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  • stu12345_2
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    edited 6 July 2024 at 7:33AM
    what are the interest rates,  what is the £250 other income, is it child maintenance ??, from what you have posted you could meet the min payments and with £450 left over.

    but I'd say your groceries are too low for 3 people, you have left no money spent on entertainment, clothing or haircuts for 3 people..

    you are living too frugally.

    you have gave yourself no emergency fund.

    you need to up your expenses., that is allowed 

    if you could then chuck some of the £450 excess left over which will be probably lower after upping expenses, you don't have to live so frugally.  then the balances will drop faster.

    but I think if you make only  the min payments it will take far longer than you desire to drop the balances.
    ultimately you want the interest stopped, but you aren't insolvent, you can meet the min payments. you will struggle to persuade your creditors youre insolvent and can't meet min payments 


    you will be able to tell them you have a change of circumstances at present and allow you room and time to recalculate your new finances.

    if you went to a debt charity, they would see . that you could meet your mim repayments and still have money left over.

    I don't think you are looking at any debt repayment plan yet, you are looking at chucking everything you can into the highest interest rate card and the min on the other cards whilst not living so frugally at the same time

    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • stu12345_2
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    edited 6 July 2024 at 7:37AM
    firstly don't use these cards at all, cut them up. is there any possibility of doing a balance transfer to lower interest credit cards

    if you presented this SAO to a debt charity or your creditors they would see you can meet your obligations on your repayments and more
    . you will struggle to ask them to stop interest permanently 

    unless you seriously up your expenses in places I suggest you won't qualify at present for an  organised official debt repayment plan or stopping of interest.

    snowball everything you can into the highest interest card, clear that then attack the other cards in the same method.

    but I'd ask you to DO A NEW SAO with money spent on clothes, emergency fund, haircuts , entertainment and up that grocery amount and see what you truly have left to give to creditors.

    you can easily allow for £70 entertainment, £380 for shopping,( which includes  cleaning products and toiletries)£60 for clothes, £5O for haircuts.( this is expected expenses spent and  a debt charity and your creditors allows and accepts this)

    the higher it realistically goes , then there is a chance of a debt management plan ( which should stop interest) or even a debt relief order  which would clear your debts in 12 months

    like I said living as frugally as you are doing could backfire on you, and  as crazy as it sounds the more you have in realistic acceptable expenses the better chance of a formal debt solution 

    ( many times the poorer you are (whilst living a reasonable quality of life, which you aren't) then the better chance of a formal or informal debt solution.)

    and again it's the large amount of benefits and other income you get could actually do more harm in proving youre insolvent, as crazy as it may sound

    let's see what others think

    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • stu12345_2
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    edited 6 July 2024 at 7:21AM
    a little footnote why should avoid an IVA, an IVA would take all your £815 excess( but probably less after you include your new upped expenses) per month for 5 years,

    that is only  if you qualify,! as you are on benefits too. you need a regular set income amount for 5 years and benefits in your life could change and your income. and if anything goes up , more income , more benefits, then you have to pay another 50% of that that  to into your plan !!

    you could easily pay back much more than the £22000 you have in debt. IVA fees are around £4000 to £8000. which are added into your total owed.
    so if you failed, to pay during it,stopped your IVA in the 5 years, you are left owing your debt balance and these fees too.
    an IVA works for someone with a home , that doesn't want to go bankrupt , looks to pay only £100 min a month and owes a lot more than you do and has an income without benefits that is totally regular and guaranteed for 5 years 

