HOW TO INCREASE MY SOCIAL CIRCLE



Hi Folks
As we are getting older and older, do you find that your social circle is getting smaller and smaller?
If so, what things do you do to increase or at least maintain your social life?
Any advice greatly appreciated.
Thank You
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Give us some clues - how old, what sort of interests?0
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geek84 said:
Hi Folks
As we are getting older and older, do you find that your social circle is getting smaller and smaller?
If so, what things do you do to increase or at least maintain your social life?
Any advice greatly appreciated.
Thank You
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Have you a branch of the u3a near you? Great for socialising, learning, days out, theatre trips. Open to anyone no longerin full time employment. https://www.u3a.org.uk/1
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Meetup, local social groups, acttivity based groups, volunteering, start a Facebook group, take up aw new hobby, join a church … The possibilities are endless, but it’s hard work!1
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For me it’s been volunteering, something about working together with people pulling on the same direction as you gives you that common ground. I’ve also met people who I’d quite like to knock round the head but it’s frowned upon.Clubs, sports groups, language lessons etc as well, the key is to keep doing the same thing every week until you feel like a regular and slowly get to know each other. I’ve joined a few womens walking / adventure groups on Facebook which have been good for meeting like minded people but it’s usually as a one off social day or weekend rather than long lasting friendship.I try to focus on opportunities to be with people socially rather than putting the pressure on to make new friends. Just been to parkrun and had a catch up with 2 people I’ve met at other things, a few people I know from parkrun and a longer chat with a woman who runs at my slow speed. So I feel social without necessarily being part of a group or having a running best friend.Good luck!MFW 2021 #76 £5,145
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geek84 said:
As we are getting older and older, do you find that your social circle is getting smaller and smaller?
If so, what things do you do to increase or at least maintain your social life?
What interests do you have?If you enjoy politics join a party, deliver leaflets, knock on doors, or stand for election.If you are religious, join a church and attend meetings.If you like drinking tea/alcohol, go to your local cafe/pub/Wetherspoons for a drink.2 -
No, my social circle has expanded exponentially since I retired, or started preparing for it!
Joined a choir
Carried on Nordic Walking
Became a trustee of a local charity and started helping with its Warm / Welcoming Space coffee morning
Started giving someone a lift to a Shared Reading Group (a book club where you don't have to read the book beforehand!)
Helping out at a drop in for local women following a local tragedy
Regularly lunching at the community café, where you budge up and share tables when needed
Plus ongoing church involvement
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Don't wait for opportunities to come to you - you have to seek them out.
U3A has been good - they do a local welcome coffee and chat, CAMEO (come and meet each other), a monthly *free lecture_and about 90 groups.Never pay on an estimated bill. Always read and understand your bill0 -
geek84 said:
As we are getting older and older, do you find that your social circle is getting smaller and smaller?
I would say that if anything over the last decade my social circles have increased through hobbies. I'm too young for U3A and well off retirement age btw!Proud member of the wokerati, though I don't eat tofu.Home is where my books are.Solar PV 5.2kWp system, SE facing, >1% shading, installed March 2019.Mortgage free July 20230 -
Reach out to friends from the past. A simple message or phone call can rekindle those relationships. You might be surprised at how eager they are to reconnect! What helped me a lot, that i follow this link and got finally some help with my studies. With all the extra time i have chance to meet new people everywhere.
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