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My Mom is coming to live with me
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Does she not have any pension from working in South Africa?0
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Rubyroobs said:If she doesn't have sufficient Ni contributions for a state pension then it will need to be pension credit she claims. UK citizens aren't just left with nothing.0
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Cariboudle said:She is and Irish citizen but has no other income besides what I send. If we formalised her living with me into a lodger agreement would she get help towards the rent?
Yes, you will lose your council tax discount but any rent she does pay you (providing it is less than about £140 a week) will not be taxable as part of the Rent A Room scheme.
My mother lives with me. She pays a small amount of rent per month to cover a share of bills - we worked it out based on half the annual cost of the electric, gas, water, council tax, broadband & tv package, and tv licence. She doesn't pay anything toward the mortgage or home maintenance/repairs.
For day to day spending (groceries and the like), we keep a record of who spent what each month that represents "shared" spending - groceries for the house, laundry supplies, etc and then make sure we split those costs evenly between us.
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Emmia said:Rubyroobs said:If she doesn't have sufficient Ni contributions for a state pension then it will need to be pension credit she claims. UK citizens aren't just left with nothing.And not being habitually resident would impact on payments towards being a lodger, even if being a lodger with family was allowed when she’s not really a lodger she’s just a family member moving in.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
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Cariboudle said:
Renting from a close relative who you live withIf you live in the same home, you cannot get housing related benefits to pay rent to your partner or a close family member.
Close family members are:
parents - including step parents
children - including stepchildren
brothers and sisters - including half siblings but not step siblings
partners of any of these close relatives
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Rubyroobs said:If she doesn't have sufficient Ni contributions for a state pension then it will need to be pension credit she claims. UK citizens aren't just left with nothing.Proud to have dealt with our debtsStarting debt 2005 £65.7K.
Current debt ZERO.DEBT FREE0
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