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Hi, I have a 31 year old son who has a job, flat, girlfriend but also has a drinking problem which replaced a drug habit. He has inherited a large sum of money which he wants me to look after as he knows he will just waste it.
Is there an account I can open that is his but I manage, I’m not sure he’d go for a POA so I’m a bit stumped

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  • Flugelhorn
    Flugelhorn Posts: 7,341 Forumite
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    You could look at third party mandate https://www.natwest.com/life-moments/caring-for-vulnerable-relatives/guide-to-third-party-mandate.html - this is just one bank

    presume you could get phone alerts if transactions take place so you can keep an eye on things
  • Keep_pedalling
    Keep_pedalling Posts: 20,928 Forumite
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    How large are we talking about? 

    Rather than do this he could look at putting it in a bigger property, feeding it into a pension (which he won’t be able to touch for 26 years), lock some of it away in fixed term accounts.

    He obviously knows he has a problem so spending a little of this on getting professional help to get him sober might be a very good investment. 
  • He doesn’t want it locked away but realises he can’t control his spending. It’s around £40k
    he wants me to control it and decide if he should have it when he asks for it, he knows he can’t ask all the time or for excessive amounts 
  • Olinda99
    Olinda99 Posts: 2,042 Forumite
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    If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there

    When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account


  • That's what is happening now. I'm about to have HMRC calling for some inheritance tax and if they see £30k in there, they'll want to get their hands on it.  It needs to be in his name but he can't access it.
  • HillStreetBlues
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    If you have proof that it's not your money then having it in your account is fine
    Let's Be Careful Out There
  • ChirpyChicken
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    He could buy a house with that sum..
  • Olinda99
    Olinda99 Posts: 2,042 Forumite
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    edited 21 March at 5:00PM
    That's what is happening now. I'm about to have HMRC calling for some inheritance tax and if they see £30k in there, they'll want to get their hands on it.  It needs to be in his name but he can't access it.
    not sure what you mean. HMRC can't 'see' your account and if you owe IHT then all they can do is ask you to pay it and charge interest and penalties if you don't. Anyway it is the estate who pays it, not you, so.it is the estate's account they would be interested it, not yours
  • General_Grant
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    Olinda99 said:
    If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there

    When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account


    But, if the OP did that, taxable interest would be attributed to the OP as far as HMRC are concerned. 
  • flaneurs_lobster
    flaneurs_lobster Posts: 6,601 Forumite
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    Olinda99 said:
    If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there

    When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account


    But, if the OP did that, taxable interest would be attributed to the OP as far as HMRC are concerned. 
    ...and this is a problem why?
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