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Hello…
after receiving a wake up call when HSBC refused a consolidation loan I found this forum. Spoke with a company that helps with dmp and was suggested dmp. Won’t use this company as they are paid and will contact Step Change. 

But first a bit of a story. i am in my 30s. Divorced 3 years ago. After the divorce my only debt was HSBC loan. Cost of living and much smaller salary made me relies on credit cards. Every unexpected expense- credit cards or Lendable loan. 
I changed my job almost two years ago and had to start driving to get to work. As it was old car - more expenses on credit. 

Last month the car completely broke down to the state it was irreparable. I got a bit newer one (9 year old) on hire purchase as it was necessity. 

As I got to the point again this month that I have very little money left this month I started looking at debt consolidation loan to pay longer but less monthly. Computer said no and I ended up talking with a Debt Advice company (a paid one) and it was a wake up call. I can’t keep pay credit with another credits… he suggested dmp but I am terrified of not making payments, of cancelling dd. And I am terrified Step Change will say it isn’t an option for me. 

My current situation is: 

Loan HSBC 7691.43 333.43 monthly

Loan Lendable 1660.04 110.75 monthly

Creditspring 500 83 monthly 


Credit cards 

Barclays -814  800 limit monthly 50

Aqua -1685.99 limit 1700 monthly 80

Capital one -1248. 12 limit 1250 monthly 60

Zable -987.63 limit 1000 monthly 40 


Hsbc overdraft 


-900 150 limit 


Total monthly payments 757.18 


Car hire purchase 5450 monthly 158

Phone 38 


953.18


Vodafone 28 


Total 981.18 


Salary 2250 

After credit 1268.82 

Rent 900

Insurance 73 

I am left with 295.82 a month. i spent about 150-180 on fuel each month. 

I got no money left to live on. That’s why I rely more and more on credit. It actually is making me sick in my stomach, I am stressed to the point I am losing my hair. Plus I have a stressful job and I shouldn’t declare bankruptcy or have IVA because of the job. 

I don’t know what to do… I can things next month and use lest of my overdraft to live. But it will buy me one month. I know I need to set up a bank account with a different bank to get my wages in, which probably I will need few weeks for my work to change it. I am afraid if I don’t pay HSBC they will block my cards and I will have nothing to leave on. 
I will contact step change asap. Should I start dmp straight away? Wait? I don’t know what to do… 
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  • Misslayed
    Misslayed Posts: 15,385 Senior Ambassador
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    Well done for getting this far and posting here. I’m not in a position to be able to give you advice, but there are several very experienced, knowledgeable and non-judgmental folk here who will be able to offer you guidance. Some have been in your position so really understand. 
    I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Competition Time, Site Feedback and Marriage, Relationships and Families boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com All views are my own and not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
  • ManyWays
    ManyWays Posts: 1,318 Forumite
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    StepChange and other good debt advisers look at your numbers the other way around. They start with your income, then deduct the essential bills, rent, council tax, energy, mobiles, broadband, car finance etc, then look at your expenses, which isn't just outgoings like groceries and petrol that happen every month but also car costs, clothes, xmas, entertainment, that are more erratic, taking an annual amount and diving by 12 . Then that shows what money you have left for your non priority debts. 

    It very probably is going to be a DMP. Trying filling in this calculator with realistic amounts for your expenses and see what it says https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php  Knowing these numbers will be a help if you decide to talk to StepChange or go for a DIY version. 
  • Do not rush into a DMP until you are 200% sure you are doing the correct thing.

    The worse thing you can do is start a DMP too soon, stop paying all your unsecured debts, wait for them to default and save as much as you can towards an emergency fund, you will need this as you will have no access to credit.

    Complete a honest SOA and let us look at your full situation.
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • Rob5342
    Rob5342 Posts: 2,418 Forumite
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    There's absolutely no need to be terrified, there is always a solution and the reality of the solution is usually nowhere near as bad as what people fear. Usually the worst thing that happens is that your credit report is harmed while you go through the solution, but that can be a positive thing too as it makes you live within a budget.

    I'd suggesting creating a statement of affairs, that's similar to what you have posted but is more detailed in terms of your expenses etc. Once you've done that then people can advise on the best solution.

    Be careful with Stepchange, they often advise going straight into a DMP but it's usually better to stop paying everything and wait for defaults before you start one. It's very unintuitive, but that's better for your credit report in the long term, gives you a chance to save up an emergency fund before you start, and increases the chances of being able to settle debts with reduces payment offers.
  • Thank you all. 

