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£20k loan/gift from elderly parent(s)

Cobbler_tone
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Hi,
My mum (83) is going to give me £20k to cover the final part of my divorce settlement, it's a big number. We haven't fully had the discussion about payback and if I do it as a loan I will be in a position to cover it over the next two years. My dad is also still around at 87 and I have two older brothers and the three of us are the beneficiaries of their estate.
What is the best way to do this and what are the implications if the worst happens to her and/or my dad?
Firstly, how would this be tracked down and I guess the loan would be owed to her estate, before CGT is considered?
I hope none of this happens but trying to think of the most robust way of facilitating it. My dad (bless him) suggested they give me £10k each.
Thank you
My mum (83) is going to give me £20k to cover the final part of my divorce settlement, it's a big number. We haven't fully had the discussion about payback and if I do it as a loan I will be in a position to cover it over the next two years. My dad is also still around at 87 and I have two older brothers and the three of us are the beneficiaries of their estate.
What is the best way to do this and what are the implications if the worst happens to her and/or my dad?
Firstly, how would this be tracked down and I guess the loan would be owed to her estate, before CGT is considered?
I hope none of this happens but trying to think of the most robust way of facilitating it. My dad (bless him) suggested they give me £10k each.
Thank you
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CGT won’t come into it. Whether to make this a gift or a lone is going to be very much on what their financial position is. If they have ample savings and won’t miss it a gift is the better option especially if their estate is in IHT territory, but if it is going to leave them without an emergency fund then it should be a loan.1
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I certainly wouldn’t consider a loan/gift if they couldn’t afford it or if it impacted on their life style. They have a healthy income and very few outgoings, which has been the case for the past 25 years. They are old school though and very much ‘you get the money when they’re gone’.0
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Perhaps it could be a gift as an early payment of part of your inheritance with suitable adjustment made at the time of inheritance with your siblings? This would need to be documented and understood by all. Who is/are the executors?
If your parents haven't made any gifts this current tax year or last then on current pre-Budget rules they have £6k each that can be gifted outside of IHT and 7 years to survive for all of it to be exempt. There is no CGT involved.1 -
mebu60 said:Perhaps it could be a gift as an early payment of part of your inheritance with suitable adjustment made at the time of inheritance with your siblings? This would need to be documented and understood by all. Who is/are the executors?
If your parents haven't made any gifts this current tax year or last then on current pre-Budget rules they have £6k each that can be gifted outside of IHT and 7 years to survive for all of it to be exempt. There is no CGT involved.I was thinking of the inheritance route but they may well gift my brothers the same.0 -
Cobbler_tone said:mebu60 said:Perhaps it could be a gift as an early payment of part of your inheritance with suitable adjustment made at the time of inheritance with your siblings? This would need to be documented and understood by all. Who is/are the executors?
If your parents haven't made any gifts this current tax year or last then on current pre-Budget rules they have £6k each that can be gifted outside of IHT and 7 years to survive for all of it to be exempt. There is no CGT involved.I was thinking of the inheritance route but they may well gift my brothers the same.1 -
mebu60 said:Cobbler_tone said:mebu60 said:Perhaps it could be a gift as an early payment of part of your inheritance with suitable adjustment made at the time of inheritance with your siblings? This would need to be documented and understood by all. Who is/are the executors?
If your parents haven't made any gifts this current tax year or last then on current pre-Budget rules they have £6k each that can be gifted outside of IHT and 7 years to survive for all of it to be exempt. There is no CGT involved.I was thinking of the inheritance route but they may well gift my brothers the same.
My hope of course is that they live an even longer life and fully prepared to give them any money back. I'm not assuming at this point it will be a gift but you know how parents can be.0 -
Cobbler_tone said:mebu60 said:Cobbler_tone said:mebu60 said:Perhaps it could be a gift as an early payment of part of your inheritance with suitable adjustment made at the time of inheritance with your siblings? This would need to be documented and understood by all. Who is/are the executors?
If your parents haven't made any gifts this current tax year or last then on current pre-Budget rules they have £6k each that can be gifted outside of IHT and 7 years to survive for all of it to be exempt. There is no CGT involved.I was thinking of the inheritance route but they may well gift my brothers the same.
My hope of course is that they live an even longer life and fully prepared to give them any money back. I'm not assuming at this point it will be a gift but you know how parents can be.Sam Vimes' Boots Theory of Socioeconomic Unfairness:
People are rich because they spend less money. A poor man buys $10 boots that last a season or two before he's walking in wet shoes and has to buy another pair. A rich man buys $50 boots that are made better and give him 10 years of dry feet. The poor man has spent $100 over those 10 years and still has wet feet.
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