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OP you really need to fill in a proper soa with all incomings and outgoings; debts with apr’s etc and then people can see the true clear picture and will be able to advise:
https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php
MFW 2025 #50: £1139.75/£600007/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
12/06/25: Mortgage: £65,000.00
18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38
27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
27/12/24: Savings: £12,000
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So for example the MBNA is 0%... I assume it's not forever at 0%, when does the 0% period end, is there a minimum monthly payment amount in between, what rate will it go up to after that period?Indecision is the key to flexibility0
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I am probably leaving things out from trying to add up from that wall of numbers - but 6500/7000 a month to spend - lets call it 6500 (but don't fritter the 500 - maybe pay it to your dad?) That is after tax?3500 fixed costs leaves 3000 for debts.We are repaying my Dad back £200 weekly (6.8k remains)
AA loan £160 monthly (balance is £470 ish ends in 3payments time)
Klarna (bathroom) £88 a month (balance remains is £765
AA loan £465 monthly (ends Feb2027 balance of roughly 14.6k remains)
MBNA @ 0% @ 3.8k (paying £500 monthly currently but not sure I can keep this up)
A new United Trust Bank secured loan around 65k @ around 10% - we used this to debt consolidate after we used credits cards etc to do an extension on our home.Total debts (with UTB at 660 a month) = £2773 a month - which is under the 3000 you gave, with allowance to overpay. So what are you spending that isn't in your budget? Can you cut it out?Once the small AA loan is paid off you will have more to get rid of Klarna, then reduce whichever of the larger AA or UTB charges more interest.Give up eating out at 250 a month and you will have another 3k to pay off debt before your mortgage is due.But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
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You need to do a proper SOA as a lot is missing from your current list. Where are clothing, medical and dental, Christmas, holidays, insurance, for example? Go to lemonfool.co.uk and format for MSE. And as a home owner, you need something to cover repairs and maintenance.
You may not be earning enough to cover your expenditure, and even less so in "variable" months.
And you can't afford £250 for entertainment when you're unable to afford the essentials.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Food shop looks high - £160 a week?
You need to fill out the soa that several people have linked (also in my signature). It's the format we are used to here and will help us see if you are accounting for everything. You are making people work really hard to try to help and it won't be good advice, you need to put a bit of effort in to help us help you.Statement of Affairs (SOA) link: https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.phpFor free, non-judgemental debt advice, try: Stepchange or National Debtline. Beware fee charging companies with similar names.2 -
The SoA we recommend here brings in all the daily spending. Eg you have car insurance in your pictures but what about car tax, money towards MOT/ servicing/new tyres etc, petrol to go in the car etc. They aren't surprises so they shouldn't be treated as if they were.
Birthdays and Christmas... again the spend should be planned to avoid it going on any credit cards.
You said you can't reduce your monthly expenses but generally, most of us can if we look, and it's a way to start getting our debt down, by freeing up extra cash for repayments.
Eg are you feeding two people or a big family for that £160 a week?
I hope some of this helps you.
Debt at highest: £8k. Debt Free 31/12/2009. Original MFD May 2036, MF Dec 2018.0 -
Darrenluke said:Sea_Shell said:We are repaying my Dad back £200 weekly (6.8k remains)
Is your Dad aware of your situation? Would he agree to forgo repayments for a while?
That's as maybe, but I think most parents, if they knew of the situation would be happy to wait a few months whilst you get your ducks in a row, and get a fully costed budget in place. Better to make the hard decisions, and awkward conversations, sooner rather than later.
I'm assuming you want your finances to look at healthy as possible in time for your re-mortgage, so maybe the family loan needs to "drop of the books" for while.Unless of course they are reliant on your repayments to cover their own living costs.
Once you've done the full SOA, as requested, everyone can really see the full picture and advise further.
But on first glance at what you've posted, there is at least £380 pm, of 'easy' wins.
Charity - £100
Eating out - £250 (these meals should be able to be absorbed within your normal weekly shop budget)
Netflix - £11
Spotify - £20How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
anniecave said:So for example the MBNA is 0%... I assume it's not forever at 0%, when does the 0% period end, is there a minimum monthly payment amount in between, what rate will it go up to after that period?1
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Focus needs to be get the soa done.
Also the 100 quid to charity you can't afford to do this..Mortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £58,108
Cc around 8k.1 -
I cant really read all the screenshots you have posted, the SOA gives a clear picture of where the money is, or isnt. Its standard practice on here.
What emergency fund/ savings do you have?Baby Step 6/7 . £16000 saved and invested. £47,000 deposit paid on new home DEBT FREE !!!
Currently Negotiating with HMRC !0
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