    a debt relief order DRO would suit you far better than an IVA, that is only if you qualify for a DRO!
    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • RAS
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    [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 0[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 1150
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 1120
    Other income............................ 250[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2520[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 800
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 237 - assume that you have applied for single person discount? Have you checked for any further reduction?
    Electricity............................. 167 - check your meters now. Are you in credit or deficit
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 32
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 31 - OK
    TV Licence.............................. 15
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 78 - this is high research options
    Groceries etc. ......................... 240 - this is just about doable if you need a budget month but £360 is more sustainable
    Clothing................................ 0 - 2 teens needs more than this even if you go for charity shops plus new undies. £60.per month 
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 20 - do you live within walking distance of everything?
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 30
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0 - even if you are all NHS registered you need £10.per month each.
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 12 - good
    Life assurance ......................... 0 you have two kids. Does your job offer any death in service benefits, pensions?
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 15
    Haircuts................................ 0 - you need this £10 per month each
    Entertainment........................... 0 £40 for the family
    Holiday................................. 0 £60 per month, even if it only covers school trips
    Emergency fund.......................... 0 £30 per month so you can replace the cooker or microwave is it blows up. Or there  
    Gym..................................... 28[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1705[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 0[/b]
    [b]
    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Credit card ...................10000.....162.......NaN
    Credit card ...................5885......130.......NaN
    Credit card ...................6549......73........NaN[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........22434.....365.......-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2,520
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,705
    Available for debt repayments........... 815
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 365[b]
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 450[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -22,434[b]
    Net Assets.............................. -22,434[/b]

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    Have added items that you need to include.

    Your existing budget isn't sustainable. You need to include everything that that you need to spend each year, even if you haven't spent it since your break up. Other wise you'll have nothing with which to pay when things "crop up." And no access to credit.

    You have two teens. They don't come cheap and you can bet that school will be asking for money for activities. They need clothing, it is reasonable to pay for one regular activity and they need some entertainment so they can socialise. Bored kids can get into trouble, kids who can't join mates get depressed etc. They may not get the flash trainers but you need to offer a half decent life.

    And just to add that right now you need to think about winter. Things like draught exclusion pay for themselves in one year and make life much more pleasant. If necessary, you can make paper matches from free newspapers to fill gaps at skirtings etc. You need to be prepared to heat the person, so look for things like throws, second duvets, clothes you can layer (start with slightly undersized base layers and build up), rain proof gear, shoes and wellies, a warm coat each and hot water bottles. Thermos flasks can be bought in chazzers sometimes.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • stu12345_2
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    edited 6 July 2024 at 10:27AM
    what about your 19 yr old son, does he work earn a wage, if not, then  job seekers allowance, maybe he's at college with a bursary. any money he gets , he would be expected to contribute to household income and thus list what  % he gives you as another fom of income into the house budget 

    as the debt charity and creditors would also expect that as he is actually classed as an adult, even though he's 19.

    I also see your rent is high, I presume a private rental, check your tenancy agreement to see if any form of insolvency affects your tenancy, eg bankruptcy, a DRO.,

    don't worry you're not at that stage.

    you are in limbo land, not poor enough for a debt management plan, DRO or bankruptcy, but not rich enough to pay off these credit cards at a fast rate to clear them in a speedy fashion( interest is the killer)

    that's why I asked for a fresh SAO , a realistic one, not living like a nun or a hermit, so up all your flexible expenses,for the full family , it's a household outgoings, not just your own costs, clothes, shopping, gifts, emergency fund,haircuts, other travel such as going out in bus train to visit places, then a leisure amount to spend once you get there etc, and see what position you really are in 

    I attach the acceptable  max limits in flexible expenses and you will see you are underspending 



    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • Loyalroyal_2
    Loyalroyal_2 Posts: 19 Forumite
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    [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 0[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 1150
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 850
    Other income............................ 262[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2262[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 797
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 237
    Electricity............................. 167
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 35
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 31
    TV Licence.............................. 15
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 78
    Groceries etc. ......................... 360
    Clothing................................ 60
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 40
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 30
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 10
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 10
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 12
    Life assurance ......................... 10
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 15
    Haircuts................................ 10
    Entertainment........................... 50
    Holiday................................. 60
    Emergency fund.......................... 30
    (Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0
    gym..................................... 28
    appliance cover......................... 25[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2110[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 0[/b]
    [b]
    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    credit card....................10000.....162.......17
    credit card....................5885......130.......20
    credit card....................6549......0.........25
    Loan ..........................611.......18........29[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........23045.....310.......-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2,262
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,110
    Available for debt repayments........... 152
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 310[b]
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -158[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -23,045[b]
    Net Assets.............................. -23,045[/b]

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  • Loyalroyal_2
    Loyalroyal_2 Posts: 19 Forumite
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    My son works but is only part time he pays me £12 a week , we are in a housing association property , can't claim for single occupancy as son is here, 
    posted new soa its more accurate than my first one 
    what happens next? 
     
