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Attorney using "cared for" persons car to provide carecare

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My husband and I have POA for finances for both of my parents.
We have one car
My father's in a care home and my mother lives at home . We visit my mother at least once daily , 7 days a week to make her a meal, check she's taken her meds etc etc.
We also do all the shopping and laundry , take her to any appointments and take her to visit my father.
Before my father went into a home we were his main carers providing care twice a day, 7 days a week so we were clocking up the miles on our car , plus using petrol obviously
Mother is 87 now and owns a car but hasn't driven it since November. It was just sitting on the drive.
Very recently she's been told she's not to drive because she needs cataract surgery. She's made the decision that even after surgery if eyesight is much improved she won't drive again as she doesn't feel confident.
We've brought her car to our house and been using it to provide her care and take her to appointments and to visit Dad etc etc.
We don't use it for anything else.
Last year her insurance was £1800 because of her age, she had an SP30 last year or the year before and a couple of years ago or so whilst driving her car as a named driver my father was in an accident involving a bus where he was found at fault.
It might be that now that she wouldn't be a driver the cost would come down considerably if she continued to insure it in her name , but that seems a bit of an odd thing to do when she's never going to drive again
We would like to continue to be able to use her car for her care. It's 12 years old with low miles and a great little car.
Because my husband works part time having non independent parents in 2 different locations with no access to a second vehicle at our house makes life really difficult for us as her carer
I know we could just make ourselves RK and owner with her permission and insure it ourselves etc , but we can't afford to insure it plus my mother pays for the petrol as we only use it for her care . She suggested we take/ use the car and is happy to pay for the petrol etc. This is something she can afford to do and her income is almost double ours.
Re our duty as attorneys and the OPG,
would it be acceptable for us to use her money to continue to pay for the car insurance and petrol ? Practically we'd have to use our POA bank cards for her account to pay for petrol.
Would it be better if she remained the legal owner of the vehicle but we became the RK and insured it or best to leave it as it is?
Sorry it's complicated
We have one car
My father's in a care home and my mother lives at home . We visit my mother at least once daily , 7 days a week to make her a meal, check she's taken her meds etc etc.
We also do all the shopping and laundry , take her to any appointments and take her to visit my father.
Before my father went into a home we were his main carers providing care twice a day, 7 days a week so we were clocking up the miles on our car , plus using petrol obviously
Mother is 87 now and owns a car but hasn't driven it since November. It was just sitting on the drive.
Very recently she's been told she's not to drive because she needs cataract surgery. She's made the decision that even after surgery if eyesight is much improved she won't drive again as she doesn't feel confident.
We've brought her car to our house and been using it to provide her care and take her to appointments and to visit Dad etc etc.
We don't use it for anything else.
Last year her insurance was £1800 because of her age, she had an SP30 last year or the year before and a couple of years ago or so whilst driving her car as a named driver my father was in an accident involving a bus where he was found at fault.
It might be that now that she wouldn't be a driver the cost would come down considerably if she continued to insure it in her name , but that seems a bit of an odd thing to do when she's never going to drive again
We would like to continue to be able to use her car for her care. It's 12 years old with low miles and a great little car.
Because my husband works part time having non independent parents in 2 different locations with no access to a second vehicle at our house makes life really difficult for us as her carer
I know we could just make ourselves RK and owner with her permission and insure it ourselves etc , but we can't afford to insure it plus my mother pays for the petrol as we only use it for her care . She suggested we take/ use the car and is happy to pay for the petrol etc. This is something she can afford to do and her income is almost double ours.
Re our duty as attorneys and the OPG,
would it be acceptable for us to use her money to continue to pay for the car insurance and petrol ? Practically we'd have to use our POA bank cards for her account to pay for petrol.
Would it be better if she remained the legal owner of the vehicle but we became the RK and insured it or best to leave it as it is?
