm told she can go to court if she wants to, but she won't get anywhere. 

    A simple yes or no? 
    Stop payments in August as child benefits stop. 

    B
  • Peter999_2
    Peter999_2 Posts: 1,373 Forumite
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    Simply put, stop the payments as the child isn't in full-time education.   For the purposes of maintenance, University is not full-time education.
  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 22,968 Forumite
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    Show his mum this

    https://www.gov.uk/child-benefit-16-19

    Education and training that is not approved

    You cannot get Child Benefit if your child is:

    • studying for a university degree or BTEC Higher National Certificate (an ‘advanced course’)
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,737 Forumite
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    Billyd0 said:
    Thanks spendless,  
    It was a verbal agreement between us when he was young. No court involved or stated in the divorce, it's not the fact of not paying him( I will save the usual amount so if he asks me I will give it to him), 
    It's more of a point......he's 18 at university and as far as I'm aware, it stops in august(last child maintenance payment)  simply because he's at university. 

    Am I right, his mum is adamant it's full time education and I have to pay till he's 20. 

    I'm told she can go to court if she wants to, but she won't get anywhere. 

    A simple yes or no? 
    Stop payments in August as child benefits stop. 

    B
    No, you dont. Child Benefit can be paid until the child is 20 if in full time education but that does NOT include Uni education. 
     Stop paying at the end of August in line with when CB stops and let Mum take to court if she wishes. She wont get anywhere. 
  • Billyd0
    Billyd0 Posts: 13 Forumite
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    Thanks spendless👍👍
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