  • stu12345_2
    stu12345_2 Posts: 1,576 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2024 at 2:54PM
     why is the £6549 card not getting any regular payments, surely the terms of the agreement states minimum payment due, and you don't want to be seen paying one creditor and not another, that's preferential treatment, which is a no no 

    any debt plan advice would have expected a regular payment due( even if you can't afford  to,, but simply the terms and conditions of that card in your SAO, even if somehow or another the creditor has said no payments for a month or two

    you have some choices , either up your expenses a little more and qualify for a DRO , you are only allowed £75 month excess.
     or you lower expenses and do a lengthy debt management plan., don't advise, cus in reality you need a reasonable standard of living, not a pauper on a long dmp 

     then contact a debt charity like money wellness, stepchange ,  citizens advice bureau or the one I like christians against poverty who are excellent

    and present them with a SAO, like this, but you can still up your expenses before  you do present them with your income, overheads, cos at moment ,they are still too low in areas, they then give you their own forms like that you fill in.

    they will contact creditors , stop interest if they have a  solution that works, but if you keep your available amount to contribute at £152, they will say a debt plan will take 15 years to repay and that's too long, usual it's 6 years or under. and they will suggest another solution 

    I'm am still going towards a DRO, not an IVA cos you have no assets to protect , and as long as your landlord has no restrictions on insolvency when renting.

    but you may not be allowed an emergency fund or gym membership in a dro, cos you will have up to  £75  excess anyway a month to keep and do  with you want.

    you can give more room to up your haircuts , entertainment and shopping cos it's still low for a family of 3. but don't have a completely negative budget even if you can give your creditors nothing, and have done your priority  bills and variable expenses,cos thar plan will be unworkable and not approved 

    step change  , nation debt line dont do DROs but the other organisations i listed do

     I know if you offer £152 a month, some of debt charities  may wrongly suggest a 5 yr IVA, which you want to avoid, as i explained in my previous post.

    a dro would suit you far better, 12 months debt free, it's just getting your budget to show you have £75 or under a month excess and it will stay that way for 12 months and it costs nothing for a DRO, no huge IVA £4000 fees, it's completely free to do.
    Christians Against Poverty solved my debt problem, when all other debt charities failed. Give them a call !! ( You don't have to be a Christian ! )

    https://capuk.org/contact-us
  • Loyalroyal_2
    Loyalroyal_2 Posts: 19 Forumite
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    sorry that missing payment was an over sight 
  • Loyalroyal_2
    Loyalroyal_2 Posts: 19 Forumite
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    [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 0[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 1150
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 850
    Other income............................ 262[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2262[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 797
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 237
    Electricity............................. 167
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 35
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 31
    TV Licence.............................. 15
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 78
    Groceries etc. ......................... 360
    Clothing................................ 60
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 40
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 30
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 10
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 10
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 12
    Life assurance ......................... 10
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 15
    Haircuts................................ 10
    Entertainment........................... 50
    Holiday................................. 60
    Emergency fund.......................... 30
    (Unnamed monthly expense)............... 0
    gym..................................... 28
    appliance cover......................... 25[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2110[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 0[/b]
    [b]
    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    credit card....................10000.....162.......17
    credit card....................5885......130.......20
    credit card....................6549......73........25
    Loan ..........................611.......18........29[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........23045.....383.......-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2,262
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,110
    Available for debt repayments........... 152
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 383[b]
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -231[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -23,045[b]
    Net Assets.............................. -23,045[/b]

    [i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.stoozing.com. 
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