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Daughters debt on my credit score

Springersmad
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My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name. This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.
My daughter has moved out and all correspondence is sent to her new address but in my name.
I have just had a notice on my credit report to say that next have now issued a default against me because this months money hasn't been paid. My daughter is a single mum on a zero hour contract and has had her hours cut and is struggling to make ends meet. She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit. I have tried contacting them but without the account number which I have no access to they won't talk to me about it. My credit rating was very good and now it is getting lower and lower. Is there anything I can do before I have no credit rating left at all.
My daughter has moved out and all correspondence is sent to her new address but in my name.
I have just had a notice on my credit report to say that next have now issued a default against me because this months money hasn't been paid. My daughter is a single mum on a zero hour contract and has had her hours cut and is struggling to make ends meet. She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit. I have tried contacting them but without the account number which I have no access to they won't talk to me about it. My credit rating was very good and now it is getting lower and lower. Is there anything I can do before I have no credit rating left at all.
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Sadly as your name is on the account. Nothing can be done. Even with her telling them it was her. This could lead to a fraud marker @ CIFAS.
Were you aware that your daughter did this?
Forget the made up credit rating. lender do not see that. But they will see all the missed payments & default on your credit history.
In reality the best way out of this, is if you can pay debt off & between you close account. Then get daughter to pay you back, as & when she can.
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If your daughter wants to sort it out, surely she could give you the account number herself?
However as per the above post, your daughter committed fraud by opening the account in your name, and because it is in your name (unless you’re willing to go to the police for a crime number and tell them your daughter, did this without your knowledge or consent ) the only real option is for you to pay it back if you can and then get the money back from her when she is able to repay. Make sure you get the account closed because she could potentially carry on spending on the card.
Might she have done the same for other accounts as well?All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
It’s not really surprising that Next won’t do anything without a crime number to force their hand - if they do, they lose the money they’re owed. Presumably they wouldn’t have given a store account to your daughter or she would have just taken it out in her own name, since she has been making the payments until now - in other similar cases, the person taking out the credit is using another’s name without any intention of paying for the goods.Push this too far and she will get a CIFAS marker and be unable to have a bank account for 6 years, with any accounts that she currently has being closed when the bank see the marker. Your grandchild(ren) might suffer as a result. Unfortunately for her a consequence of using your name is that her circumstances become irrelevant - she would be entitled to breathing space, potentially frozen interest - but the debt is yours.Is your daughter getting all the help she is entitled to? She should claim for any of UC, Child Maintenance, Child Benefit, Council Tax Reduction that may have been overlooked. Also any help that her water company may offer in her circumstances.
I would also suggest paying it and recovering the money from your daughter in due course - potentially letting her off of part of it in lieu of a Christmas gift (if you celebrate it) if that would be easier for her.The default will stay on your file for 6 years, but its impact will reduce once the debt is paid and over time until it is wiped altogether at the 6 year mark. The only way to wipe it from your credit file before that time is the legal route and the associated consequences for your daughter.0 -
Springersmad said:My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name.Springersmad said:This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.Springersmad said:She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit.1
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MEM62 said:Springersmad said:My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name.Springersmad said:This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.Springersmad said:She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit.
Lenders have found out that many families will not do this & also a lot of these cases are worked by the families (no offence to OP)Life in the slow lane0 -
born_again said:MEM62 said:Springersmad said:My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name.Springersmad said:This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.Springersmad said:She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit.
Lenders have found out that many families will not do this & also a lot of these cases are worked by the families (no offence to OP)
Insurers have similar issues when kid takes parent's car "without consent" and then wraps it around a tree but we want a police report of the theft but wouldn't then decline the claim if the police/CPS decide not to prosecute.Springersmad said:Is there anything I can do before I have no credit rating left at all.0 -
Police will try to say it's a civil matter. But it could go down the civil prosecution. But just like insurance, the odds are next to none.
I have once spoken to the police over something like this where they tried to argue it was civil matter or bank should report it.
They were told as a bank we were not refunding in this case & that the parent was a victim of a crime committed by another family member. As this was a loss of money the police wanted to wash their hands of it. Had it been violence they would have had to take action..Life in the slow lane0 -
Springersmad said:My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name. This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.
My daughter has moved out and all correspondence is sent to her new address but in my name.
I have just had a notice on my credit report to say that next have now issued a default against me because this months money hasn't been paid. My daughter is a single mum on a zero hour contract and has had her hours cut and is struggling to make ends meet. She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit. I have tried contacting them but without the account number which I have no access to they won't talk to me about it. My credit rating was very good and now it is getting lower and lower. Is there anything I can do before I have no credit rating left at all.
The alternative would be to get the account details, clear the debt in full and close the account.
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born_again said:Police will try to say it's a civil matter. But it could go down the civil prosecution. But just like insurance, the odds are next to none.
I have once spoken to the police over something like this where they tried to argue it was civil matter or bank should report it.
They were told as a bank we were not refunding in this case & that the parent was a victim of a crime committed by another family member. As this was a loss of money the police wanted to wash their hands of it. Had it been violence they would have had to take action..
With insurance if the police decide to just give a warning or such, not that uncommon given they can just do a FPN for the driving without insurance and ignore the theft bit, then we'd still provide Theft cover as long as the police report doesn't state the family withdrew the complaint/discouraged prosecution etc.
In most cases parents don't want to get their kids criminal records and so they don't go to the police and the decline stands. It also means if a third party is involved they also have to pay their losses (or reimburse ours)... did have one father asking me what I would do given it was looking like a £20k bill for the third party plus whatever damage their was to their own vehicle.1 -
born_again said:MEM62 said:Springersmad said:My daughter took out a store card with next when she was still living at home and unbeknown to me, it was in my name.Springersmad said:This wasn't an issue all the while she was paying it off but over the last year or so she has not been able to make full payments and has been getting into arrears.Springersmad said:She has told next that it is her who took out the account and not me and says they have said they can't do anything about it and can't remove it from my credit.
Lenders have found out that many families will not do this & also a lot of these cases are worked by the families (no offence to OP)0
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