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Mortgage value agreed by bank based upon husband’s income. Wife’s income very low, under £250 a month.
Couple separate, ex husband demanding ex wife now pays towards mortgage until house is sold. Husband claims he can no longer afford payments alone.
Where does she stand with bank if she can’t afford to make any contribution to the payments?
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Deenport said:Mortgage value agreed by bank based upon husband’s income. Wife’s income very low, under £250 a month.Couple separate, ex husband demanding ex wife now pays towards mortgage until house is sold. Husband claims he can no longer afford payments alone.Where does she stand with bank if she can’t afford to make any contribution to the payments?Thank you0
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Deenport said:Deenport said:Mortgage value agreed by bank based upon husband’s income. Wife’s income very low, under £250 a month.Couple separate, ex husband demanding ex wife now pays towards mortgage until house is sold. Husband claims he can no longer afford payments alone.Where does she stand with bank if she can’t afford to make any contribution to the payments?Thank you1
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TheSpectator said:Deenport said:Deenport said:Mortgage value agreed by bank based upon husband’s income. Wife’s income very low, under £250 a month.Couple separate, ex husband demanding ex wife now pays towards mortgage until house is sold. Husband claims he can no longer afford payments alone.Where does she stand with bank if she can’t afford to make any contribution to the payments?Thank you0
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Any kids? If there are it may complicate things. Spousal maintenance is rare, but a possibility. Financial settlement as part of the divorce. Bottom line is that if she can’t afford the mortgage and is living in the house alone, she will probably need to agree to sell the property and live somewhere she can afford.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages, student & coronavirus Boards, money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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A lot of detail missing, but to have a stab:
Joint mortgage = both liable to pay the mortgage (there's no rules that say that each person must pay a certain amount - they are both responsible for ensuring the mortgage gets paid and if it doesn't, it will trash both parties credit files and both will be pursued for arrears).
There are other things to consider - children as silvercar mentioned, and also the habitation status? Specifically, is she still living in the house? It sounds like it.
It would make sense why he can't afford to (or be keen to) pay the full mortgage on top of rent if he's living elsewhere.
I appreciate you say she can't make any contribution (not a single penny?), so would suggest she prioritises looking for full time work and/or getting a lodger in (or have the ex move back in just until the house is sold).
If both parties are unable or unwilling to make up the full mortgage payment between them, eventually the house will be repossessed and likely sold at auction - potentially causing a massive hit to equity (and trashing both parties credit files as mentioned above, which could cause issues if they planned on repurchasing in the near future).Know what you don't0 -
Ring the lender and ask for a temporary suspension of mortgage repayments due to the circumstances of the seperation. Provide evidence that the property is being actively marketed.0
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Hoenir said:Ring the lender and ask for a temporary suspension of mortgage repayments due to the circumstances of the seperation. Provide evidence that the property is being actively marketed.
Good idea in either case - even asking to temporarily move to IO if that's the only option would be better.Know what you don't0 -
Exodi said:Hoenir said:Ring the lender and ask for a temporary suspension of mortgage repayments due to the circumstances of the seperation. Provide evidence that the property is being actively marketed.
Good idea in either case - even asking to temporarily move to IO if that's the only option would be better.0 -
Deenport said:Couple separate, ex husband demanding ex wife now pays towards mortgage until house is sold. Husband claims he can no longer afford payments alone.Deenport said:Where does she stand with bank if she can’t afford to make any contribution to the payments?
Mortgage aside, if the marriage is dissolving then she is going to have to address her income as she will be be not able to live on £250 a month - even if the ex could afford to fund the mortgage.
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