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Asda security searching my mam when she had paid!!
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The_Unready said:Emmia said:They are allowed to challenge you, and your Mam did not have the proof on her that she'd paid for those items. She also presumably handed over her bag or opened it for the guard to inspect.
It is unfortunately a fact that many people shoplift, including those with two walking sticks... Which is why security guards are employed.
I understand your Mam was upset and mortified by the incident, but I can't really see she's got grounds for complaint - fundamentally she had items in her bag, and no proof of purchase.The_Unready said:I rarely print receipts so would have no proof of purchase if challenged at the exit, so how would that work? Presumably I'd be marched back to the till where some poor soul would need to try and match my shopping to a recent purchase.The_Unready said:However, it's incumbent on security guards to have a justifiable reason for making a stop and search, and if the events panned out as described by the Op then there could not possibly have been a reason for her mum to have been stopped.The_Unready said:Very poor from the guard!
I would say that it is an unfortunate situation, but one that given the circumstances described was far from unreasonable.
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If I were a security guard on minimum wage who's required to stop x number of punters a day to fill my quota I think I'd rather pick on little old ladies with walking aids than posses of feral youth, regardless of how many bottles of Smirnoff are sticking out of their North Faces.2
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teaselMay said:It's perfectly reasonable to stop and ask for proof of purchase.1
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user1977 said:
Also reasonable for customers to refuse to stop or exhibit their receipt.1 -
sheramber said:I always take a reciept.
It is not just proof of paying but proof of purchase if you need to return anything.1 -
sheramber said:I always take a reciept.
It is not just proof of paying but proof of purchase if you need to return anything.
I always ask for a receipt for even the smallest purchases so I always have proof of purchase if challenged.
At my local Sainsburys the own brand spirits don't have security tags on them that need to be removed, but the bottles are still tagged somehow and will often set off the alarm. Easier to sort out with a receipt rather than without.
But not much point in getting a receipt if there are two of you and the one with the receipt splits up from the person with the goods...Esty76 said:
I need email or something, but this can't go on!!
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Next time the person with the goods needs to have the receipt. Sorry0 -
MattMattMattUK said:
I would say that it is an unfortunate situation, but one that given the circumstances described was far from unreasonable.
Whilst what you say its true, two wrongs never make a right!1 -
Undervalued said:MattMattMattUK said:
I would say that it is an unfortunate situation, but one that given the circumstances described was far from unreasonable.
Whilst what you say its true, two wrongs never make a right!
It can even be a defence against the normally black and white charge of driving without insurance. That is usually an absolute offence but there is a defence if your employer told you to drive their vehicle and you obeyed their orders.2 -
Undervalued said:MattMattMattUK said:
I would say that it is an unfortunate situation, but one that given the circumstances described was far from unreasonable.
Whilst what you say its true, two wrongs never make a right!
It was a perfectly reasonable request, in perfectly reasonable circumstances, and you bring up Nuremberg?4 -
Godwin's law!5
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