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Irresponsible lending?

Doobedoobedoo
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My adult son is struggling with his mental health and addiction. He lost his minimum pay job 4 months ago and haven't worked since, although he is trying hard to get another job. He gets £70 a week universal credit. He gets food and home with me. I refuse to give him money. I don't really have any to give but I will not fund his addiction.
I found out that his bank has steadily increased his overdraft to £3000! As if that isn't enough, another bank has given him an account with an overdraft!
How can banks do this? Surely this is irresponsible lending? I am not trying to absolve my son of responsibility, definitely not but I thought after the banking crash that banks were supposed to be a bit more discerning in who they loan money to?
I found out that his bank has steadily increased his overdraft to £3000! As if that isn't enough, another bank has given him an account with an overdraft!
How can banks do this? Surely this is irresponsible lending? I am not trying to absolve my son of responsibility, definitely not but I thought after the banking crash that banks were supposed to be a bit more discerning in who they loan money to?
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How are they supposed to know their customer has an issue unless you approach them?4.29kWp Solar system, 45/55 South/West split in cloudy rainy Cumbria.0
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Doobedoobedoo said:My adult son is struggling with his mental health and addiction. He lost his minimum pay job 4 months ago and haven't worked since, although he is trying hard to get another job. He gets £70 a week universal credit. He gets food and home with me. I refuse to give him money. I don't really have any to give but I will not fund his addiction.
I found out that his bank has steadily increased his overdraft to £3000! As if that isn't enough, another bank has given him an account with an overdraft!
How can banks do this? Surely this is irresponsible lending? I am not trying to absolve my son of responsibility, definitely not but I thought after the banking crash that banks were supposed to be a bit more discerning in who they loan money to?0 -
Spies said:How are they supposed to know their customer has an issue unless you approach them?0
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Spies said:How are they supposed to know their customer has an issue unless you approach them?0
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prettyandfluffy said:Spies said:How are they supposed to know their customer has an issue unless you approach them?4.29kWp Solar system, 45/55 South/West split in cloudy rainy Cumbria.2
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Spies said:prettyandfluffy said:Spies said:How are they supposed to know their customer has an issue unless you approach them?0
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@Grumpy_chap no, I don't know. All I know is that the overdraft was increased in increments of 2-3 hundred at a time, from £300 to £3000.
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My query isn't just about my son. This will go one of two ways for him. He will get a job and slowly pay it back, probably agreeing a payment plan via CAB or similar...or he won't! He will not get another job, he will not get out of the fix he is in at present and the banks will not get their money because he will have none to give.
Is that what we consider responsible lending?
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All the institution can do is come back with a reasonable payment plan, if you're unhappy with the decision you can complain to the financial ombudsman.4.29kWp Solar system, 45/55 South/West split in cloudy rainy Cumbria.0
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With regards to the second account and overdraft, it is possible that your son was not entirely accurate in the application with regards to his earnings. I don’t remember anyone checking that the last time I opened an account.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.2
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