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  • Emmia
    Emmia Posts: 7,529 Forumite
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    Blotto17 said:
    Well there is concerns she is on a zero hour contract 
    That's even more reason for her to protect the £40k  and her interest in the portion of the property that buys.
  • Ady87
    Ady87 Posts: 284 Forumite
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    You’ll never get someone on this board to advocate for sketchy activity. Do I think you would get away with it if she signed a declaration that the £40k was a gift, on the understanding that she wasn’t going to live in the property but then she just moved in week 1? Yes. Do I think that’s a good idea? No.
  • Ady87 said:
    You’ll never get someone on this board to advocate for sketchy activity. Do I think you would get away with it if she signed a declaration that the £40k was a gift, on the understanding that she wasn’t going to live in the property but then she just moved in week 1? Yes. Do I think that’s a good idea? No.
    It’s just moving forward and living with that thought in your head. You don’t want niggling doubts. There’s enough stress involved as it is 
  • Bigphil1474
    Bigphil1474 Posts: 4,207 Forumite
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    It's a right pain buying a house, but you don't really want lies and half truths making it worse. As a previous poster said, can't see why her income and financial situation should make it less likely they'll get a mortgage if she doesn't have any problems.

    From her perspective, I'd be saying a big no, as she potentially loses all her money - not just if the guy stabs her in the back (people can change), but also if he dies for example - might be able to cover that off in a will, but still risky to me.. If he has a document saying she gave him the money, she wouldn't have a leg to stand on trying to claim it wasn't a gift a few years down the line. Personally, I'd tell your friend to do it properly as a joint mortgage, or him buy on his own without her money and she move in as a separate thing. 
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