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Last chance saloon before insolvency.
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IVAs nominally last 60 months. As a homeowner you could be asked to release equity or do a further year.
I missed that you actually have 3k available each month so it's going to have no real advantage to you2 -
Thanks for the posts.
At the moment I think that I am airing towards cutting back and snowballing the debts. I would rather not default etc if I don't need to . I am not currently in any arrears etc and despite the debt being very high, I am making payments on time each month.
I think that I could make significant cuts in the following areas
Clothes - this just needs to stop for a while - £250
Groceries - £250
Holiday - £400 - we can't afford a holiday
presents - £150
this alone would save £1150 which is insane1 -
Ideally you want to avoid insolvency, as it can create more problems than it solves, on the plus side you have a very good income, so cutting back unnecessary spending and snow balling should work out well.
Food bill can defo be cut, and clothes, I know kids grow quickly, but that`s a lot every month.
It`s a good idea to do this now, I note consolidation has been tried and failed previously, so its good you`ve got past that stage.
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As Dave Ramsey says, "we earn too much money to be this broke" I think you can get this and clear it all by 50, think of that income when you don't have any debt, saving for your future, your children's future and also starting your family off as a new generation of non debtors.
Use some of your cash, keep £1000 in a non related account and that's your emergency fund, the further £1700 use to clear a couple of those debts, quick wins and provides motivation. No more credit cards or loans, or consolidation loans.
You then need to sell everything you can at home and lets see how intense you can be, or are, what's the cancellation cost of the cruise. When I cleared my debt, over the last 6 years I never had one holiday, I still haven't as yet.Baby Step 6/7 . £16000 saved and invested. £47,000 deposit paid on new home DEBT FREE !!!
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fatbelly said:IVAs nominally last 60 months. As a homeowner you could be asked to release equity or do a further year.
I missed that you actually have 3k available each month so it's going to have no real advantage to you
If I sort out the ridiculous food bill, clothes and holidays then I could actually raise more to throw at the debt.
£2200 - contractual payments
£500 - from surplus money
£1000 - saved from cutting back on food/clothes/holidays
Total - £3700 per month
I know that it's not as simple as diving 102k by £3700 as there is interest that is going to accruing, however I wonder if I could potentially do this in 4 years?0 -
Harrysplan said:Hi everyone,
I have been a very long time Lurker on this forum, and have used it for guidance and advice when I have had previous half-hearted attempts at sorting out our debt problems.
today, for the first time ever I have sat down and I’ve completed an SOA. It doesn’t make for pleasant reading but I keep reminding myself that this task wasn’t necessary evil if we have any chance whatsoever of sorting out the absolutely horrendous mess that we have created.
I have used our spending from last month to construct the SOA. I figured that there was no point in creating something aspirational, however when you look at it you will see very clearly the areas that we had massively messed up on.
why am I doing this now? Well, I feel that we are at a point where if we don’t do something drastic we are going to end up bankrupt, and losing our home. The amount of money that we owe is I watering and sickening. Our eldest child is just about to finish university, and this means that the money that we have been using to support her can be diverted towards the debts. We absolutely have to do this now.
my wife works full-time however due to some complex health problems she also receives a PIP. We are very aware that recent media coverage suggests that this could change at some point soon. We really need to get into a better position so that we could deal with this loss of income if necessary.
whilst we are both very aware that we are massively in debt, I haven’t shared the SOA with my wife yet. I fully intend to do this however I want to get the working plan in place before I show her the cold hard figures. The last time we spoke about the debt we discussed that it was around 85k. I am ashamed to say that today was the first time that I’ve ever really added it up as part of the SOA.
