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  • V3cash
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    edited 12 February at 9:03AM
    I forgot to mention I had solar installed 3 years ago so would like to get a few more years out of that investment 🤣
    Think 60 is my magic number 

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  • V3cash
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    edited 12 February at 9:06AM
    Savvy_Sue said:
    I think I'd get a valuation, and also think about where you might want to go. The one thing you can't change about a property is its location (which is our problem, location is perfect but house is too big).

    If you start looking around the perfect place may leap out at you.
    I just remember moving being the most horrendous stressful experience so I think I need a few more years to forget that 😕
    are you currently looking to downsize then?

    Mortgage total 57980 June 26

    Barclaycard £5800 (0%) ends April 26.
    2025-26 MFW Target #68 £13,500/ £12,654.82.
    Mortgage  free Aim July 2027.
    house improvement/emergency budget/holiday fund £2500/£3000.

  • Shimrod
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    V3cash said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    I think I'd get a valuation, and also think about where you might want to go. The one thing you can't change about a property is its location (which is our problem, location is perfect but house is too big).

    If you start looking around the perfect place may leap out at you.
    I just remember moving being the most horrendous stressful experience so I think I need a few more years to forget that 😕
    are you currently looking to downsize then?
    Adjusting to house size has already been mentioned, but it's worth taking a few holidays in properties of a similar size to see how they feel to you. When you get a smaller house, not only do you get less rooms but the rooms themselves tend to be smaller.

    We've talked about downsizing (from a 4 bed house), but having taken a few holidays in two-bed bungalows, we know they would be too small. Even for a holiday they felt cramped to us, and we would not have space for our hobbies. 
  • Arthurian
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    Might you be able to split your house, hiving off part as a self-contained one or two bedroomed place?  Maybe using the Rent a Room scheme?
  • FlorayG
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    Arthurian said:
    Might you be able to split your house, hiving off part as a self-contained one or two bedroomed place?  Maybe using the Rent a Room scheme?
    If it's self-contained it doesn't qualify under the Rent-a-Room scheme; lodgers have to share facilities with the landlord
  • Murphybear
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    You could also post this on the “house buying, renting and selling” board, lots of experienced people on there.

    If you could afford a bungalow I would definitely buy one.  Once you get a lot older you may have mobility issues and there’s nothing worse than going up and downstairs after a knee or hip replacement.  I’m talking from experience, I got a new knee when I was only 58.  :D
  • louby40
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    Don't always think you have to have a bungalow. Our house could easily fit a stair lift in if needed.

    My parents are now in their 80's and live in a lovely terraced house, they are both fit and able and they say using the stairs everyday has definitely kept them fitter. They considered moving too but decided a stair lift could work if they ever needed one - so far all is ok but the option is there.  
  • V3cash
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    louby40 said:
    Don't always think you have to have a bungalow. Our house could easily fit a stair lift in if needed.

    My parents are now in their 80's and live in a lovely terraced house, they are both fit and able and they say using the stairs everyday has definitely kept them fitter. They considered moving too but decided a stair lift could work if they ever needed one - so far all is ok but the option is there.  
    Yes absolutely agree, thinking on those lines will open up options 

    Mortgage total 57980 June 26

    Barclaycard £5800 (0%) ends April 26.
    2025-26 MFW Target #68 £13,500/ £12,654.82.
    Mortgage  free Aim July 2027.
    house improvement/emergency budget/holiday fund £2500/£3000.

  • V3cash
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    Shimrod said:
    V3cash said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    I think I'd get a valuation, and also think about where you might want to go. The one thing you can't change about a property is its location (which is our problem, location is perfect but house is too big).

    If you start looking around the perfect place may leap out at you.
    I just remember moving being the most horrendous stressful experience so I think I need a few more years to forget that 😕
    are you currently looking to downsize then?
    Adjusting to house size has already been mentioned, but it's worth taking a few holidays in properties of a similar size to see how they feel to you. When you get a smaller house, not only do you get less rooms but the rooms themselves tend to be smaller.

    We've talked about downsizing (from a 4 bed house), but having taken a few holidays in two-bed bungalows, we know they would be too small. Even for a holiday they felt cramped to us, and we would not have space for our hobbies. 
    Good idea, we had a friend who downsized and it was too small and they have now moved onto a slightly bigger one just down the road so I think i would need 3 bedroom and I have a wish list of things it needs like more than 1 bathroom, we will probably downsize to 4 bedroom as getting a large 3 bed is hard

    Mortgage total 57980 June 26

    Barclaycard £5800 (0%) ends April 26.
    2025-26 MFW Target #68 £13,500/ £12,654.82.
    Mortgage  free Aim July 2027.
    house improvement/emergency budget/holiday fund £2500/£3000.

  • Savvy_Sue
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    V3cash said:
    Savvy_Sue said:
    I think I'd get a valuation, and also think about where you might want to go. The one thing you can't change about a property is its location (which is our problem, location is perfect but house is too big).

    If you start looking around the perfect place may leap out at you.
    I just remember moving being the most horrendous stressful experience so I think I need a few more years to forget that 😕
    are you currently looking to downsize then?
    You and me both! I was so stressed that when an estate agent started telling me that property X on his books would hold its value better than property Y on someone else's books I just stopped him and said that I really didn't care about resale values, it wouldn't be my problem, because whatever we bought I'd be leaving in a box!

    No, we're not looking to downsize. We probably should but there are complications. We may change our minds but ATM we're sticking where we are. 
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