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Alayne_
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Hello…
after receiving a wake up call when HSBC refused a consolidation loan I found this forum. Spoke with a company that helps with dmp and was suggested dmp. Won’t use this company as they are paid and will contact Step Change.
after receiving a wake up call when HSBC refused a consolidation loan I found this forum. Spoke with a company that helps with dmp and was suggested dmp. Won’t use this company as they are paid and will contact Step Change.
But first a bit of a story. i am in my 30s. Divorced 3 years ago. After the divorce my only debt was HSBC loan. Cost of living and much smaller salary made me relies on credit cards. Every unexpected expense- credit cards or Lendable loan.
I changed my job almost two years ago and had to start driving to get to work. As it was old car - more expenses on credit.
Last month the car completely broke down to the state it was irreparable. I got a bit newer one (9 year old) on hire purchase as it was necessity.
As I got to the point again this month that I have very little money left this month I started looking at debt consolidation loan to pay longer but less monthly. Computer said no and I ended up talking with a Debt Advice company (a paid one) and it was a wake up call. I can’t keep pay credit with another credits… he suggested dmp but I am terrified of not making payments, of cancelling dd. And I am terrified Step Change will say it isn’t an option for me.
My current situation is:
Loan HSBC 7691.43 333.43 monthly
Loan Lendable 1660.04 110.75 monthly
Creditspring 500 83 monthly
Credit cards
Barclays -814 800 limit monthly 50
Aqua -1685.99 limit 1700 monthly 80
Capital one -1248. 12 limit 1250 monthly 60
Zable -987.63 limit 1000 monthly 40
Hsbc overdraft
-900 150 limit
Total monthly payments 757.18
Car hire purchase 5450 monthly 158
Phone 38
953.18
Vodafone 28
Total 981.18
Salary 2250
After credit 1268.82
Rent 900
Insurance 73
I am left with 295.82 a month. i spent about 150-180 on fuel each month.
I am left with 295.82 a month. i spent about 150-180 on fuel each month.
I got no money left to live on. That’s why I rely more and more on credit. It actually is making me sick in my stomach, I am stressed to the point I am losing my hair. Plus I have a stressful job and I shouldn’t declare bankruptcy or have IVA because of the job.
I don’t know what to do… I can things next month and use lest of my overdraft to live. But it will buy me one month. I know I need to set up a bank account with a different bank to get my wages in, which probably I will need few weeks for my work to change it. I am afraid if I don’t pay HSBC they will block my cards and I will have nothing to leave on.
I will contact step change asap. Should I start dmp straight away? Wait? I don’t know what to do…
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Well done for getting this far and posting here. I’m not in a position to be able to give you advice, but there are several very experienced, knowledgeable and non-judgmental folk here who will be able to offer you guidance. Some have been in your position so really understand.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Competition Time, Site Feedback and Marriage, Relationships and Families boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com All views are my own and not the official line of Money Saving Expert.0
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StepChange and other good debt advisers look at your numbers the other way around. They start with your income, then deduct the essential bills, rent, council tax, energy, mobiles, broadband, car finance etc, then look at your expenses, which isn't just outgoings like groceries and petrol that happen every month but also car costs, clothes, xmas, entertainment, that are more erratic, taking an annual amount and diving by 12 . Then that shows what money you have left for your non priority debts.
It very probably is going to be a DMP. Trying filling in this calculator with realistic amounts for your expenses and see what it says https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php Knowing these numbers will be a help if you decide to talk to StepChange or go for a DIY version.0 -
Do not rush into a DMP until you are 200% sure you are doing the correct thing.
The worse thing you can do is start a DMP too soon, stop paying all your unsecured debts, wait for them to default and save as much as you can towards an emergency fund, you will need this as you will have no access to credit.
Complete a honest SOA and let us look at your full situation.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
There's absolutely no need to be terrified, there is always a solution and the reality of the solution is usually nowhere near as bad as what people fear. Usually the worst thing that happens is that your credit report is harmed while you go through the solution, but that can be a positive thing too as it makes you live within a budget.I'd suggesting creating a statement of affairs, that's similar to what you have posted but is more detailed in terms of your expenses etc. Once you've done that then people can advise on the best solution.Be careful with Stepchange, they often advise going straight into a DMP but it's usually better to stop paying everything and wait for defaults before you start one. It's very unintuitive, but that's better for your credit report in the long term, gives you a chance to save up an emergency fund before you start, and increases the chances of being able to settle debts with reduces payment offers.
