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Maybe problems of an executor

jittersandbang
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My husband has been appointed executor of a relatives will. Problem is this family member has debts mainly to a bank but they have been frozen. The family member is not paying towards the debt but the bank is sending statements of the debt but is not perusing the debt as the relative is in no financial position to pay. I think there is another debt too but I'm not sure where but I don't think payments are being made to that either.
The relative has a house which is being left to an adult child and a small insurance which will be paid to the second adult child.
What happens when the relative dies? Although details of debts aren't forthcoming will my husband be liable to get in trouble for any further debts not known about? I'm pretty sure it's not as straightforward as the relative thinks it is.
The relative has a house which is being left to an adult child and a small insurance which will be paid to the second adult child.
What happens when the relative dies? Although details of debts aren't forthcoming will my husband be liable to get in trouble for any further debts not known about? I'm pretty sure it's not as straightforward as the relative thinks it is.
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Hi,
It is the executors job to use the deceased's assets to pay the deceased's debts.
If the debts are greater than the assets then the advice is usually to not take on the role of executor in the first place.
If it is necessary to sell the house to pay the debts then the executor might have to throw out anyone still living there (assuming that person doesnt have a right to stay there). Your husband may not be happy doing that.
The decision as to whether to take on the executor role can be made after the death, potentially after your husband has had a chance to look at the deceased's paperwork and understand what is owed to who, it is not something that needs to be decided now.
Is your husband being left any money in the will? Whilst some people would be happy doing the job because it is the right thing to do, others would be reluctant to spend the time sorting everything out if they aren't going to see any personal benefit.
If your husband definitely isn't going to do it then it is polite to tell the testator so that they can choose a different executor.2 -
jittersandbang said:My husband has been appointed executor of a relatives will. Problem is this family member has debts mainly to a bank but they have been frozen. The family member is not paying towards the debt but the bank is sending statements of the debt but is not perusing the debt as the relative is in no financial position to pay. I think there is another debt too but I'm not sure where but I don't think payments are being made to that either.
The relative has a house which is being left to an adult child and a small insurance which will be paid to the second adult child.
What happens when the relative dies? Although details of debts aren't forthcoming will my husband be liable to get in trouble for any further debts not known about? I'm pretty sure it's not as straightforward as the relative thinks it is.
If there are two adult children, suggest that they are appointed as executors.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!1 -
doodling said:
The decision as to whether to take on the executor role can be made after the death, potentially after your husband has had a chance to look at the deceased's paperwork and understand what is owed to who, it is not something that needs to be decided now.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!1 -
My husband didn't realise what he was taking on until I explained about the debts and he asked the relative to appoint someone else but the relative mentioned to me a few weeks ago that nothing has been done about it. I have a feeling after paying these debts there will be nothing left for the second adult child leaving one child with a house, the other nothing.
I've only recently been thinking about this as I ponder on my own Will.
How does he decline the job? He's told him already to find someone else.0 -
My husband is not benefitting any any way from the Will. Nor would he want or expect to.
I am hoping the relative is saving towards a funeral as the adult children are in no financial position to pay it. One working part time, the other on benefits.0 -
If an adult child is the main beneficiary then they would normally be the best choice of executor, is there any reason they would be incapable of handling it?
The debts would have to be pretty substancial if they would wipe out the value of a house. If it turns out that the estate is insolvent your husband can simply renounce his executor’s powers and have nothing to do with winding up the estate.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:If an adult child is the main beneficiary then they would normally be the best choice of executor, is there any reason they would be incapable of handling it?
The debts would have to be pretty substancial if they would wipe out the value of a house. If it turns out that the estate is insolvent your husband can simply renounce his executor’s powers and have nothing to do with winding up the estate.
The debts won't wipe out the value of the house but will most likely wipe out the insurance money being left to 'child' 2.
The problem is, he has signed the document agreeing to the job. Is it too late to decline the role?0 -
Hi,jittersandbang said:[...]
How does he decline the job? He's told him already to find someone else.
Eventually someone else will decide to do it (usually a beneficiary) and at that point they will ask him to fill out a form from the probate office to tell them that he isn't doing it. There is no formal process before that point.1 -
jittersandbang said:Keep_pedalling said:If an adult child is the main beneficiary then they would normally be the best choice of executor, is there any reason they would be incapable of handling it?
The debts would have to be pretty substancial if they would wipe out the value of a house. If it turns out that the estate is insolvent your husband can simply renounce his executor’s powers and have nothing to do with winding up the estate.
The debts won't wipe out the value of the house but will most likely wipe out the insurance money being left to 'child' 2.
Normally it is a bad idea to leave a specific property to someone as by the time you die you may no longer own it. Was this will drawn up by a solicitor?1 -
Keep_pedalling said:jittersandbang said:Keep_pedalling said:If an adult child is the main beneficiary then they would normally be the best choice of executor, is there any reason they would be incapable of handling it?
The debts would have to be pretty substancial if they would wipe out the value of a house. If it turns out that the estate is insolvent your husband can simply renounce his executor’s powers and have nothing to do with winding up the estate.
The debts won't wipe out the value of the house but will most likely wipe out the insurance money being left to 'child' 2.
Normally it is a bad idea to leave a specific property to someone as by the time you die you may no longer own it. Was this will drawn up by a solicitor?0
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