we are both very keen to change the way things are. We both turned 43 recently and we agreed that we cannot be in this debt at 50.So, here it is. I have seen a lot of SOA is as part of my lurking on this forum, however I’m pretty ashamed that this one belongs to me.Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 4180Partners monthly income after tax....... 1550Benefits................................ 549Other income............................ 750[b]Total monthly income.................... 7029[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 624Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 142Electricity............................. 94Gas..................................... 45Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 35Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 46TV Licence.............................. 13.25Satellite/Cable TV...................... 49Internet Services....................... 26Groceries etc. ......................... 768Clothing................................ 250Petrol/diesel........................... 120Road tax................................ 0Car Insurance........................... 0Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 40Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 18Pet insurance/vet bills................. 52Buildings insurance..................... 21Contents insurance...................... 18Life assurance ......................... 33.29Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 300Haircuts................................ 50Entertainment........................... 500Holiday................................. 400Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 3644.54[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 2700House value (Gross)..................... 315000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 317700[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 74501....(624)......4.11[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 74501.....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRBarclaycard....................12800.....259.......6.9Barclaycard....................5400......111.......6.9MBNA...........................8752......287.......26Mum loan 2.....................10000.....0.........0Zopa...........................1200......75........29.9Elfin Market...................1900......111.......38.8JD Williams....................1800......85........49Creation CC....................4500......101.......24HSBC CC........................2874......86........16.9Barclaycard 3..................8500......248.......24.2Loan 3.........................8500......210.......19.5Cosolidation loan 2............8000......132.......8.8Consolidation loan.............14000.....361.......18.9Loan from mum..................4500......90........0Natwest........................9875......99........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........102601....2255......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 7,029Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 3,644.54Available for debt repayments........... 3,384.46Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 2,255[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 1,129.46[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 317,700Total HP & Secured debt................. -74,501Total Unsecured debt.................... -102,601[b]Net Assets.............................. 140,598[/b]
Tackle the most expensive debts first and close them down as you pay them off. Do not consolidate or borrow more from family. It hasn't worked and indeed has made things worse. You have a decent income but have obviously got used to spending without keeping track. What is that £9875 debt with Nat West?I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Hi everyone,
I have redrafted my SOA and have taken out the ridiculous amounts of overspend and replaced them with what I think it more appropriate. I know that this is aspirational, but it does show what an impact this could make on our debt repayment power.Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 2Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 4180Partners monthly income after tax....... 1550Benefits................................ 549Other income............................ 750[b]Total monthly income.................... 7029[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 624Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 142Electricity............................. 94Gas..................................... 45Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 35Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 46TV Licence.............................. 13.25Satellite/Cable TV...................... 49Internet Services....................... 26Groceries etc. ......................... 450Clothing................................ 0Petrol/diesel........................... 0Road tax................................ 0Car Insurance........................... 0Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 40Other child related expenses............ 0Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 18Pet insurance/vet bills................. 52Buildings insurance..................... 21Contents insurance...................... 18Life assurance ......................... 33.29Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 100Haircuts................................ 30Entertainment........................... 150Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 1986.54[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 2700House value (Gross)..................... 315000Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 317700[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 74501....(624)......4.11[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 74501.....-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRbarclaycard....................12800.....259.......6.9barclaycard....................5400......111.......6.9MBNA...........................8752......287.......26Natwest........................9875......99........0Loan from mum..................4500......90........0Consolidation loan ............14000.....361.......18.9Consolidation loan 2...........8000......132.......8.8Loan 3.........................8500......210.......19.5Barclaycard 3..................8500......248.......24.2HSBC CC........................2874......86........16.9Creation CC....................4500......101.......24JD williams....................1800......85........49Elfin market...................1900......111.......38.8ZOPA...........................1200......75........29.9Mum loan 2.....................10000.....0.........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........102601....2255......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 7,029Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,986.54Available for debt repayments........... 5,042.46Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 2,255[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 2,787.46[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 317,700Total HP & Secured debt................. -74,501Total Unsecured debt.................... -102,601[b]Net Assets.............................. 140,598[/b]0 -
Presents are still high. no need to spend anywhere near that much.
Same for entertainment.
Nothing for clothing? No one ever needs pants, socks etc. Only £25 monthly would cover that.
Buildings and contents insurance could perhaps come down when due for renewal.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Grumpelstiltskin said:Presents are still high. no need to spend anywhere near that much.
Same for entertainment.
Nothing for clothing? No one ever needs pants, socks etc. Only £25 monthly would cover that.
Buildings and contents insurance could perhaps come down when due for renewal.0 -
Harrysplan said:NeverendingDMP said:Have you got a car..you've put petrol costs but not insurance, maintenance etc.
Also what sticks out to me is that it must be hard to keep track of all the payments and that in turn is making budgeting harder. Lots of payments to organise to different people.
Lastly when is the holiday and after you have saved if you miss the next holiday loan from mum or creation for example could be paid of in 12 months.
Od say double check your soa and then list your debts in the order you want to try and payment them off. Low to high, high interest to low, mix and match on what's important to you. Debt payoff planner app or the website what's the cost.com are both very useful for this
Thank you for posting. We have a car through a salary sacrifice scheme at my work. Its not something I would do again, however I am tied in for a while and I can't afford the exit fees. All maintenance and MOT's are included. It's also electric so no petrol or diesel costs
I am ashamed to say that we are going on a cruise this summer to celebrate a big birthday of a family member. This was booked well before we came to our senses and it will the last expensive holiday that we go on for a very long time! The balance is paid now so we will lost a lot of money if we cancel. It's all inclusive so we are just not going to spend any other money
Everything if direct debit so I don't have to physically make the payments, however I agree that there is a lot to manage!Jan 18 Joint debts 35,213
Mortgage Jan 18- 77224 May 25- just under 65k
June 25 Debts in my name only £5170. DH can't keep track...0
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