Sorry it's complicated
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If she has capacity then it’s her decision to make, regardless of the LPA.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
Although not intentional in what you're wanting to do - being the main drivers as named drivers, while the main driver doesn't drive it at all could put you in the position of 'fronting' - where less than honest people put an older more experienced driver as the main driver to save money on insurance. It's not what you're doing - but what you're doing could be classed as 'fronting' - as the main driver has to be just that - the main driver - the most miles. So you might unintentionally end up with a claim not being paid for example as a result if the insurance company found out.
This gives a bit more info:
https://www.moneysupermarket.com/car-insurance/what-is-car-insurance-fronting/
If the car is being kept at your address most of the time, and you are now the only drivers, then the insurance needs to reflect that. When my dad gave up driving and I was his carer, we transferred the registration document into my name although the car was still technically his, and I took out a new policy in my name. I didn't even need to put him on as a named driver, as he'd decided he didn't want to drive again. You might want to chat it through with your mum and potentially do something similar, being clear that the car is hers/theirs, and that you just want to ensure that you are covered by insurance properly while using the car for their care and benefit.1 -
I would have thought it would definitely be cheaper for you to insure the car instead of her - she can still own the car but you can be the registered keeper and insure it in your name. I have a second car that I insure for one of my kids to learn to drive - no no claims because that is used on my other car, but the insurance is less than £2501
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Again, if she has capacity there is nothing to stop her from gifting you money for you to insure it yourselves and then use the car for her errands.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
If she is giving up driving then she can simply gift the car to you and can continue to contribute the the expenses in running it. As has already been said she still has mental capacity so the LPA does not come into it.1
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And at the point that the LPA may need to kick in, best interests is about what the person would have done if they were able to decide for themselves.So having clear evidence that your mother wanted to contribute towards keeping the car running for her own use would enable that to continue doing so while she could still afford it.And it would be hard to argue that maintaining a second car for her appointments, and to maintain the contact with her husband would not be in her best interest, all else being equal.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:If she is giving up driving then she can simply gift the car to you and can continue to contribute the the expenses in running it. As has already been said she still has mental capacity so the LPA does not come into it.
As above, the simplest solution might be- her to give you the car as a gift,
- her to give you additional money to cover running costs of the car
Perhaps one thing to consider is whether your mother's estate is likely to be liable for Inheritance Tax. If it is, your mother can give gifts of up to £3k per year without it being added to her estate.
Is the car worth more than £3k?
It might be worth printing out an online valuation of the car on the date it's gifted, to avoid any arguments in the future.
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eddddy said:hyKeep_pedalling said:If she is giving up driving then she can simply gift the car to you and can continue to contribute the the expenses in running it. As has already been said she still has mental capacity so the LPA does not come into it.
As above, the simplest solution might be- her to give you the car as a gift,
- her to give you additional money to cover running costs of the car
Perhaps one thing to consider is whether your mother's estate is likely to be liable for Inheritance Tax. If it is, your mother can give gifts of up to £3k per year without it being added to her estate.
Is the car worth more than £3k?
It might be worth printing out an online valuation of the car on the date it's gifted, to avoid any arguments in the future.1 -
eddddy said:Keep_pedalling said:If she is giving up driving then she can simply gift the car to you and can continue to contribute the the expenses in running it. As has already been said she still has mental capacity so the LPA does not come into it.
As above, the simplest solution might be- her to give you the car as a gift,
- her to give you additional money to cover running costs of the car
Perhaps one thing to consider is whether your mother's estate is likely to be liable for Inheritance Tax. If it is, your mother can give gifts of up to £3k per year without it being added to her estate.
Is the car worth more than £3k?
It might be worth printing out an online valuation of the car on the date it's gifted, to avoid any arguments in the future.
IHT not an issue.
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Thanks everyone. All advice makes sense. I think our heads are in a spin ATM
I've spoken to Mum tonight and she's happy for us to do whatever we want with her car. She's also fine paying the insurance for as long as her and Dad are in 2 different places.
We've got everything crossed that a new care home ( We're having dreadful problems with the one he's been in for the last 3 weeks ) who assessed them both last week can give them rooms. Once they're both in res care we can manage with one car.
Thanks again. 👍🙂0
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