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Sickness - asked to work
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LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.0 -
Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.0 -
LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.0 -
Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.
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It seems a perfectly reasonable question to ask, so long as they accept the answer. And the answer I would give is something along the lines of that obviously I can't tell in advance exactly how I will feel, but anticipate that recovery will leave me very short of energy.But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
Lewis Carroll1 -
MattMattMattUK said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.
There are a lot of assumptions in your statement, many that are inaccurate.1 -
Royoftherovers2024 said:MattMattMattUK said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.Royoftherovers2024 said:There are a lot of assumptions in your statement, many that are inaccurate.0 -
Do you feel you could do a couple of hours a day at home? Certainly would not be doing full time.
Personally that is the way I would look at it.Life in the slow lane0 -
MattMattMattUK said:Royoftherovers2024 said:MattMattMattUK said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:LinLui said:Royoftherovers2024 said:gwynlas said:What do you think? In small teams someone being off sick for a long period puts a lot of strain on others particularly as we approach summer holidays. To me it would depend on nature of operation and provision of sick pay. Technically the employer cannot override your fit note but you could negociate for suitable recompense.
If it is was a major operation with follow up just say no.
It is not a employees role to think about the running of a business, recovery should be the only concern.
You have answered my question really, if a GP cannot be disregarded/override that is fine. Thank you for confirming what I already was thinking.
I have / had full pay but like Brie, I would probably have gone insane anyway if I hadn't done something - there's only so long you can read or watch TV before you crawl up the walls.
Does your employer not have any sickness monitoring process - that's very unusual these days. Not being in it can be handy if they do - one never knows what the future can bring.
The point was made above by someone that if it is ticked as "you are not fit for work" they can't force anyone back to work.
Sickness policy disregards operations which are planned sickness, full pay as well so no incentive to go back and put myself at risk of not healing sufficiently.Royoftherovers2024 said:There are a lot of assumptions in your statement, many that are inaccurate.1 -
Brie said:You might feel well enough for a phased return to work and so log on at home and do an hour each day catching up on emails. Then in week 2 be able to do 2 hours, week 3, 3 hours etc. But only if this works for you.
If you are flat on your back and told not to move then you shouldn't be sitting at a computer typing. If you are able to sit and use a computer without any issues you might consider it. I did when off because while I couldn't walk or drive and so couldn't get to the office I could sit in one spot and do some things in a leisurely fashion. 6 weeks of sitting and watching a box set of Glee or BBT was just too boring for me.
Flat on your back/reclined is not a position suitable for computer typing as you quite rightly say.0
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