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Okell said:Robbiez66 said:
... I've been returning to sender 'not at this address' everything as I know it's illegal to open someone else's post.
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Robmaya85 said:Keep returning them and do not open the post. has nothing to do with you.
So if your name is Rob Smith and you live at 46 Acacia Avenue, Toytown, TY2 TN3, you are entitled to open mail addressed to anyone else at that same address* - so long as you intend them no detriment and you have reason a reasonable excuse to do so. [Edit: to clarify - I mean anyone else at that address who you don't know or have never heard of. If Tom Clarke also lives there you can't open his mail...]
Incorrectly delivered mail would be e.g. something for the OP's neighbour which the postie has put through the wrong door.3 -
MCT56 said:Had a similar experience a couple of years ago where a finance company sent more than one letter to my elderly relatives address in a small rural village. It was addressed to someone we had never heard of - unusual uncommon name. No one of that name had ever lived at my relatives address or in the small community. I wrote to the sender - a credit company - and told them the situation and to stop sending mail to my relative as they were most anxious about it. To be honest the company were not very helpful as they probably deal with chancers all the time and don’t appreciate the stress this nonsense can cause the elderly. It was apparent that someone had used the address to take out some kind of credit agreement. How they picked the address is a mystery because the company won’t tell you anything due to data protection which is very frustrating. To my mind protection of the elderly in more important than protecting the data of some scammer.
I used to work in the financial sector and writing to them is sadly likely to achieve little.0 -
At least by writing to them you are flagging up the issue so they can investigate the potential fraud and you will have proof that it’s nothing to do with you. We sent our concerns recorded delivery as didn’t want any uninvited debt collectors turning up demanding payments that were nothing to do with my relative and all the stress that involves.1
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MCT56 said:At least by writing to them you are flagging up the issue so they can investigate the potential fraud and you will have proof that it’s nothing to do with you.1
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Correct, but it’s better than doing nothing about it and it provides evidence that you might be useful to hold.0
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MCT56 said:Correct, but it’s better than doing nothing about it and it provides evidence that you might be useful to hold.1
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MCT56 said:Correct, but it’s better than doing nothing about it and it provides evidence that you might be useful to hold.Life in the slow lane0
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born_again said:MCT56 said:Correct, but it’s better than doing nothing about it and it provides evidence that you might be useful to hold.
. They believed me and stopped sending any other correspondence.
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