    So the best thing would be to not pay anything next month? 

    I can’t lose the car, it’s the hire purchase contract but I am registered keeper, is it a possibility? 

    I’ll set up new bank account ASAP and inform my work but probably the December wage will be paid into a new one, I am worrying HSBC will block my account, is it possible? 

    Should I inform my lenders that I am working on solution before I stop paying? I’ve never missed any payment in my life… 

    i will create SOA after work when I can spend more time on it. At what point I contact Stepchange then? 
  • Pay your car, but don't pay any of the unsecured debts.

    Do not contact any of your creditors, all they will do is try and get you to pay them. 

    Don't answer any phone calls from them, block their numbers, ignore any texts and E Mails just open and read any letters you receive.

    Forget Stepchange until your debts have defaulted. , it will take some months, nothing moves fast in debt collection.

    In the meantime save as much as you can into an emergency fund, you will need this.

    The main thing is don't panic what ever crops up, keep posting on here.
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • Statement of Affairs & Personal Balance Sheet

    Summary

    Monthly Budget SummaryAmount(£)
    Total monthly income2,250
    Monthly expenses (incl. HP & secured loans)1,947
    Available for debt repayments303
    UNsecured debt repayments624.1
    Amount short for making debt repayments-321.1

    Personal Balance Sheet SummaryAmount(£)
    Total Assets (things you own)5,400
    Total Secured & HP Debt-5,400
    Total Unsecured Debt-14,773.21
    Net Assets-14,773.21

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household1
    Number of children in household
    Number of cars owned1

    Income, Expense, Debt & Asset Details

    IncomeAmount(£)
    Monthly income after tax2250
    Partners monthly income0
    Benefits0
    Other income0
    Total monthly income2250

    ExpensesAmount(£)
    Mortgage0
    Secured/HP loan payments158
    Rent900
    Management charge (leasehold property)0
    Council tax0
    Electricity0
    Gas0
    Oil0
    Water Rates0
    Telephone (land line)0
    Mobile phone60
    TV Licence0
    Satellite/Cable TV0
    Internet services0
    Groceries etc.300
    Clothing30
    Petrol/diesel180
    Road tax3
    Car Insurance73
    Car maintenance (including MOT)50
    Car Parking0
    Other travel0
    Childcare/nursery0
    Other child related expenses0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentists, opticians etc.)20
    Pet Insurance/Vet bills0
    Buildings Insurance0
    Contents Insurance0
    Life Assurance0
    Other Insurance73
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc.)20
    Haircuts0
    Entertainment30
    Holiday0
    Emergency Fund50
    Total monthly expenses1947

    Secured & HP Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    Mortgage0(0) 0
    Hire Purchase (HP) Debt5400(158)0
    Secured & HP Debt totals5400

    Unsecured Debt DescriptionDebt(£)Monthly(£)APR(%)
    Hsbc7691.43333.40
    Lendable1660.04110.70
    Aqua1685.99700
    Hsbc overdraft1500500
    Zable 987.6300
    Capital one1248.12600
    Unsecured Debt totals14773.21624.0999999999999

    Asset DescriptionValue (£)
    Cash0
    House Value (Gross)0
    Shares and bonds0
    Car(s)5400
    Other assets (e.g. endowments, jewellery etc) 0
    Total Assets5400

  • I am not sure if I should put car as an asset. 

    Should I pay in December my unsecured debt in case HSBC would block my account? 

    Is it a possibility that someone will knock on my door while I don’t pay? 
  • You need the interest rates on your debts.

    You are showing £50 in an emergency fund and yet not showing any savings.

    No council tax?

    No water rates? 

    Which country do you live in?

    Are you claiming mileage from your job?

    How many people are we looking at, are you on your own?

    Just a  few questions.
    If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.
  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 22,944 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Cashback Cashier
    edited 14 November 2024 at 2:26PM
    Alayne_ said:
    I am not sure if I should put car as an asset. 

    Should I pay in December my unsecured debt in case HSBC would block my account? 

    Is it a possibility that someone will knock on my door while I don’t pay? 
    No one will be knocking on your door. Just save the letters into a pile for now.

    You need a bank account with someone other than HSBC, for your income and essential dds. You will be waving goodbye to HSBC and their loan and overdraft will eventually go in a dmp.

    On hp your car isn't an asset until the final payment is made. I agree with the others. This is your priority debt. Stop paying the nonpriorities.

    Have you read this?

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6496941/in-debt-and-wannabe-debt-free-first-steps-to-take-are-here-please-read-then-ask-questions#latest
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