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Mum's flat

Maka29
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Our mum lives with us due to poor health and rents out her flat. She's had the same tenants for around 5 years. My sister deals with that side of things, the upkeep and certificates. Mum wants to sell it and help my sister and I out. We know that the tenant will need an official notice but would a friendly email or call beforehand, to say to expect this, be a good or bad idea?
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It's more friendly to give them a heads up and depending on if you intend to vacate them before starting the sales process or not you may want to be on good terms with them if you want estate agents to be showing potential buyers around whilst they are still living there.0
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No "official" notice required if friendly approach works. I've explained to tenants in the past what I was doing and why and said )if justified) I'd give excellent references and be flexible of dates (IE could be slow or very quick eg 3 days from today if it suited them). Worked for me.
Which country (eg Wales, NI?). Law and formal notices vary: a lot.3 -
That's good points. I thought going the friendly route was best but big sis was dubious. I'll also say about giving good references and being flexible on dates0
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The flat is in Scottish Borders.0
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DullGreyGuy said:It's more friendly to give them a heads up and depending on if you intend to vacate them before starting the sales process or not you may want to be on good terms with them if you want estate agents to be showing potential buyers around whilst they are still living there.
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Treasure the moments that you have. Savour them for as long as you can for they will never come back again.4 -
Mum wants to sell it and help my sister and I out.Be aware of deprivation of assets if your mother needs care or to go into residential care.3
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Maka29 said:Our mum lives with us due to poor health and rents out her flat. She's had the same tenants for around 5 years. My sister deals with that side of things, the upkeep and certificates. Mum wants to sell it and help my sister and I out. We know that the tenant will need an official notice but would a friendly email or call beforehand, to say to expect this, be a good or bad idea?
What is the status of the tenants?
They have been in the property for 5 years. Are they likely to want to stay for many more years or is it likely they will naturally move on in the near future? A natural break might be worth waiting for if, for example, an increase in the number of children means the property is too small.
Would the tenants be likely to wish to buy the property?0 -
There is a Poa written and logged with a government body. I think it was the court but not sure.
How would this affect the gift? I didn't think of that.
It's only active if she loses mental capacity so it's not kicked in yet as she has full mental capacity. Mum decided to sell up as my son wants to get on the property ladder. It's her way of helping out.0 -
Maka29 said:There is a Poa written and logged with a government body. I think it was the court but not sure.
How would this affect the gift? I didn't think of that.
It's only active if she loses mental capacity so it's not kicked in yet as she has full mental capacity. Mum decided to sell up as my son wants to get on the property ladder. It's her way of helping out.
Should the PoA be active (thus indicating that your Mother had some extent of diminished capacity), then it would be difficult for you and your Sister to sell the flat and make a gift to yourselves (or your children) and for you to demonstrate the benefit to your Mother.
There is devil in the detail.
Selling the flat could be explained as for the benefit of your Mother if she no longer had the capacity to manage the property herself, thus relieving a stressor, plus it is yielding a cash pot that can be used for your Mother's day-to-day expenses or to meet care needs should they arise.
The gifting can be explained if there is a prior history and pattern of similar gifting. There often would not be.1 -
Maka29 said:There is a Poa written and logged with a government body. I think it was the court but not sure.
How would this affect the gift? I didn't think of that.
It's only active if she loses mental capacity so it's not kicked in yet as she has full mental capacity. Mum decided to sell up as my son wants to get on the property ladder. It's her way of helping out.
If your mum required care, then how would this be paid for? If you can't afford to pay for it yourselves, then the council will assess the finances, and if they find she has recently sold the house and given away the proceeds, then this would be seen as deprivation of assets.
https://www.independentage.org/get-advice/health-and-care/paying-for-care/giving-away-assets-to-pay-for-care
I think you'd also need to look at tax due on any lump sum if she dies within 7 years of the gift.
Best to take advice from a financial expert.Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)1
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