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Pre-paid funeral plans: So you have to specify the funeral directors?

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  • tooldle
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    edited 5 March 2024 at 11:13AM
    collinsca said:
    tooldle said:
    Try the coop. They offer funeral bond (paid at today’s price). I’ve not long used my mum’s bond to pay for her funeral. Bond was bought in 1995.
    Thanks - i cant seen anything online about a "funeral bond" - although they do have varying plans...

    I have found 2 different co-op companies on trust-pilot and so i am nervous about co-op. Maybe i dont understand the company structure!?


    one which is great:
    The Co-operative Funeralcare - Southern Co-op Reviews | Read Customer Service Reviews of funeralcare.co.uk (trustpilot.com)
    and one which isn't:
    Co-op Funeralcare Reviews | Read Customer Service Reviews of coop.co.uk/funeralcare (trustpilot.com)

    I now see first one is "co-operative", second is "co-op" - are these different companies?

    There are a number of coops. My mum’s bond was purchased from southern Coop. When it came to using it, she was in Wales. We didn’t have a problem, the local coop funeral provider claimed from the coop who issued the bond. All the co-op funeral business I’ve dealt with are small local providers. They do share some services. They also offer free legal advice and have a helpline that calls several times to check on the responsible person as they navigate the death admin.
    I found them very good. There were no additional fees to pay when arranging the funeral as I stuck with the arrangements already specified. Ours were for cremations. 
    I’m not sure about the age range though.
    My parents definitely had a bond, rather than a funeral plan. It was paid for in one lump (two bonds) and each specified what they wanted at the time of purchase. 
  • collinsca
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    tooldle said:
    collinsca said:
    tooldle said:
    Try the coop. They offer funeral bond (paid at today’s price). I’ve not long used my mum’s bond to pay for her funeral. Bond was bought in 1995.
    Thanks - i cant seen anything online about a "funeral bond" - although they do have varying plans...

    I have found 2 different co-op companies on trust-pilot and so i am nervous about co-op. Maybe i dont understand the company structure!?


    one which is great:
    The Co-operative Funeralcare - Southern Co-op Reviews | Read Customer Service Reviews of funeralcare.co.uk (trustpilot.com)
    and one which isn't:
    Co-op Funeralcare Reviews | Read Customer Service Reviews of coop.co.uk/funeralcare (trustpilot.com)

    I now see first one is "co-operative", second is "co-op" - are these different companies?

    There are a number of coops. My mum’s bond was purchased from southern Coop. When it came to using it, she was in Wales. We didn’t have a problem, the local coop funeral provider claimed from the coop who issued the bond. All the co-op funeral business I’ve dealt with are small local providers. They do share some services. They also offer free legal advice and have a helpline that calls several times to check on the responsible person as they navigate the death admin.
    I found them very good. There were no additional fees to pay when arranging the funeral as I stuck with the arrangements already specified. Ours were for cremations. 
    I’m not sure about the age range though.
    My parents definitely had a bond, rather than a funeral plan. It was paid for in one lump (two bonds) and each specified what they wanted at the time of purchase. 
    Thanks for the views.

    Looks like a bond is an old funeral product.: Co-Operative Funeral Bonds — MoneySavingExpert Forum
  • tooldle
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    @collinisca. Seems a strange experience. I used my mum’s at the end of last year. The new plans don’t seem quite so straight forward to me. 
  • collinsca
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    tooldle said:
    @collinisca. Seems a strange experience. I used my mum’s at the end of last year. The new plans don’t seem quite so straight forward to me. 
    Thanks.
    I guess it is like most things nowadays... you don't get as much as you used to and there's lots of stipulations...
    But besides that i think the protection against rising costs is a no brainer.

    My only other issue, which is a pretty big one!...
    I want to be buried not cremated and my locals parish church has just closed for any new burials due to lack of space... so i'm really not sure what options i have!
  • Savvy_Sue
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    collinsca said:

    My only other issue, which is a pretty big one!...
    I want to be buried not cremated and my locals parish church has just closed for any new burials due to lack of space... so i'm really not sure what options i have!
    Other burial options are likely to be available. The local authority may have a municipal cemetery (as well as a crem), or there may be a natural burial ground not too far away. It may sound odd to suggest shopping around now, but BiL is buried in a lovely spot, and my parents' ashes likewise (with a burial option also available there). 
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  • tooldle
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    As I as I understand it @collinsca there are now more choices if you wanted to consider a ‘greener’ option. Here are a few examples https://returnhome.com/top-5-cremation-alternatives-and-eco-friendly-options/ Co-op I believe started to offer the hydrolysis option last year. 
  • collinsca
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    Thank you both for the burial options advice :)
  • WYSPECIAL
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    edited 17 March 2024 at 11:19AM
    collinsca said:
    tooldle said:
    @collinisca. Seems a strange experience. I used my mum’s at the end of last year. The new plans don’t seem quite so straight forward to me. 
    Thanks.
    I guess it is like most things nowadays... you don't get as much as you used to and there's lots of stipulations...
    But besides that i think the protection against rising costs is a no brainer.

    My only other issue, which is a pretty big one!...
    I want to be buried not cremated and my locals parish church has just closed for any new burials due to lack of space... so i'm really not sure what options i have!
    If your local church yard is closed most likely option is the local council cemetery. 
    There may be other local churches that you could be buried in i for the PCC permits it but if your ex not living within the parish boundaries they don’t have to allow it.
    Depending on where you live there may be a private cemetery.
    Are you wanting to pre purchase exclusive right of burial somewhere now so that it isn’t sorted? You can’t do this in a church yard.
  • sheramber
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    I used Golden Charter.

    They allocated it to  a local funeral director who was on their panel.

    They say anybody can buy a plan regardless of age.

    Alternatively you can enquire if a local funeral director deals with any companies. 
  • collinsca
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    WYSPECIAL said:
    collinsca said:
    tooldle said:
    @collinisca. Seems a strange experience. I used my mum’s at the end of last year. The new plans don’t seem quite so straight forward to me. 
    Thanks.
    I guess it is like most things nowadays... you don't get as much as you used to and there's lots of stipulations...
    But besides that i think the protection against rising costs is a no brainer.

    My only other issue, which is a pretty big one!...
    I want to be buried not cremated and my locals parish church has just closed for any new burials due to lack of space... so i'm really not sure what options i have!
    If your local church yard is closed most likely option is the local council cemetery. 
    There may be other local churches that you could be buried in i for the PCC permits it but if your ex not living within the parish boundaries they don’t have to allow it.
    Depending on where you live there may be a private cemetery.
    Are you wanting to pre purchase exclusive right of burial somewhere now so that it isn’t sorted? You can’t do this in a church yard.
    Thanks.
    Yes i appreciate you can't purchase exclusive rights.
    What i really wanted is to be buried in my local village, where i have lived for 50 years, but after 400 years or so they have just closed the cemetery, so i basically don't have an option that i am happy with.
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