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Help! SOA included

lilly81
lilly81 Posts: 623 Forumite
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edited 7 August 2023 pm31 7:55PM in Old style MoneySaving
My X has stopped working and I only found out when he emailed to say that the maintenance was stopped.
Even when his benefits start, I'll only get £7 per week 😞
I've had to have a food bank referral 😳

I have cancelled any non essential direct debits and reduced my budget.

Does anyone has any tips on what I can do to save money?

[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

Household Information[/b]
Number of adults in household........... 1
Number of children in household......... 1
Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]

Monthly Income Details[/b]
Monthly income after tax................ 0
Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
Benefits................................ 2073
Other income............................ 0[b]
Total monthly income.................... 2073[/b][b]

Monthly Expense Details[/b]
Mortgage................................ 0
Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
Rent.................................... 1050
Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
Council tax............................. 0
Electricity............................. 119
Gas..................................... 0
Oil..................................... 0
Water rates............................. 13
Telephone (land line)................... 0
Mobile phone............................ 0.99
TV Licence.............................. 13.37
Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
Internet Services....................... 12.5
Groceries etc. ......................... 275
Clothing................................ 30
Petrol/diesel........................... 150
Road tax................................ 1.65
Car Insurance........................... 35
Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 25
Car parking............................. 0
Other travel............................ 0
Childcare/nursery....................... 0
Other child related expenses............ 30
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 55
Pet insurance/vet bills................. 32
Buildings insurance..................... 0
Contents insurance...................... 10
Life assurance ......................... 0
Other insurance......................... 0
Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
Haircuts................................ 0
Entertainment........................... 0
Holiday................................. 0
Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]
Total monthly expenses.................. 1852.51[/b]
[b]

Assets[/b]
Cash.................................... 0
House value (Gross)..................... 0
Shares and bonds........................ 0
Car(s).................................. 0
Other assets............................ 0[b]
Total Assets............................ 0[/b]
[b]
No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b]

[b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
She'll energy .................400.......50........0[b]
Total unsecured debts..........400.......50........-  [/b]

[b]
Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
Total monthly income.................... 2,073
Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,852.51
Available for debt repayments........... 220.49
Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 50[b]
Amount left after debt repayments....... 170.49[/b]

[b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
Total assets (things you own)........... 0
Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
Total Unsecured debt.................... -400[b]
Net Assets.............................. -400[/b]

[i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.
Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]
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  • MattMattMattUK
    MattMattMattUK Posts: 10,199 Forumite
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    If you post an SOA people will be able to help in terms of your budget, without knowing your expenditure anything else would be speculation. 

    https://www.lemonfool.co.uk/financecalculators/soa.php
  • joedenise
    joedenise Posts: 17,337 Forumite
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    Check out some of the recipes at the start of the Grocery Challenge thread - some of them are very cheap recipes.  Also worth googling Jack Munro's website: https://cookingonabootstrap.com/. Loads of cheap recipes on there including tin can cookery which might help with food bank goods.  Try and get a copy of one of her books (the Tin Can Cook is probably the most useful with regard to food bank cooking).


  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,364 Forumite
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    Are you getting all the benefits that you are entitled to?

    Check out these:
    Benefits calculators - GOV.UK (www.gov.uk)

    And maybe also post on this board if you have any questions regarding benefit eligibility, it's another board that is not judgemental:
    Benefits & tax credits — MoneySavingExpert Forum
  • -taff
    -taff Posts: 15,072 Forumite
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    I would post your SOA on the debt free wannabe board. Not because people here don't know anything, but they are especially used to going through one with a  toothcomb, may spot more and there are very experienced people there. Please don't worry about any flack that may come your way, when youre in a vulnerable position, you may misinterpret something meant bluntly as agressive, so try not to take offence if that does happen.
    First off, I would cancel anything that is extra that you can cancel. Your children may be doing things after school that you pay for, they may have to stop. There's no point hiding that money is tight from them, they will notice anyway. Sell what you can sell, old clothes, books, whatever. Look into things like swagbucks to make extra money, there'll be a page on it on the main website dealing with making a few pounds on the side. Nothing is too small to not do if that makes sense, fiftyp saved here or there will mount up. Find out if you have a community fridge or equivalent in your area, these are free for all and need no referral. Make a meal plan with what you have in the house now. Look on fb for free groups in your local area, [ we have freegle, don't bin it, freecycle, there is free stuff on FB MP, free stuff in various local groups, so keep an eye on them] The more time you can devote to saving money and using what you have wisely, the better, but it is exhausting and tiring and worrying so try to see it as a challenge, if you get your kids involved, make it a game for them. Good luck.
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  • mumtoomany
    mumtoomany Posts: 1,495 Forumite
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    Hello, @Lilly81. First well done for realising you have a problem and posting. I've found the people on old style are very knowledgeable and friendly. I would suggest the following.

    1. As was said above, fill in a SOA, even if you do not post it, or post it then remove it. You need to know what you have coming in and going out.

    2. Go to the gov website "entitled to" check it you are able to get any additional money now your maintainable has stopped.

    3. If you have any debt, head over to the debt free wannabe forum. They have great advise.

    4. Start a spending diary, (DON'T buy one, look around the house of use the back of envelopes or cereal packets). Write down every penny you spend. 

    5. Now you know where the money is going, look at every spend. Do I need it? Can I get it cheaper? Can I replace it with a cheaper option? Can I borrow it? Can I make it? Can I share the cost with someone else?

    6. Look at ways of saving on gas, electric,  petrol/diesel.

    7. Search for local food hubs, olio, community kitchens, to good to go. All these save food from land fill, by selling cheaply/giving it away.

    8. Check out old threads on here by, weezl74, frugldom, greying pilgrim, kimplus8 and others for inspiration.

    9. Keep coming back on here. You are not alone.

    Hugs, to you, mumtoomany.xxx
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  • lilly81
    lilly81 Posts: 623 Forumite
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    [font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]

    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 1[b]

    Monthly Income Details[/b]
    Monthly income after tax................ 0
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 2073
    Other income............................ 0[b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2073[/b][b]

    Monthly Expense Details[/b]
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 1050
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 0
    Electricity............................. 119
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 13
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 0.99
    TV Licence.............................. 13.37
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 12.5
    Groceries etc. ......................... 275
    Clothing................................ 30
    Petrol/diesel........................... 150
    Road tax................................ 1.65
    Car Insurance........................... 35
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 25
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 30
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 55
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 32
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 10
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1852.51[/b]
    [b]

    Assets[/b]
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0[b]
    Total Assets............................ 0[/b]
    [b]
    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts[/b]

    [b]Unsecured Debts[/b]
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    She'll energy .................400.......50........0[b]
    Total unsecured debts..........400.......50........-  [/b]

    [b]
    Monthly Budget Summary[/b]
    Total monthly income.................... 2,073
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,852.51
    Available for debt repayments........... 220.49
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 50[b]
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 170.49[/b]

    [b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -400[b]
    Net Assets.............................. -400[/b]

    [i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.LemonFool.co.uk.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]


    Debt free date 23rd march 2009 🥳Autism is my super power 🏳️🌈 🌈✨
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,364 Forumite
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    lilly81
    Repost your SOA on this board:
    Debt-free wannabe — MoneySavingExpert Forum
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