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Getting married while receiving care?

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My partner is living in a council flat, in receipt of UC. He has a permanent disability and receives 24hr care funded by the NHS. I am a homeowner with some savings but a fairly low-paid job. We have been discussing the possibility of getting married, I know he will probably lose his UC but I am concerned whether he would lose his care provision or if I would be expected to sell my property to pay for his care. If I had to care for him I would have to give up my job which we really cannot afford. We have also considered getting married but living separately, but I don't know if that makes any difference.  It's a complicated situation and I'm struggling to know where to look for answers, any ideas?

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  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,143 Forumite
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    edited 6 November 2024 at 8:03PM
    If he is fully health funded it is non-means tested so your marriage and income will not be taken into account. 
    If it was a joint package with a local authority, then he would need to complete  a financial assessment (information here https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/care/paying-for-care/paying-for-homecare/)

    but that  appears not to be relevant as things stand. 

    You moving in should not impact on his care provision. No one can force you to be a carer if you don’t want to be.
    Information on how health funding works here. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Cyclamen
    Cyclamen Posts: 709 Forumite
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    As Elsien has said NHS continuing health care is free.  Anything provided by the council is means tested.

    Having a partner does not mean they have to automatically become a carer.. I am married and receive funding from my Councils social care department. 

    For peace of mind for council funding ..
    -  the house you live in would not be counted as income for 'care at home' it only comes into consideration for residential/ care homes.


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