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What can I do to leave earlier during notice period due to stress from my boss and start new job

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  • Hi he sent an email stating that my leave will depend on the handover process. He states that if he is happy with it, he will decide where I can leave and will get paid up to that day. The problem is I don't know when. My notice doesn't finish til mid May but he says he may release me mid Apr, 20th April or even May.  As I asked before if I could leave on the 30th April he didn't say yes or no, instead came back with this.  I want tell my new employer when I can start as they want me ASAP but my current boss is playing a game which is aiming for me to leave without a pay for the period until I start my job 
  • Emmia
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    Work the 8 weeks and tell the company you're joining that date. The risk is your boss let's you leave earlier and you have a gap with no pay. 

    Alternatively if you're willing to burn your bridges, just walk out of your current employer and join the new one - but that can create difficulties in the future, if people ask why you left. 

    I walked out of a retail weekend job once, when they tried to tell me my notice period was 3 months not 1 month, which happened to coincide with the busy Christmas period. I pointed out my contract stated one month, and I already had 3 weeks of leave booked (they'd insisted on those 3 weeks too) so that the effect was that I had 1 shift remaining... I walked out at the end of the shift and never went back. 

    At the time I had 2 jobs, so the job I walked out of vanished from my CV and there was apparently no gap in my employment history.
  • Emmia
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    TELLIT01 said:
    Emmia said:
    Work the 8 weeks and tell the company you're joining that date. The risk is your boss let's you leave earlier and you have a gap with no pay. 


    If the OP has to, and does, give 8 weeks notice, and the employer decides to release them early, the OP would be entitled to payment for the full 8 weeks.  The employer can't legally say 'you leave today and get no more pay'.

    Indeed, but the boss is being difficult... so might try it on
  • prowla
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    You're working your notice period; treat it as a holiday where you have to drop in to work.
    If there's handover required, then it is up to the company to manage it; the only consideration is that you have a hard stop at the end of the 8 weeks.
    The company can ask you to stop working earlier but they still have to pay you; typically the mechanism is to put you on "gardening leave".
  • saajan_12
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    TELLIT01 said:
    Emmia said:
    Work the 8 weeks and tell the company you're joining that date. The risk is your boss let's you leave earlier and you have a gap with no pay. 


    If the OP has to, and does, give 8 weeks notice, and the employer decides to release them early, the OP would be entitled to payment for the full 8 weeks.  The employer can't legally say 'you leave today and get no more pay'.

    Sounds like the employer is suggesting a mutual agreement to end earlier with less notice IF employee really wants to leave early. So 


    Option A: stick to contractual 8 week notice & 8 weeks pay
    Option B: shorter leaving date & pay, tbc what date. 
    ---> poor deal if the OP values the continuous pay more than the chance of getting out early and can't start at the new place at the drop of a hat. 
    Option C: shorter leaving date confirmed now
    ---> poor deal for employer as they don't know they'll get handover done by then
    Option D: shorter leaving date + gardening
    --> why would the employer want this, they actually want the work for the full time)

    If you can't agree on a variation then just go back and say it's fine, you'll stick to the 8 weeks as agreed (option A)
  • sheramber
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    You can tell your new employer when you can start. You can start mid May.

    You could go off sick until then if you get a fit note from your GP.

    Do you have any holidays that that you have not taken, that you could use to shorten your notice period?
  • General_Grant
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    sheramber said:
    You can tell your new employer when you can start. You can start mid May.

    You could go off sick until then if you get a fit note from your GP.

    Do you have any holidays that that you have not taken, that you could use to shorten your notice period?
    As pointed out in a couple of posts on the first page of this thread, holidays aren't really relevant.  Added to that, the OP said they would have accrued just 3 days (and presumably this is "accrued but not taken").
  • Iamdebtfree
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    edited 7 April 2024 at 9:45PM
    Jablonska said:
    Hi he sent an email stating that my leave will depend on the handover process. He states that if he is happy with it, he will decide where I can leave and will get paid up to that day. The problem is I don't know when. My notice doesn't finish til mid May but he says he may release me mid Apr, 20th April or even May.  As I asked before if I could leave on the 30th April he didn't say yes or no, instead came back with this.  I want tell my new employer when I can start as they want me ASAP but my current boss is playing a game which is aiming for me to leave without a pay for the period until I start my job 
    My goodness, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Been there, done that. Simple solution: get a sick note from tomorrow - from any gp in your surgery who's available for a 5 mins phone appointment - for as long as possible to start with, citing work/general stress and anxiety. Ask for four weeks, then get it extended for four more weeks. Once done, tell your new employer you can start in one/two/three/ four weeks time, depending on how much of a break you need! Your former employers are nothing to you and you owe them nothing. Handover? What handover? You're sick - they made you sick! Not your problem.  They can go bleep themselves, you've left. Think of yourself, your health and your future, not some a-e bully who is now well in your past!! Wishing you all the best!

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    Jablonska said:
    Hi he sent an email stating that my leave will depend on the handover process. He states that if he is happy with it, he will decide where I can leave and will get paid up to that day. The problem is I don't know when. My notice doesn't finish til mid May but he says he may release me mid Apr, 20th April or even May.  As I asked before if I could leave on the 30th April he didn't say yes or no, instead came back with this.  I want tell my new employer when I can start as they want me ASAP but my current boss is playing a game which is aiming for me to leave without a pay for the period until I start my job 
    My goodness, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Been there, done that. Simple solution: get a sick note from tomorrow - from any gp in your surgery who's available for a 5 mins phone appointment - for as long as possible to start with, citing work/general stress and anxiety. Ask for four weeks, then get it extended for four more weeks. Once done, tell your new employer you can start in one/two/three/ four weeks time, depending on how much of a break you need! Your former employers are nothing to you and you owe them nothing. Handover? What handover? You're sick - they made you sick! Not your problem.  They can go bleep themselves, you've left. Think of yourself, your health and your future, not some a-e bully who is now well in your past!! Wishing you all the best!

    A problem with doing this could be pay. The employer sounds the type who would "forget" to pay any SSP due and may even miscalculate the OP's final pay
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