Gifting and DDOA etc
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Sapindus
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I understand that if a parent gives their gown-up child a large amount of money this could cause problems if the parent then needs to go into a care home in the near future.
What happens if a seemingly innocuous item is discovered in the parent's house, which arguably belonged to the child originally so the child takes it home after a "de-cluttering" visit, and which subsequently turns out to be worth quite a bit of money? Would this money be traced back to the parent and count as DDOA?
What happens if a seemingly innocuous item is discovered in the parent's house, which arguably belonged to the child originally so the child takes it home after a "de-cluttering" visit, and which subsequently turns out to be worth quite a bit of money? Would this money be traced back to the parent and count as DDOA?
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Highly unlikely, what is this object?0
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Is the parent by any chance going out to buy said “innocuous item” in order to pretend that the child receives it during a decluttering visit?We’re not living under big brother quite just yet so no, that is very unlikely to get picked up on. Unless it’s within the timescale of the bank statements that are included as part of the financial assessment.
I’m just going to say what I always say. People will generally find ways to fiddle the system but money gives choices. Never underestimate the importance of that.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
elsien said:Is the parent by any chance going out to buy said “innocuous item” in order to pretend that the child receives it during a decluttering visit?We’re not living under big brother quite just yet so no, that is very unlikely to get picked up on. Unless it’s within the timescale of the bank statements that are included as part of the financial assessment.
I’m just going to say what I always say. People will generally find ways to fiddle the system but money gives choices. Never underestimate the importance of that.0 -
It all depends on the situation - DDOA is a factual legal test - was there a deliberate deprivation of assets to avoid care fees?
The OP darts around the question with some vague language around "accidentally" finding out whether something is valuable or suggesting that something "arguably" (why?) belonged to the child anyway.
On any assessment I would consider it highly likely that the parents buying an expensive item, gifting it to the child to on-sell, then retrospectively claiming the value was unknown and/or it always belonged to the child would be viewed as a deliberate deprivation of assets & will have created additional losses along the way in the buying & selling of said expensive item.
As a wider point - it's probably not best to plan your financial future on random house clutter turning out to be priceless antiques.3 -
Spendless said:elsien said:Is the parent by any chance going out to buy said “innocuous item” in order to pretend that the child receives it during a decluttering visit?We’re not living under big brother quite just yet so no, that is very unlikely to get picked up on. Unless it’s within the timescale of the bank statements that are included as part of the financial assessment.
I’m just going to say what I always say. People will generally find ways to fiddle the system but money gives choices. Never underestimate the importance of that.
Best guess would be that local authorities make their own decision on that but a quick google shows City of London asking for 3 months as a starting point which isn't that far back. I imagine they would dig further back if they were given cause to believe things were not right. 3 months of statements showing consistently a good income. low spending but no savings. For example.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
elsien said:Is the parent by any chance going out to buy said “innocuous item” in order to pretend that the child receives it during a decluttering visit?
Another item was bought as a birthday present for a child in the 1980's but didn't leave the home when the child grew up, but has always been understood to belong to them.
And neither item would have cost much originally.
I suppose one answer would be to remove these sorts of items now and not try to realise their value (if they do have any) until after the parent is deceased.0 -
No one is going to be doing anywhere near that level of checks - if they belong to the kids/grandkids, then just give them to the grandkids.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.2 -
The LA can go back as far as they like, but without knowing the value of such items, it seems they are unlikely to be of any interest to the LA.0
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Sapindus said:elsien said:Is the parent by any chance going out to buy said “innocuous item” in order to pretend that the child receives it during a decluttering visit?
Another item was bought as a birthday present for a child in the 1980's but didn't leave the home when the child grew up, but has always been understood to belong to them.
And neither item would have cost much originally.
I suppose one answer would be to remove these sorts of items now and not try to realise their value (if they do have any) until after the parent is deceased.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:Why so coy about what these items are? From the vague descriptions you have given they just sound like household items with would be lumped in with all the other chattels when valuing an estate and no one is ever going to come knocking on your door asking about what your parents did with that Steiff bear or 1st issue Dandy.0
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