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ever hoped somebody 'wouldn't pay?'

Sold something Friday  , just low cost but it did have 2 unique bidders in on it. - buyer has so far not paid. Sent a polite message saying it was ready to be posted - I never send an invoice as it stops the 4 day clock. Then and only then I checked out buyers feedback.

117 feedback received, 26 left for others. Of those 26 feedback only 4 are positive, the rest are all neutral or neg. Buyer appears to whinge about everything, , 'not quite as blue as photo showed' , 'didn't arrive until day after EDD' ' found a flaw buyer said it was mentioned in description but I think they added it later' ....

Now I'm hoping they Don't pay !
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  • Slinky
    Slinky Posts: 11,273 Forumite
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    Oh yes, not on ebay, but when I ran my own service led business there were sometimes potential customers I didn't want to deal with for a variety of reasons. I would have to appear to be particularly incompetant in pre-booking dealings in an attempt to put them off.
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  • GrahamLM52
    GrahamLM52 Posts: 91 Forumite
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    Yes, I know what you mean. I am currently selling a lock. The same person has asked the same question (with slight variations) three times over three days. I have answered each time and also pointed out that what he is asking about  is stated in the item description. I am sure that if he buys the item he will complain that the feature he asked about is not what he expected. I just know it!
  • Spoonie_Turtle
    Spoonie_Turtle Posts: 10,647 Forumite
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    Yes, I know what you mean. I am currently selling a lock. The same person has asked the same question (with slight variations) three times over three days. I have answered each time and also pointed out that what he is asking about  is stated in the item description. I am sure that if he buys the item he will complain that the feature he asked about is not what he expected. I just know it!
    If this is eBay you should be able to block them as an individual member.
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,477 Ambassador
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    edited 6 March 2024 at 3:23PM
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    I’m not sure what I achieve then except a negative for not sending, at least if I send it I stand a chance of not being left feedback at all. 
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
  • Veteransaver
    Veteransaver Posts: 782 Forumite
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    Cancel the order. Tell buyer you dropped and broke it while packaging it.
  • Olinda99
    Olinda99 Posts: 2,042 Forumite
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    edited 6 March 2024 at 3:23PM
    soolin said:
    [Quoted post removed by Forum Team]
    I’m not sure what I achieve then except a negative for not sending, at least if I send it I stand a chance of not being left feedback at all. 
    the buyer will do a item not received and you then refund
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,477 Ambassador
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    edited 6 March 2024 at 3:24PM
    Olinda99 said:
    soolin said:
    [Quoted post removed by Forum Team]
    I’m not sure what I achieve then except a negative for not sending, at least if I send it I stand a chance of not being left feedback at all. 
    the buyer will do a item not received and you then refund
    And they can leave me feedback , so it’s probably easier for me to send item and hope she likes it. Still no payment though , although my last late payer actually paid about 15 minutes before the 4 days was up.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
  • rollingmoon
    rollingmoon Posts: 296 Forumite
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    ...what he is asking about  is stated in the item description.

    First instance of that gets you blocked by me, possibly harsh in some eyes, but I have almost no trouble with TSFEs these days.
  • Miser1964
    Miser1964 Posts: 283 Forumite
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    >The same person has asked the same question (with slight variations) three times over three days<

    Block them.
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,477 Ambassador
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    I agree, block them.

    My Non payer has already been blocked by me - regardless of whether or not they end up paying I can't be bothered to deal with people who mis use the feedback system like that. 
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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