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Parents House - Moving in Rules
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lr1277 said:Does the OP become a de facto tenant? In which case the parents need to take on all the responsibilities of a landlord?
So I don't think it will cause any problems as no money is changing hands
Also, there is no gift involved as they are not giving you the property, just 'renting' it to you0 -
FlorayG said:0
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OP, what is your plan B to move back out, if you haven't had time to save for a deposit on your own place?
What if your circumstances change before then? You lose your job, become unwell etc
Where you are currently renting, is that at full current market rents, or slightly below (due to being, say, a long-term tenant in your current home)? How does that compare to what else is available on the rental market?
How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
I didn’t think family moving in and not paying rent constituted a tenancy.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.2
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If you are over 60 and moved in before your parents move out, the house wouldn’t be considered in assessing parents ability to pay care costs.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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FlorayG said:1
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silvercar said:If you are over 60 and moved in before your parents move out, the house wouldn’t be considered in assessing parents ability to pay care costs.0
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Keep_pedalling said:silvercar said:If you are over 60 and moved in before your parents move out, the house wouldn’t be considered in assessing parents ability to pay care costs.
"5.1 Mandatory disregards If you enter a care home permanently, your interest in your existing ‘main or only’ home is usually taken into account as capital. However, the value should be disregarded from the financial assessment if you no longer occupy the home but it is still occupied, in part or whole, as their main or only home by:
⚫ your spouse, partner, former partner, or civil partner, except where you are estranged
⚫ a lone parent who is your estranged or divorced partner
⚫ a relative of yours, or member of your family, who is:
⚫ aged 60 or over, or
⚫ a child of yours aged under 18, or
⚫ ‘incapacitated’.
They must have been occupying the property before you went into the care home. The disregard lasts until the situation changes, at which time it may be included in the financial assessment."
from: https://www.ageuk.org.uk/siteassets/documents/factsheets/fs38_property_and_paying_for_residential_care_fcs.pdfI'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.2 -
silvercar said:Keep_pedalling said:silvercar said:If you are over 60 and moved in before your parents move out, the house wouldn’t be considered in assessing parents ability to pay care costs.
"5.1 Mandatory disregards If you enter a care home permanently, your interest in your existing ‘main or only’ home is usually taken into account as capital. However, the value should be disregarded from the financial assessment if you no longer occupy the home but it is still occupied, in part or whole, as their main or only home by:
⚫ your spouse, partner, former partner, or civil partner, except where you are estranged
⚫ a lone parent who is your estranged or divorced partner
⚫ a relative of yours, or member of your family, who is:
⚫ aged 60 or over, or
⚫ a child of yours aged under 18, or
⚫ ‘incapacitated’.
They must have been occupying the property before you went into the care home. The disregard lasts until the situation changes, at which time it may be included in the financial assessment."
from: https://www.ageuk.org.uk/siteassets/documents/factsheets/fs38_property_and_paying_for_residential_care_fcs.pdf
I am not even sure why you are suggesting it, the OP is not seeking to avoid care costs and seems happy that they remain self funding.1
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