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Thank you all.So the best thing would be to not pay anything next month?I can’t lose the car, it’s the hire purchase contract but I am registered keeper, is it a possibility?I’ll set up new bank account ASAP and inform my work but probably the December wage will be paid into a new one, I am worrying HSBC will block my account, is it possible?Should I inform my lenders that I am working on solution before I stop paying? I’ve never missed any payment in my life…
i will create SOA after work when I can spend more time on it. At what point I contact Stepchange then?0 -
Pay your car, but don't pay any of the unsecured debts.
Do not contact any of your creditors, all they will do is try and get you to pay them.
Don't answer any phone calls from them, block their numbers, ignore any texts and E Mails just open and read any letters you receive.
Forget Stepchange until your debts have defaulted. , it will take some months, nothing moves fast in debt collection.
In the meantime save as much as you can into an emergency fund, you will need this.
The main thing is don't panic what ever crops up, keep posting on here.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet
Summary
Monthly Budget Summary Amount(£) Total monthly income 2,250 Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans) 1,947 Available for debt repayments 303 UNsecured debt repayments 624.1 Amount short for making debt repayments -321.1 Personal Balance Sheet Summary Amount(£) Total Assets (things you own) 5,400 Total Secured & HP Debt -5,400 Total Unsecured Debt -14,773.21 Net Assets -14,773.21 Household Information
Number of adults in household 1 Number of children in household Number of cars owned 1 Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details
Income Amount(£) Monthly income after tax 2250 Partners monthly income 0 Benefits 0 Other income 0 Total monthly income 2250 Expenses Amount(£) Mortgage 0 Secured/HP loan payments 158 Rent 900 Management charge (leasehold property) 0 Council tax 0 Electricity 0 Gas 0 Oil 0 Water Rates 0 Telephone (land line) 0 Mobile phone 60 TV Licence 0 Satellite/Cable TV 0 Internet services 0 Groceries etc. 300 Clothing 30 Petrol/diesel 180 Road tax 3 Car Insurance 73 Car maintenance (including MOT) 50 Car Parking 0 Other travel 0 Childcare/nursery 0 Other child related expenses 0 Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.) 20 Pet Insurance/Vet bills 0 Buildings Insurance 0 Contents Insurance 0 Life Assurance 0 Other Insurance 73 Presents (birthday, christmas etc.) 20 Haircuts 0 Entertainment 30 Holiday 0 Emergency Fund 50 Total monthly expenses 1947 Secured & HP Debt Description Debt(£) Monthly(£) APR(%) Mortgage 0 (0) 0 Hire Purchase (HP) Debt 5400 (158) 0 Secured & HP Debt totals 5400 - - Unsecured Debt Description Debt(£) Monthly(£) APR(%) Hsbc 7691.43 333.4 0 Lendable 1660.04 110.7 0 Aqua 1685.99 70 0 Hsbc overdraft 1500 50 0 Zable 987.63 0 0 Capital one 1248.12 60 0 Unsecured Debt totals 14773.21 624.0999999999999 - Asset Description Value (£) Cash 0 House Value (Gross) 0 Shares and bonds 0 Car(s) 5400 Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc) 0 Total Assets 5400 2 -
I am not sure if I should put car as an asset.Should I pay in December my unsecured debt in case HSBC would block my account?Is it a possibility that someone will knock on my door while I don’t pay?0
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You need the interest rates on your debts.
You are showing £50 in an emergency fund and yet not showing any savings.
No council tax?
No water rates?
Which country do you live in?
Are you claiming mileage from your job?
How many people are we looking at, are you on your own?
Just a few questions.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Alayne_ said:I am not sure if I should put car as an asset.Should I pay in December my unsecured debt in case HSBC would block my account?Is it a possibility that someone will knock on my door while I don’t pay?
You need a bank account with someone other than HSBC, for your income and essential dds. You will be waving goodbye to HSBC and their loan and overdraft will eventually go in a dmp.
On hp your car isn't an asset until the final payment is made. I agree with the others. This is your priority debt. Stop paying the nonpriorities.
Have you read this?
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6496941/in-debt-and-wannabe-debt-free-first-steps-to-take-are-here-please-read-then-ask-questions#latest
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