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Debt Relief and Write Off

Nivek975319
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Hi All,
So im a debt spiral and im concerned im heading for a debt crisis, in summary im spending substantially more that my income can afford, im losing sleep and becoming very concerend, im not sure how to solve the mess, id like to enter into discussions with my creditors over write off or part settlement/reduced payments.
Im self employed with two dependents, no savings, no assets and a very little equity in my property
What do i do
So im a debt spiral and im concerned im heading for a debt crisis, in summary im spending substantially more that my income can afford, im losing sleep and becoming very concerend, im not sure how to solve the mess, id like to enter into discussions with my creditors over write off or part settlement/reduced payments.
Im self employed with two dependents, no savings, no assets and a very little equity in my property
What do i do
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OK You have come to the right place, first thing to do is read this thread.
In Debt and Wannabe Debt Free? First Steps! — MoneySavingExpert Forum
Fill in a honest SOA format for MSE and copy and paste on to here.
When we see your full financial situation we can advise you the best way forward.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Thanks for getting back to me
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[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 2[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 6000Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 165Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 6165[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 2250Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 530Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 191Electricity............................. 110Gas..................................... 250Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 110Telephone (land line)................... 35Mobile phone............................ 60TV Licence.............................. 15Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0Internet Services....................... 75Groceries etc. ......................... 1000Clothing................................ 100Petrol/diesel........................... 150Road tax................................ 15Car Insurance........................... 60Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 15Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0Buildings insurance..................... 42Contents insurance...................... 0Life assurance ......................... 120Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0Haircuts................................ 30Entertainment........................... 0Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 50[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 5258[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 360000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 360000[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 285000...(2250).....6Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 19000....(530)......10[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 304000....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRCredit Card....................4500......180.......25Credit Card....................13000.....450.......29Credit Card....................22000.....600.......29Loan...........................11000.....335.......7Loan...........................22000.....490.......18Loan...........................16000.....401.......15[b]Total unsecured debts..........88500.....2456......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 6,165Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 5,258Available for debt repayments........... 907Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 2,456[b]Amount short for making debt repayments. -1,549[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 360,000Total HP & Secured debt................. -304,000Total Unsecured debt.................... -88,500[b]Net Assets.............................. -32,500[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]0
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How old are the children?
Some of your expenses are grossly high
Food £1000, Gas and Electric £360, Water £110, but you are showing no child expenses.
HP car? £19.000 but no value entered for car?If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
So you spend £1,000 on groceries but never ever buy any presents?
You need contents insurance.
£75 Internet & £60 mobile - when are you out of contract? I pay £30 for super fast fibre broadband plus £4.99 for Netflix, and £7 for 30gb of data for my phone.
Do you have a water meter?
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That's a lot of income, a lot of expenses and a lot of debt!
I think you need to hit the situation from every angle: more income (if possible), cut expenses and default (yes) on the debts
It's worrying that you have no savings/emergency fund so in the short term, start one. Bank and save somewhere where you have no debts.
IVA pushers would rub their hands with glee if they got near you but you would probably end up paying more than your debts with them taking a healthy cut. With no other sensible insolvency option, your way out is going to be hard work, organisation and a combination of dmp/f&f
I doubt write-offs are going to be appropriate unless there are medical reasons
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if you are asking for write offs a creditor needs to know 5 things.
do you work or on any long term dwp benefits
do you rent or own your property
your age , eg how many years of employment you have before you retire
your likelyhood of your wages increasing.
your health, eg do you have terminal illnesses
they will be more open to a debt management plan where they will stop interest eventually and accept a reduced monthly amount
are you willing to do a dmp, your credit file will be be damaged, but you are not in a position to be worried about that, as number one priority is getting out of debtChristians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )
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Your grocery bill is obscene, you could half that and not even realise the impact. Water is high - my guess is you are on rates so try and get a meter if you can. Gas and elec are alos very high and you should be paying half. Do you really need to spend £1200 a year on clothes?
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Thanks for the comments, i will review the budget and repost something more accurate and detailed0
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