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  • Sounds as if you are going to have to get some serious professional legal advice if you wish to actually achieve anything.

    This in turn may lead to the Streisand Effect being triggered so you would need to weigh up the pros and cons.
    Things that are differerent: draw & drawer, brought & bought, loose & lose, dose & does, payed & paid


  • Ppardon
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    Sounds as if you are going to have to get some serious professional legal advice if you wish to actually achieve anything.

    This in turn may lead to the Streisand Effect being triggered so you would need to weigh up the pros and cons.
    That's true, if the perpetrators find out about these posts then they might be emboldened and make more posts. Although the posts about me are a few years old now, and hopefully now they've found more productive ways to pass their time by now.

    I think for now i'm going to just let it sit, and wait to see if it actually causes me some problems when it comes to employment. The saga has made me rather paranoid about the whole thing, maybe i'm overthinking
  • Undervalued
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    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
  • GingerTim
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    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
    I think we can all read through those particular lines!
  • Ppardon
    Ppardon Posts: 19 Forumite
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    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
    Of course i'm avoiding saying whether I wrote them, my first response if someone in my professional world asks me about them is to deny it's me.
  • GingerTim
    GingerTim Posts: 2,653 Forumite
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    edited 4 December 2023 at 11:07AM
    Ppardon said:
    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
    Of course i'm avoiding saying whether I wrote them, my first response if someone in my professional world asks me about them is to deny it's me.
    And when, hypothetically of course, people in your professional world discover or infer (as it would appear to be easy to do so from your description above) that you've not told them the truth?
  • Undervalued
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    Ppardon said:
    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
    Of course i'm avoiding saying whether I wrote them, my first response if someone in my professional world asks me about them is to deny it's me.
    This is getting beyond ridiculous. It is very important as your rights and options are very different if you are being maliciously impersonated than if you yourself have posted comments you now regret! 
  • Dakta
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    edited 4 December 2023 at 12:38PM
    If you wrote the posts, then you have to own them. 

    People can and do have careers effected by what they write on the net,  this has been the course for some time.

    I don't consider simply refuting authorship as very professional and as an employer I'd see that as worse indicator of character than most ill-worded posts. 

    I don't personally think you've much to worry about, but at the end of the day if you put it out there...as said above it's simply not defamation if you are just being found out about something you actually did. That's actually your true character they're seeing. 
  • Ppardon
    Ppardon Posts: 19 Forumite
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    Ppardon said:
    Ppardon said:
    Dakta said:
    .

    First of all, this is a community contributed forum so if you post a question here people might give you answers or thoughts you don't want to hear. You're free to ignore these if you don't feel it relevant or useful but it's generally how forums work. 
    Moving on, even with a unique name I doubt it's going to cause you any harm, if the name is the only identifying mark here. You can google me and you'll find lot's of stuff I haven't done, that other people with the exact full name have (and my name isn't exactly common) and you could do that for most people. A name alone would not be enough, unlike linkedin or facebook where you can see their profile, work history, day to day activities etc and make a reasonable link form supplementary info. Nobody just googling for a name with any level of sense will have conviction that's you from that info alone. 

    So if it's just mentioning you by full name I doubt anyone running you through a google would be able to have enough conviction of a link to make any assumptions or judgement.

    The internet is full of people spouting crap, spouting stuff in bad taste, and others trying to make peoples lives hell for any reason they feel fit. Anyone doing  a search on you will be aware of the septic tank nature of forums, etc and so I think a thick skin approach is your best bet.

    Finally, there is always the lesson that anything on the internet is effectively always on the internet or at least out of your control. I have a relative who shall we say in his naïve youth joined some vary dubious political groups that took a lot of hammering at the time due to their less than inclusive policies and he did a lot of public videos of support. This was a fair few years he's grown up a lot, is at management grade in a very inclusive oriented industry and yes, you will find these videos floating around youtube still if you care to look. These could come back to haunt him if someone had the motivation, and he;d have a tall order to get them down as they've been copied, reuploaded etc - he's no control over it.  Be careful what you post. 

    Finally, I also agree whether you wrote the comments has bearing, as even court aside there's a big gulf between someones writing lies about me and I regret what I said how do I cover it




    I have a very unique name. There have been a couple of other people in the sphere of myself and this celebrity who have already been doxxed. The particulars of these posts that have been allegedly written by myself, are consistent with myself: age, place of birth, nationality, physical features etc. So anyone who is prepared to delve into these posts a bit will likely be convinced it's me, though that is proof of nothing of course. If I get a new job and my name is on the website for example, and someone digs enough, then that company will surely be getting phone calls about me, just like with one of these other associates.

    I was mostly hoping to find others who might had similar problems, or someone who knows how to contact someone at Reddit, because when I have tried to find a contact there I just go round and round in circles. Like I said, with Instagram it has been much easier, I report the posts for defamation and they are taken down.

    The posts that have been made about me are clearly libellous, it's the equivalent of a person writing on the internet, that girls "are easy to get into bed when they have had a few drinks" and then suddenly this person is writing many posts saying " Mr X is a self-confessed rapist"....or "If you wanted to make some extra money you could do this..."...."Mr X is a career fraudster and swindler"
    I'm sorry but you keep writing these convoluted paragraphs, seemingly to avoid saying clearly if you did or did not write some or all of these posts yourself!
    Of course i'm avoiding saying whether I wrote them, my first response if someone in my professional world asks me about them is to deny it's me.
    This is getting beyond ridiculous. It is very important as your rights and options are very different if you are being maliciously impersonated than if you yourself have posted comments you now regret! 
    There's a lot of posts, the vast majority of them are nothing of interest,

    But as I said, someone has taken a few of them and twisted what has been said to the point it's slanderous
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