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Money Moral Dilemma: Should we use the builder who messed us around on the quote?

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

A builder gave us a quote for work at our house but it was way over the odds, which he said was due to the rising cost of materials. Although we've heard good things about him, we told him it was beyond our budget and started to look elsewhere. He then came back saying he didn't have much work on, and lowered his quote considerably. Should we go with him now that the price is more manageable, or, as it seemed like he was overcharging us originally, go with someone else and risk lower-quality work?

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  • Brie
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    What's to stop him putting his work with you on hold if he gets a better paying client on the hook?
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    From what I hear locally the good builders are still booked up, the OP's builder not having much work on is a possible concern. As others have said the peak may be behind us but I'm not convinced the backlogs have been cleared though perhaps there are big local variations.
  • Leiden
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    Steer clear.

    It's possible that the real reason he's not got much work on is because he tries this trick on with everyone.


  • Good builders aren’t immediately available - they’ve got a waiting list and usually a long one. He’s right about materials - and also a quote is just that - you’ll be happier at the end if the bill is less, than you would be if he quotes low and it costs more. But the red flag is that he can start straight away.  
  • Have you had any quotes from any other builders to compare prices with?  Also, I would use the Trusted Trader site operated by Trading Standards to find suitable tradesmen- not had a duff person yet from them.  I've not used Checkatrade - got told that they won't allow any adverse reviews of their tradesmen to be displayed on their site - which raised red flags for me!


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  • This just proves the theory that tradespeople pick a number out of thin air they think you'll pay. 
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