Buyer asked for parcel to be posted after 21 days .. I didn't

I sold an item last week, but because I was going away for a few days I posted it off immediately, the same day in fact.

A couple of days later I noticed the buyer had left a note, asking me to wait 21 days before posting  .. but I never saw this .. It's possible the note wasn't even there when I actually did post it .. but of course, I have no way to check this

According to the internet, the RM depot will keep a parcel for a maximum 18-day period. Could I (as the seller) contact the depot and ask them to keep it longer .. after all, my return address is on the parcel, so they will see I am genuine.

thanks

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  • RedImp_2
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    Can’t help with your question but I had a similar message last year so I did hold on to the item until they gave me the nod to send.
    I got a late delivery count for my trouble and the buyer didn’t even leave feedback 
  • RFW
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    The best thing to do would be maybe wait until nearer the end of 18 days and see if you can schedule a redelivery.
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  • soolin
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    RedImp_2 said:
    Can’t help with your question but I had a similar message last year so I did hold on to the item until they gave me the nod to send.
    I got a late delivery count for my trouble and the buyer didn’t even leave feedback 
    Yep, and that’s why I never delay sending. Those late despatch strikes are dangerous so I politely explain to buyers that I need to post or else they need to cancel the sale.
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