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pac-man said:silvercar said:Is friend actually married to his partner? If not, it all becomes easier as unmarried partners can each have their own home, whereas a married couple can only have one principle residence between them for tax purposes.0
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I don’t think they’d try and do that. Would know it’s impossible. Friend was registered as living there for the for the first 6 months or so. Then moved in officially with partner before getting married. What a tangled web we weave.0
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OP, if this really is a friend of yours and not actually you I would suggest you give them the information supplied here and tell then their potential (Only potential, as comments here don't know the entire story) problems and legalities and then step away and have nothing further to do with it. Your friend can 'fess up and pay his tax or keep on as he is - you don't want to be involved in the latter case2
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pac-man said:I don’t think they’d try and do that. Would know it’s impossible. Friend was registered as living there for the for the first 6 months or so. Then moved in officially with partner before getting married. What a tangled web we weave.
Some elements of this tale are less worrisome than some think. If the tenant friend has signed something with the mortgage lender, then the lender is aware of their presence. Whether it is a residential mortgage or a regulated BTL isn’t that important. The lender knows they can repossess if necessary and remove the tenant.I’d regularise things going forward. Friend has made such payments that it can no longer be considered gifts and needs to be considered rent. Start doing so from say 1/1/25 and account for it properly.Use an online calculator like this one https://taxscouts.com/calculator/rental-income-tax/ to work out the costs of renting with the current mortgage and see how the numbers work.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0 -
silvercar said:pac-man said:I don’t think they’d try and do that. Would know it’s impossible. Friend was registered as living there for the for the first 6 months or so. Then moved in officially with partner before getting married. What a tangled web we weave.
Some elements of this tale are less worrisome than some think. If the tenant friend has signed something with the mortgage lender, then the lender is aware of their presence. Whether it is a residential mortgage or a regulated BTL isn’t that important. The lender knows they can repossess if necessary and remove the tenant.I’d regularise things going forward. Friend has made such payments that it can no longer be considered gifts and needs to be considered rent. Start doing so from say 1/1/25 and account for it properly.Use an online calculator like this one https://taxscouts.com/calculator/rental-income-tax/ to work out the costs of renting with the current mortgage and see how the numbers work.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by regularise going forward and only accounting for the rent from 01/01/2025.
The friend needs to sort out the tax situation from the date the friend's relative moved in and stated paying money to the friend; it's been rent throughout.
A deliberate act to not declare the property income arising before 2025 would result in higher tax geared penalties than a truthful and full disclosure.
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FlorayG said:OP, if this really is a friend of yours and not actually you I would suggest you give them the information supplied here and tell then their potential (Only potential, as comments here don't know the entire story) problems and legalities and then step away and have nothing further to do with it. Your friend can 'fess up and pay his tax or keep on as he is - you don't want to be involved in the latter case1
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Knowledge is power. Friend is still in denial that there’s a problem, so will have to chip away (when I’d rather use dynamite!).0
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pac-man said:Knowledge is power. Friend is still in denial that there’s a problem, so will have to chip away (when I’d rather use dynamite!).
Then walk away.
Particularly since you said this is causing you some stress (impacting sleeping).
Talking to another friend who is an Accountant is dragging yourself further into the situation and risk errors through "Chinese Whispers". If you do talk to your Accountant friend, the best thing would be to introduce them directly to the friend with the unofficial rental.2 -
Pac-man, have you given us an idea of the timescale here?1) how long has your friend owned their mortgaged home?2) when did the relative move in?3) when was this 'resident' declared on the mortgage - from the very start?4) is your friend also down as a resident owner on the mortgage?5) when did your friend get married to their partner?0
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As you are advising friend to see a professional, may be worth querying whether the tenant could actually be the beneficial owner, with your friend being the legal owner. The argument being that the mortgage is in the name of the legal owner, beneficial owner is actually paying over the money to pay the mortgage (albeit with help from family member, which wouldn’t in itself be a problem, plenty people help family members with living costs).
Only throwing this into the ring for discussion, not saying it is the answer.I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.1
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