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My sister and I have power of attorney for our adopted gran who lives in Preston (we live in London). She has given us her bank and card details so that we can do her shopping as and when she needs groceries. As with all banks now, when I go to check out, it asks for verification (via text message / the app) but she doesn't have a mobile. 

I wanted to see if anyone knew if anyone knew if it would be ok for me to put her banking app on my phone so that I can verify payments for her grocery shopping?
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  • Nasqueron
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    What bank sends a verification to buy shopping?

    I pay for groceries with, now, a starling joint account but previously with a Lloyds credit card (both on google pay), I have also used Co-Op and TSB debit cards for switch offers and Halifax CC as well, both physical card and in app, never had this.

    With PoA you should check you are fine to do this given you're just spending on groceries but why not find out from the bank why it's doing this? Or get her a PAYG dirt cheap oldie phone that you can use when shopping

    Sam Vimes' Boots Theory of Socioeconomic Unfairness: 

    People are rich because they spend less money. A poor man buys $10 boots that last a season or two before he's walking in wet shoes and has to buy another pair. A rich man buys $50 boots that are made better and give him 10 years of dry feet. The poor man has spent $100 over those 10 years and still has wet feet.

  • As you have POA you should register that with the bank and they can then issue you with a card.
  • @Nasqueron, gran banks with TSB - it's weird, sometimes they ask for verification and sometimes not. When I put the payment through on my Chase card, it also asked me to verify the payment in the app
  • Many thanks @Keep_pedalling, I didn't think of that - will contact them today. :smile:
  • Zanderman
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    Nasqueron said:
    What bank sends a verification to buy shopping?
    I would guess, though OP doesn't say, that as OP is in London and Gran is in Preston, these grocery purchases are online orders. And online orders often need verification.
  • Barkin
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    edited 16 February 2024 at 12:21PM
    As others have said, POA needs to be registered with any banks etc before it can be used. What you're currently doing isn't using the POA at all - it's just misuse of her account!

    You should give her bank a call, tell them that you wish to register the POA, and find out exactly what their procedure is - what documents etc you need to provide. It'll almost certainly require a branch visit, and you may find it all a bit easier if you also have an account with her bank.

    We've recently done this for my FIL with Barclays. My wife already banks with them, which made things a bit easier. 
    Now it's all setup & done, she has her own card for his account, and can operate it through her own online banking. (eta but not through the mobile app) 

    It's a bit of a faff, but it really does need to be done properly. 
  • Nasqueron
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    Zanderman said:
    Nasqueron said:
    What bank sends a verification to buy shopping?
    I would guess, though OP doesn't say, that as OP is in London and Gran is in Preston, these grocery purchases are online orders. And online orders often need verification.
    Ah I didn't see that they were in London, I think a cheap PAYG phone is the way to go here and link to the account as an alternative

    Sam Vimes' Boots Theory of Socioeconomic Unfairness: 

    People are rich because they spend less money. A poor man buys $10 boots that last a season or two before he's walking in wet shoes and has to buy another pair. A rich man buys $50 boots that are made better and give him 10 years of dry feet. The poor man has spent $100 over those 10 years and still has wet feet.

  • Barkin
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    edited 16 February 2024 at 2:31PM
    Nasqueron said:
    Zanderman said:
    Nasqueron said:
    What bank sends a verification to buy shopping?
    I would guess, though OP doesn't say, that as OP is in London and Gran is in Preston, these grocery purchases are online orders. And online orders often need verification.
    I think a cheap PAYG phone is the way to go here and link to the account as an alternative
    And continue misusing gran's account?
    Properly registering the POA is the correct thing to do.

    What do you mean by "link to the account? 
  • Nasqueron
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    Barkin said:
    Nasqueron said:
    Zanderman said:
    Nasqueron said:
    What bank sends a verification to buy shopping?
    I would guess, though OP doesn't say, that as OP is in London and Gran is in Preston, these grocery purchases are online orders. And online orders often need verification.
    I think a cheap PAYG phone is the way to go here and link to the account as an alternative
    And continue misusing gran's account?
    Properly registering the POA is the correct thing to do.

    What do you mean by "link to the account? 
    I didn't say continuing to misuse the account hence getting the phone rather than trying to put the person's account on their own phone.

    Get the proper cards, get her a phone linked to the account to send authorisations to (which the OP stated in the first post, she doesn't have) then they can do it properly

    Sam Vimes' Boots Theory of Socioeconomic Unfairness: 

    People are rich because they spend less money. A poor man buys $10 boots that last a season or two before he's walking in wet shoes and has to buy another pair. A rich man buys $50 boots that are made better and give him 10 years of dry feet. The poor man has spent $100 over those 10 years and still has wet feet.

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