O/S Daily Friday 13th September 2024

snoozer

Hi everyone,

It's sunny but still very cold, no Indian summer here. I had a bad night and slept late and then had a panic because the cleaner arrives at 9 on Friday's.

I have to go to the optician today, long story - I am very short sighted and as a result can't get varifocal specs, I wear varifocal contacts and for reading when I'm not wearing them I have a pair of specs which are underpowered for distance but allow me to do close work. A couple of weeks ago I went in and asked for them to be replaced but was told I'd have to see an optician (I'd had an eye test in May) for "permission". I was persuaded to have a pair that were for computer work but I can't see to do the close work I wanted them for so I'm going to have them changed, at their expense they assured me. If only they'd listened to me in the first place it wouldn't have cost them anything.

Esben has expressed a wish to try hotdogs tonight so that is what we are having, actually sausages in a roll because I dislike hotdogs intensely. It will be interesting to see what he makes of them because he doesn't eat much meat at all (from choice) and we're trying to expand his eating choices.

Derek, as has been said, it's still early days, take care.

Chrisca, I can recommend the Woolly Sheep and also the Bistro for lunch in Skipton. 

Have a good day.

Chrisca50

thanks @snoozer unless we have afternoon tea on the canal, not decided yet!

mehefin

Morning all from Mehefinland
Bright and sunny and blooming cold this morning but no frost overnight thank goodness.
Thank you all, my virtual family, for the support you are/have given me. I know I am in for a rough time and sometimes it does become overwhelming. Today is a better day so far; I think a bit of sunshine makes a difference. I do find myself wandering aimlessly around the house picking at things that need doing, but never actually completing anything. I am trying to be focused but failing quite often. even with neighbours and friends around me I never expected to feel this lonely and helpless. I'm just a silly old so and so lol.
On a brighter note: my friends little boy will be 5 next week. he is mathematics mad and extremely intelligent. I have got him a little present ( because I can and want to. There are no young children in my life now, and unlikely to be ) and he is having a surprise party in our little library after school next week. You've got to start them reading asap, its keeping them reading that's the problem. He will absolutely love it -  he is a regular visitor and often asks Mum if they can go there. I think the massive amount of Lego we have is a major part of the attraction.

Last night of the Proms tomorrow? Gosh, where has summer gone. Suppose Strictly and all the other bits of nonsense will be starting soon too. 
Right, got to get my arris into gear
Hugs and spoons as always
Mehefin aka Derek.

TravellingAbuela

 Chrisca my DD treat me to afternoon tea on the canal for Mother's Day this year. It was lovely and a pleasant way to spend an hour or two. Xx

Chrisca50

Thanks for that @TravellingAbuela  Decisions, decisions!!

Gers

@Mehefin - grief slams into you when least expected and can be triggered by big things or small things. There's nothing to be done expect go with it, take the time to remember and grieve. I still miss my beloved Dad who died in 1997 and others who have since died still come zooming into my mind at the least expected times.  One day you will remember with pleasure whilst a tinge of sadness will surround it.

Today has turned misty and cold so I've been doing some exercises to warm up and keep flexible. I've also cleared up the final shoulder bag from my trip to Germany - it's only been two weeks! Lunch is prepped so I'm going to watch Slow Horses for a bit.

Mamaofmanybudgets

Well, after a hard month (that ain't even over yet) of overspending. 
I'm back to mse with my tail between my legs.
Having some problems with child benefit and housing benefit making the situation a 1000% times worse. I really need to sort myself out and end the year in a more positive os way! 
It's like I realise how tight things are and panic, start overspending in denial.
If I had money I probably wouldn't even spend it 🤷 😆 
What on earth is wrong with me?