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Missing will, believed to have been "misappropriated" by disgruntled family member: How to proceed?
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If there is a timestamped copy of the original will, person B can still apply for probate adding form PA13 (lost will) with the application ..
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/report-a-will-is-lost-to-support-a-probate-application
On the form you would declare that the will was seen after death. HMCTS will consider the evidence. I'd have thought the timestamp being after death would have added evidential weight. However, you would also need to declare on the form that person C would be prejudiced as a result of the will being proved.
Person B could inform C of intention to apply for probate with the copied will to gauge whether they might challenge?
Consider whether the will is going to result in irreparable damage of the relationship between siblings, the legal costs, the time taken to get resolution etc. Only person B can determine whether it might be worth just giving 50% of the estate to the sibling anyway.Polar Pigs live in pigloos.....2 -
polar_pig said:
Consider whether the will is going to result in irreparable damage of the relationship between siblings, the legal costs, the time taken to get resolution etc. Only person B can determine whether it might be worth just giving 50% of the estate to the sibling anyway.
How large is the estate likely to be, roughly? Will it include their house, or were they renting?
It's likely that B may want to make different choices if the estate is £10,000 or £500,000How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Sea_Shell said:polar_pig said:
Consider whether the will is going to result in irreparable damage of the relationship between siblings, the legal costs, the time taken to get resolution etc. Only person B can determine whether it might be worth just giving 50% of the estate to the sibling anyway.
How large is the estate likely to be, roughly? Will it include their house, or were they renting?
It's likely that B may want to make different choices if the estate is £10,000 or £500,0001 -
user1977 said:polar_pig said:
I'd have thought the timestamp being after death would have added evidential weight.
Having said that when I posted about our solicitor last year when we did our wills and then posted them to us when we hadn't signed them (meaning they were invalid till we got them signed and witnessed and the solicitors don't hold a valid copy), I did get told that you can register your Will somewhere. Sorry can't remember details but sure someone will know and that's probably worth checking out.1 -
Spendless said:user1977 said:polar_pig said:
I'd have thought the timestamp being after death would have added evidential weight.
Surely transaction records could prove the will was granted in the first place?
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northernlass29876 said:Spendless said:user1977 said:polar_pig said:
I'd have thought the timestamp being after death would have added evidential weight.
Having said that when I posted about our solicitor last year when we did our wills and then posted them to us when we hadn't signed them (meaning they were invalid till we got them signed and witnessed and the solicitors don't hold a valid copy), I did get told that you can register your Will somewhere. Sorry can't remember details but sure someone will know and that's probably worth checking out.
Bear in mind that, here, we're not talking about the veracity of the specific will.
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If the solicitors have a draft of the will on their computer systems (i.e. as prepared before signing) AND you have the photographs of the original taken after the person's death - if they match then taken together these could be helpful in obtaining probate...0
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Spendless said:northernlass29876 said:Spendless said:user1977 said:polar_pig said:
I'd have thought the timestamp being after death would have added evidential weight.
Having said that when I posted about our solicitor last year when we did our wills and then posted them to us when we hadn't signed them (meaning they were invalid till we got them signed and witnessed and the solicitors don't hold a valid copy), I did get told that you can register your Will somewhere. Sorry can't remember details but sure someone will know and that's probably worth checking out.
Bear in mind that, here, we're not talking about the veracity of the specific will.
I'm not saying that this means a probate judge will find in favour of Person B, but it will confirm "that the will was granted in the first place", which is what user1977 said.0 -
northernlass29876 said:Spendless said:But that doesn't tell you the contents! That's what's in question here! Our will follows the same rules of intestacy until you get to the disaster clause and we differed at that point because we didn't want our estate distributed the way the law would without a will. We still have a will
I'm not saying that this means a probate judge will find in favour of Person B, but it will confirm "that the will was granted in the first place", which is what user1977 said.It is not that simple. The contents of THAT will may not be in dispute. The problem you have is that with the original missing - you need to overcome the “presumption of revocation”.If an original will is known to have been stored at home by the deceased - but now cannot be found - the law generally assumes that it must have been revoked/destroyed.The photographs may help overcome this presumption. But it could be difficult when you have someone disputing your arguments. If Person C is claiming that Person A destroyed the original before their death.0
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