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How do you stay motivated with budgeting?

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  • blue.peter
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    MEM62 said:

    The assurance and peace of mind afforded by budgeting is motivation enough.
    Yes, definitely. This is a bigger deal than you might think. Many years ago (mid-1980s), I got myself into pretty dire straits as a result of biting off a bigger mortgage than I could chew. I'd get stroppy letters from my bank manager every few weeks. They only served to add more stress. I had pretty much no social life for several years. Budgeting - and sticking to my budget - was my way out. It took me a while (and a promotion), but I did it. And sticking to the discipline over many years has been good.

  • MEM62
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    MEM62 said:

    The assurance and peace of mind afforded by budgeting is motivation enough.
    Yes, definitely. This is a bigger deal than you might think. Many years ago (mid-1980s), I got myself into pretty dire straits as a result of biting off a bigger mortgage than I could chew. I'd get stroppy letters from my bank manager every few weeks. They only served to add more stress. I had pretty much no social life for several years. Budgeting - and sticking to my budget - was my way out. It took me a while (and a promotion), but I did it. And sticking to the discipline over many years has been good.

    I think many look at a budget as a burden.  Is far from it as it saves you hassle.  Know how much you have, know what your essential spends are, know what your discretionary spends are and plan to live on less than you make.  
  • MEM62
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    Rich1976 said:
    I think it is the word budget or budgeting that people have the issue with. As it can have negative connotations like ‘ being on a budget’ or being restricted in what you can spend.

    in reality it is basically deciding how to split up your monthly pay cheque or pension to live life as best you can without feeling restricted, unless your circumstances dictate otherwise 
    I think you are right in the way that the word is viewed.  Whilst many might associate a budget with those less well off we all need to do it.  Even those with greater wealth and income will run into trouble if they live beyond their means. It's all about controlling what you have - not matter how big or small that number may be.  
  • MEM62 said:
    Rich1976 said:
    I think it is the word budget or budgeting that people have the issue with. As it can have negative connotations like ‘ being on a budget’ or being restricted in what you can spend.

    in reality it is basically deciding how to split up your monthly pay cheque or pension to live life as best you can without feeling restricted, unless your circumstances dictate otherwise 
    I think you are right in the way that the word is viewed.  Whilst many might associate a budget with those less well off we all need to do it.  Even those with greater wealth and income will run into trouble if they live beyond their means. It's all about controlling what you have - not matter how big or small that number may be.  
    I would agree with this.  People who have high income also do not seem to worry until the debt is quite high so in fact budgeting is not something they tend to do until they are at crisis point. 

    For me having and sticking roughly to a budget gives me peace of mind first and foremost. 
    It helps me plan how much I can afford to pay for a new car, a holiday, a meal out etc etc.
    It helps keep me out of debt. 
    It has helped me and my husband retire 8 years early. 
    It has enabled me to help my adult children and grandchildren with monetary gifts.  

    We would not be able to do any of those things if we did not know how much money was coming in, how much is committed to essential outgoings and how much is spare to spend on things we would like and need. In other words a budget. 
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  • Sarahspangles
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    edited 24 February 2024 at 9:32AM
    Rich1976 said:
    I think it is the word budget or budgeting that people have the issue with. As it can have negative connotations like ‘ being on a budget’ or being restricted in what you can spend.

    in reality it is basically deciding how to split up your monthly pay cheque or pension to live life as best you can without feeling restricted, unless your circumstances dictate otherwise 
    This! For me, budgeting is ‘spending with intention’.

    I also think that unless someone has very simple finances, they should consider a paid-for app. I use YNAB. I could certainly recreate that functionality in Excel, I have the skill set. But I put a value on my time.
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  • I wouldn't necessarily recommend this, but my finances have become so complicated since last summer, with stoozing and multiple credit cards, current and different types of savings accounts, plus I have different sources of income.

    If I didn't budget carefully and keep on top of this then I'd very quickly get into a real mess.

    That is highly motivating for me to stick with budgeting. I never did it properly before last summer but now I enjoy it. It feels good to know how much I can spend where with confidence.
  • kimwp
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    Rich1976 said:
    I think it is the word budget or budgeting that people have the issue with. As it can have negative connotations like ‘ being on a budget’ or being restricted in what you can spend.

    in reality it is basically deciding how to split up your monthly pay cheque or pension to live life as best you can without feeling restricted, unless your circumstances dictate otherwise 
    This! For me, budgeting is ‘spending with intention’.

    I also think that unless someone has very simple finances, they should consider a paid-for app. I use YNAB. I could certainly recreate that functionality in Excel, I have the skill set. But I put a value on my time.
    And aligning your spend with your values and what you want to achieve and spend time doing. If you love playing tennis, but can't afford lessons because you spend loads on a phone package you don't really use, that's not good budgeting. 
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