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Need a Pension Actuary & Divorce process guidance
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Your divorce solicitor, if/when you get one, would be able to instruct a PODE to produce a report, and ensure they are asked to do the correct thing. You need the results of the pension report to be able to then weigh up all the assets against the pension and work out what the best way of splitting all of them up is, so the result is fair for both of you according to the jurisdiction that you are in.0
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A 50/50 split is the starting point for negotiations then you can move from there based on needs.
A clean break is preferred, rather than ongoing spousal maintenance, if there are sufficient assets to achieve this.
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List down your assets, find a mediator and look for a decent job.Then you’ll have an idea what both of you need.There are multiple ways to navigate divorce, e.g. mine involved 100% pension retention…and very little else.0
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Cobbler_tone said:List down your assets, find a mediator and look for a decent job.Then you’ll have an idea what both of you need.There are multiple ways to navigate divorce, e.g. mine involved 100% pension retention…and very little else.0
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Helen71 said:Hi, thanks in advance for your guidance and help. I will be divorcing my husband, he has worked for the NHS for 30 years, no private practice. I have very little on my pension pot due to career breaks and raising family to facilitate his career. I have it clear that I will need a pension actuary report for his pension. I am struggling to identify a company that can do this for me. Please advise: 1. On options of companies I can approach.
2. If none are available (Collins are not taking anyone for 6 months), can it be done through the solicitors? But how much more will they charge?
3. Potential timescales & costs
4. Additionally: Is 50% the best I can aspire to? or can I also request maintenance and higher pension access due to my low salary, low pension, being made redundant at the end of the year? It just feels like I am in such a vulnerable situation at 53 and after years of working towards stability. Needless to say, it is him who is leaving the relationship.
5. Want to be reasonable but also don't want to miss out.
Thanks
Generally at the end of the divorce both walk away with 50% of the net assets, that doesn't mean everything gets split 50/50 as there is normally horse trading, someone wants the house so the other person gets the pensions etc. Sometimes the divide isnt 50/50 but thats more in the case of short relationships and where one has put much more in than the other noting however childcare, running the home etc is considered "putting in" in most cases even if its not cash.
Maintenance, other than for children, is not that common, it tends to be relatively short term and is most prevalent where there is a big disparity in salaries and a lifestyle accustomed to the higher income. It does sound you are more in need of a lawyer than an actuary.1 -
Farside71 said:Cobbler_tone said:List down your assets, find a mediator and look for a decent job.Then you’ll have an idea what both of you need.There are multiple ways to navigate divorce, e.g. mine involved 100% pension retention…and very little else.
I funded the whole divorce, cleared all debts etc. On paper my pension was valued way more than the assets, by the time of the divorce way less.
The judge actually rejected it first time around because they said it was imbalanced in my favour, which was pretty unbelievable.
I’ve never worked out the end position, maybe 60/40 to her. She is mortgage free, debt free with all of the contents and a new car I bought, plus £60k cash.I still earn 5 times what she does (to my knowledge), she’s did nothing to maximise her earnings and I’m retiring at 58 latest, it probably took 5 years off me! It’s behind me but I feel for anyone going through it.In answer to your question. The CETV was a cash amount on the D81 but my only motivation was to fully keep my pension. I would have gone down that road if needed.PS the CETV was £675k on the D81 and £425k at point of divorce. The drop in CETV was referenced in the letter to the judge to stamp it the second time around but not implicitly as a number.1 -
Thanks, I'm awaiting a CETV for my DB, I honestly have no idea what it is going to be as I've not had to request one before even though I've been a deferred member for over 3 years now. As we are in Scotland about a third of DB accrual is outside of marriage so in theory can remain with me regardless but I'm having to get my head around potentially losing ISAs, avcs, DCs and most of the house to keep all my pension and whether that is in my best interest or not. In some ways it's a financial decision no one really is expecting to actually have to make given most of us probably spent the vast majority of or working lives thinking about how to accumulate wealth.1
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As a rough guide, I would value pension at 15% less than other assets like cash in the bank. After all, if you have the cash, you can contribute it to a pension and get at least 20% tax relief.
No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?0 -
GDB2222 said:As a rough guide, I would value pension at 15% less than other assets like cash in the bank. After all, if you have the cash, you can contribute it to a pension and get at least 20% tax relief.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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Marcon said:GDB2222 said:As a rough guide, I would value pension at 15% less than other assets like cash in the bank. After all, if you have the cash, you can contribute it to a pension and get at least 20% tax relief.The point is reasonable that for most divorcing couples £1 of pension fund is worth less than £1 in the bank. It doesn’t matter if everything is just divided in the same proportions. But it does matter if there’s offsetting, where one spouse takes more in the house value and the other takes more pension, say.Where it gets more complicated is where the CETV doesn’t properly represent the value of the pension.No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?0
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