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Unusual clause in mum's will to repay debt
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Worriedaboutwill06 said:one of the witnesses is his girlfriend and the other a friend of my mum. I know they were not present at the same time and signed a copy in their own homes.
Can you PROVE they were not present?
The witnesses don't have to be fully "independent" they just have to not be beneficiaries, related to the testator or married to a beneficiary.
So girlfriend and friend are OK.
ETA to correctHow's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Sea_Shell said:Sounds like he's trying to "engineer" a "loan" that would be repayable to himself, which would take precedent over any other legacies.
I doubt he's done anything illegal...yet. immoral maybe, but not illegal.
As sole executor, when the time comes, he pays back the "loan" first, then distributes the rest.
If you challenged this, The burden of proof would likely be on YOU to prove that this debt to the estate doesn't exist, as no one else is likely to be bothered about him proving it did. Even if it avoided (some/all) IHT, HMRC may not investigate that thoroughly for relatively small amounts.0 -
KittenChops said:Worriedaboutwill06 said:one of the witnesses is his girlfriend and the other a friend of my mum. I know they were not present at the same time and signed a copy in their own homes.
Had she made a will before this one?0 -
There are two issues here.
Does he have Lasting Power of Attorney, both health and financial? If he has financial POA he is legally required only to act in a way which benefits your mother, not to help himself.
Check the basics with the Office of the Public Guardian. Then come back and ask further
I'd also pay for a copy of the deeds for the house, £7, and set up a Property Alert. The owner isn't notified that the alert has been set up.
With respect to the will, what does your mother actually own? Is she married, widowed, divorced? Depending on her circumstances, there may be no Inheritance Tax to pay unless her assets exceed £1m.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing3 -
Although people who given power of attorney to someone else may well have capacity to write a new will.. on the other hand they may not and such capacity could be questioned0
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Sea_Shell said:Worriedaboutwill06 said:one of the witnesses is his girlfriend and the other a friend of my mum. I know they were not present at the same time and signed a copy in their own homes.
Can you PROVE they were not present?
The witnesses don't have to be "independent" they just have to not be beneficiaries.
ETA - for the will. PoA does need independent witnesses.0 -
RAS said:There are two issues here.
Does he have Lasting Power of Attorney, both health and financial? If he has financial POA he is legally required only to act in a way which benefits your mother, not to help himself.
Check the basics with the Office of the Public Guardian. Then come back and ask further
I'd also pay for a copy of the deeds for the house, £7, and set up a Property Alert. The owner isn't notified that the alert has been set up.
With respect to the will, what does your mother actually own? Is she married, widowed, divorced? Depending on her circumstances, there may be no Inheritance Tax to pay unless her assets exceed £1m.0 -
OK, so if the house ends up at £1.2m, then the estate settles bills and costs etc, maybe it ends up paying £40k in IHT. More likely mum will need some care (not necessarily residential) and that will reduce the value of the estate.
Of rather more concern is that your brother is building himself a flat. Perhaps he intends this to enable him to offer on site supervision and support to your mother?
Presumably he will use his POA to create a lease permitting him to occupy?
That means he is probably thinking about two things.
Property also occupied by a person aged over 60 is not taken into consideration when assessing contributions for social care fees. Whether the fact that he has another property is taken into account, I don't know.
It'll make it much more difficult to sell the house, before or after your mother's death, thus reducing it's value. By the way, it'll also attract it's own CT valuation.
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
RAS said:OK, so if the house ends up at £1.2m, then the estate settles bills and costs etc, maybe it ends up paying £40k in IHT. More likely mum will need some care (not necessarily residential) and that will reduce the value of the estate.
Of rather more concern is that your brother is building himself a flat. Perhaps he intends this to enable him to offer on site supervision and support to your mother?
Presumably he will use his POA to create a lease permitting him to occupy?
That means he is probably thinking about two things.
Property also occupied by a person aged over 60 is not taken into consideration when assessing contributions for social care fees. Whether the fact that he has another property is taken into account, I don't know.
It'll make it much more difficult to sell the house, before or after your mother's death, thus reducing it's value. By the way, it'll also attract it's own CT valuation.0 -
You need to start by contacting AgeUK and advising that you have safeguarding concerns. If nothing else they know the laws and words that trigger a response from the relevant powers.
I'd also do a quick check on your local planning application web-site.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1
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