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MissyMoonbeams
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Hi, I have a 31 year old son who has a job, flat, girlfriend but also has a drinking problem which replaced a drug habit. He has inherited a large sum of money which he wants me to look after as he knows he will just waste it.
Is there an account I can open that is his but I manage, I’m not sure he’d go for a POA so I’m a bit stumped
Is there an account I can open that is his but I manage, I’m not sure he’d go for a POA so I’m a bit stumped
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You could look at third party mandate https://www.natwest.com/life-moments/caring-for-vulnerable-relatives/guide-to-third-party-mandate.html - this is just one bank
presume you could get phone alerts if transactions take place so you can keep an eye on things0 -
How large are we talking about?Rather than do this he could look at putting it in a bigger property, feeding it into a pension (which he won’t be able to touch for 26 years), lock some of it away in fixed term accounts.
He obviously knows he has a problem so spending a little of this on getting professional help to get him sober might be a very good investment.2 -
He doesn’t want it locked away but realises he can’t control his spending. It’s around £40k
he wants me to control it and decide if he should have it when he asks for it, he knows he can’t ask all the time or for excessive amounts0 -
If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there
When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account
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That's what is happening now. I'm about to have HMRC calling for some inheritance tax and if they see £30k in there, they'll want to get their hands on it. It needs to be in his name but he can't access it.0
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If you have proof that it's not your money then having it in your account is fine
Let's Be Careful Out There0 -
He could buy a house with that sum..0
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MissyMoonbeams said:That's what is happening now. I'm about to have HMRC calling for some inheritance tax and if they see £30k in there, they'll want to get their hands on it. It needs to be in his name but he can't access it.3
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Olinda99 said:If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there
When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account0 -
General_Grant said:Olinda99 said:If it were me I would just open an account in my name and put the money there
When your son requests it just simply send a faster payment from that account to his account0
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